it was final on halloween how do i deal with it??
2007-07-21 07:05:36 · 5 answers · asked by melissa m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your parents got divorced from each other, not from you. They both still love you but you have some difficult times ahead of you, especially if one or both remarry. Just remember they love you..
2007-07-22 04:43:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww...I'm so sorry. Divorce is really hard, and you often feel like it's all your fault, but it isn't. Sometimes couples just choose not to live together anymore, and there's nothing you can do about it. You can deal with it by maybe going to a friend's house and just talking with her for a while and having fun. Or...You can stay home and do something you enjoy doing. You can always visit both parents. :) Jut try to enjoy being with your parents while you can before they divorce.
2007-07-21 14:12:04 · answer #2 · answered by pup 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Melissa M. it was your parents who divorced and soon enough you will hopefully come to realize that it has nothing to do with you. Rather it is and was your folks who could not live together no longer regardless what the reason and that both are trying to seek out happiness once again. Fact of live is that somewhere along the line one and/or both of them are going to find another person with whom to share their lives and that they will want you to welcome into their lives also. All I can truly suggest is to try and be supportive of both your folks and if one should start talking poorly about the other then ask them to please stop as you don't want to get into their problems and that you still love each of them. Time is a great healer and please trust me when I say that over time it will become very much easier to deal with this change that affects your life also.
2007-07-21 14:12:39 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My parents got divorced when I was 12. Both remaried when I was 16 and 17. I'm 22 now. You will be okay. Alot of parents get divorced. Just remember that they love you and that it is not your fault.
2007-07-21 14:09:55 · answer #4 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are having trouble dealing with the divorce, you need to go to your parents and ask them to get you into counseling to deal with your feelings.
2007-07-21 14:09:45 · answer #5 · answered by allrightythen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋