Family & Relationships - 21 July 2007

ok here's th deal. i hate sucking his Di*k but i still do cuz that's what u do to make the other person happy. he never actually tried to please me down there. i mean even though a man doesnt like going down shouldn't he to make his wife happy. i do it for him. i make him think i want to do it.he got caught watching pon when i was always unhappy in sex. idon't make myself happy by looking at other men performing oral sex on women.last nite i asked him and he said i will do it tonite. its liek i am forcing him to. so i said never mind i know u don't want to. it kills my pleasure that i want from it.he likes me sucking his D**K and ******* me. but thats all he likes. talking won't get us anywhere. he noes already i want it. waht shuld i do.i satisfied his needs much more than he does mine. and still looking at other women. its a big deal in our relationship that one person gets caught with porn.(don't post commments about porn not bing a big deal). so what do i do?

2007-07-21 20:22:44 · 45 answers · asked by baby doll 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my mom is almost old enough to retire and i dont want her to work forever. the problem is im only 12. i want to help her so much!!! if you cant help. plz dont post if your not gonna help. ok? ok! how do i make enough money for my mommy to retire so she can survive. were kinda poor and all but i want her to be able to survive when im in college. thats when she'll need the most help. i need money asap!!!

2007-07-21 20:14:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what happened ...where were you?

2007-07-21 20:12:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Alot of people use a phrase like "that person is so out of style",
or "he said this" and "she said that"
This is becoming a big problem in a community.
Talking about what everyone is or does.
There must be a limit of how far this can go.
Is there a way to make others see that what they are doing is wrong?

2007-07-21 20:12:03 · 11 answers · asked by Luby 5 in Friends

We've been friends for three years. We have a tradition that we hug for holidays, goodbye before a vacation, and anytime I have to go into the hospital. So today when I saw him I asked for my bye-see-in-two-weeks hug. He gave it to me. Then he went somewhere and when he came back by, he asked for another one. I was at work so he reached over the counter. I said you know I do all my loving from the end of the counter. So he came to the end of the counter, passing by a lady and saying excuse me.(...which is English for get out of my way...isn't is?) He acted like he really wanted that hug so I gave him a little kiss to. He had a gleem in his eyes when he left.


So do two hugs mean anything or is it just friends?
And before you ask...Yes I like him-like him.

2007-07-21 20:11:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Click on the link below. Would you rather be the tickler, ticklee or both?

Can you come up with a good caption from the tickler and/or the ticklee?

http://www.fetishhub.com/accounts/rosta5.jpg

2007-07-21 20:05:32 · 5 answers · asked by mgctouch 7 in Singles & Dating

Click on the link below. Would you rather be the tickler, ticklee or both?

Can you come up with a good caption from the tickler and/or the ticklee?

http://www.fetishhub.com/accounts/rosta5.jpg

2007-07-21 20:01:47 · 9 answers · asked by mgctouch 7 in Friends

im getting married this yr wth 5 yrs relationship with him..i like him coz..he loves me & his closed to my family!!! & one guy enter into my life..& i love him a lot more than the 1st one coz he help me a lot and his showing me care, love & most important he respect me a lot too i know him for almost 2 yrs...that's the difference now i like him (1st guy) but i love him (2nd guy)..

2007-07-21 20:00:55 · 4 answers · asked by poohritchiemeh 1 in Weddings

i need help

2007-07-21 19:52:36 · 7 answers · asked by hotgirle13 1 in Singles & Dating

hey my name is jareon... im 20 and im a virgin with the perfect girl and i love her to death but im sure im to young to get married so i would have to ask about sex... should i do it???? whats it like??? whats the best way to do it and why??

2007-07-21 19:52:02 · 5 answers · asked by Adeel A 2 in Singles & Dating

Here is my problem today me my husband and son went to a baptism party! and he did not help me out with my son at all he just got there and went straight to his friends.... anyways so i just let him have his time then out of nowhere i look outside and i see him taking pictures with his friend and a girl right next to him puting her arm around him... then after that another girl and i totally got freaking mad and while he was doing this i walked straight up to where he was and gave him a really bad look. After he was done i called him to the side and and i told him so this is what you do at parties when i am not around? and he told me i was overreacting becuase they were old friends that he had not seen since forever. But i was so freaking mad that i told him fine i won't tell you anything anymore but next time when i see a old guy friend i am going to do the same crap.my question is was i overreacting or did i deserve to put him in his place?

2007-07-21 19:45:20 · 22 answers · asked by *Loving my two boys* 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I met this guy three weeks ago.I went out with this him for the second time but this was our first kiss and it didn't feel like we connected. could it be wrong. or did we kiss to early. What should I do in this situation. He is a very intelligent and nice guy

2007-07-21 19:42:52 · 7 answers · asked by from_me_to_you 3 in Marriage & Divorce

of course i said no(and meant it)

i asked him back

....

there was a pause and he said "i dont know"

i said what do you i dont know?

and he was like im not sure if i would or not.

and i said have you thought about it

and he said yes

"when?"

........."i dont know"

*another long pause*

*the whole time i was thinking WHAT A ******* JERK!"

what should i do?

2007-07-21 19:38:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I lost my second born to SIDS (Sudden Infant Death Syndrome) 17 years ago.. He was born December 20th,1989 (was due on Christmas Day) and we lost him on February 10th,1990 (he was buried on Valentines Day)..he was only 6 weeks old...while Ive long ago learned to accept it and stepped forward with my life ...still to this day on the anniversaries of his birth and death and on Christmas I somewhat withdraw from everything.I feel his absence so intense on those dates it still hurts even after all this time.Each and every year I buy an ornament for the tree with his name engraved on it as well as the year (it helps me) it makes him a part of that Christmas.But I STILL dont celebrate Valentines Day (at all) ..Its a holiday reserved to represent love but for me its the anniversary of the date our loss was made final :( ... is there anyone else out there who can relate??..who's maybe suffered thru this themselves?? and if so... is there any way to make it easier???

2007-07-21 19:36:01 · 2 answers · asked by Suzan S 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

women answer plz!! and how come most women cant have just friends with benefits?

and how would it be a right way to ask a girl u know for a while where there has been some occassional sparks to be a friend with benefit without offending her?

2007-07-21 19:27:28 · 23 answers · asked by loverboyschs 2 in Singles & Dating

I went out with this guy for the second time but this was our first kiss and it didn't feel like we connected. could it be wrong. or did we kiss to early.

2007-07-21 19:26:07 · 3 answers · asked by from_me_to_you 3 in Singles & Dating

First off, Im 16 and a girl. I dress to play hard. I bike in the morning while blasting rock music from my garage, i play sports whenever i can and i recently cut my hair short. My friends tell me i need to be more like a girl and you can believe my parents do. Im a good student, and i want to graduate early. I want to start my life and im trying to get a summer job. I dont do drugs like the majority of my friends do. Im getting pissed off that people dont respect me. I'v tried the girly way but it just doesnt work for me. Im motivated to play hard and succeed. Am a wrong?

2007-07-21 19:24:18 · 24 answers · asked by J-Rye 1 in Friends

it is often said..."if u really love some1 set that person free..if he comes back to u ..then he is urs..otherwise.just think that he was never yours"...do u believe in this n why?

2007-07-21 19:20:22 · 9 answers · asked by pink_b 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-21 19:17:40 · 4 answers · asked by krtar 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in love with more than one girl, however, they all live in Russia/The Ukraine and I would like to bring them here on a K-1 Marriage Visa. They are all aware of what I would like to do, and they are all up for it. They have all meet one another, and they seem to like each other also, some have a little bit more than just "liking" feelings for one another and would love to all be able to marry me and be one big happy family... I know about bigamy, and I know that it's against the law in most American states. However, does this still apply to girls that are moving here from a different country under a marriage visa?

Please supply links to any information you may be able to give me...

Thanks you :)

2007-07-21 19:17:33 · 13 answers · asked by Chris H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

on friday, i went to happy hour and was talking to this girl. i talk to her for a few mins. i learn shes 24 (im 25) and she just moved to my city 2 weeks ago from boston. shes just graduated college & is a physical theraptist.

im physically handicap & i was in a car accident at age 2. I can walk & stuff but i ride in a scooter. i cant walk really far & i tire easy. So we keep talkin and she tells me she has a handicap friend that she tries to get out but wont come out to the bar ect. i told her i used to care what others thougt but i said screw it & started 2 go out a lot. i told her to roll his azz out to get him out. i told her i have problems with girls and dating but i told her i keep tellin myself " if you keep going out, being social, going to events ect ect" that i may find something special i am looking 4. she then told me i was f'n awesome. i told her to get my # but then says to get her's & she inputs it. From this would she know that i am interested in her & vice versa?

2007-07-21 19:16:48 · 16 answers · asked by wheels 2 in Singles & Dating

im 16

2007-07-21 19:16:00 · 16 answers · asked by Alex Leyva 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend's sister is getting married in a couple of weeks. Him and I are known to be the life of the past weddings but the only thing we haven't done besides getting milking on the free bar and dancing on the old women is make a good performance on the wedding video.

We aqre both pretty funny but we are lost on what to do in this video. I'm not sure if anyone has had a memorable moments on the their own video or have viewed any. Any ideas would be appriciated.

Thanks

2007-07-21 19:15:07 · 3 answers · asked by tommy e 1 in Weddings

do you like guys that are *** holes or nice ones that care for you?

you alwasy say the nice one but when it is a nice one your creept

2007-07-21 19:12:19 · 8 answers · asked by mexicanimm11 1 in Singles & Dating

Well.. we broke up like 4 days ago =/ bcuz I started falling for my friend n kissed her (online) n my ex gf who lived in Cali doesn't want to talk to me anymore. The problem is I told her how sorry I was for not telling her sooner that I didn't feel the same way about her, I also let her lash out at me n I told her everything n said that I still wanted to be her friend n talk. I know I messed up and I feel terrible about it :( just a few minutes ago I threw up in the bathroom from crying so hard. I miss her like crazy, I lost my best friend, and I called her about 25 minutes ago to tell her that I'm sorry for the things I told her yesterday. Bcuz, I logged onto this game that she got me to play, n all my stuff was gone, which she took, she cussed me out and I lashed out at her. I never did before that day n I called to apologize.. she wasn't remorseful about anything, even though I was... and it hurts me a lot. please some1 talk to me on msn. my messanger is Mintrified@hotmail.com thnx

2007-07-21 19:10:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

And you know you've not really commited any offense to deserve such a treatment

2007-07-21 19:10:02 · 17 answers · asked by Jessica O 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-21 19:07:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I recently took in a 15 year old girl who was living with her 20 year old boyfriend. Her mother chose her husband over this young girl and threw her out. To make a long story short...she is now living with us and we take care of all her needs. The problem is, she wants her boyfriend to spend the night here at my home. We said he could but they couldnt sleep in the same bed, becuse we have young children and we dont want them to think this behavior is ok. So...that didnt go over well with her, and she goes to spend the night with the boyfriend and our kids ask questions. We dont feel as if we have the right to parent her, only try to guide her in a better direction. Please help...we dont know what to do. BTW I am only 30 and my husband is 31. We know nothing about raising a teenage girl.

2007-07-21 19:02:29 · 8 answers · asked by monkey 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

im deployed to japan just got here two weeks ago. my wife is back home with our six kids, my god daughter ( three months pregnant) and her boyfriend. i may fight in wars and defend our country, but my wife has a much harder job then i do keeping all those kids in line. my buddy who is also the god father to most of my kids steps in and shows is god father duties every time i am deployed. i love him to death for that. today i called home to talk to the family. it was nice to hear every ones voice. made me feel so good as i was on the phone my kids one by one got on to talk to me. four out of the six asked me if derek (my buddy their god father) could stay the night. i didn't know what to say. a part of me just froze. like i said im glad he is there but it kind of felt like i was pushed aside when they asked if he could stay. i dont like feeling like this. i dont know if its the fact that he is around my family so much. im happy and sad at the same time.

2007-07-21 18:58:47 · 10 answers · asked by adrik c 3 in Family

2007-07-21 18:55:46 · 10 answers · asked by joe 2 in Other - Family & Relationships