Family & Relationships - 21 July 2007

I'm a sophmore, hes a freshman...and yes i know how this sounds. We dated for 8 months when i was in 7th grade and he was in 6th, he was my first love I was his first love. the only reason we broke up wuz because i was movin back to NC. Well 3 years later I still love him and he still loves me and we talk everyday for at least an hour. He is movin to the east coast from LV. And he told me he was gonna get me a promise ring cuz when he got back here he was gonna get back with me. And hes not ur typical HS kid...he has like a 4.0 GPA, he dose a lot of community service, he acts like hes 40 sometimes and is very mature and he is really connected to his faith. I know were young and I know this sounds crazy but we are in love. I am also gonna give him a promise ring...but is it to much to soon. I mean come on...8 months of dating and 3 and a half years of being best friends....

2007-07-21 17:41:33 · 6 answers · asked by BRC91 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-21 17:37:29 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We were going out for something like 10 months. He had a really hard life and got depressed easily so I always tried my hardest to make him feel better. He did nothing but compliment me for the longest time.

Then when I went home from college for the summer, we just talked online for a while and he said some things that were kind of hurtful. They wouldn't have been so bad if they came from someone else, but since he had been so incredibly sweet to me before, it really hurt. He was really stressed, and he was taking it out on me.

I don't think he would take it out on me like that if we were just friends because that's not the same sort of bond as a relationship, and we do have a lot in common. The thing is, though, I couldn't stay friends with a boyfriend I had who broke up with me, so would it be possible for him to stay friends with me after I break up with him? I know men have their pride and all.

2007-07-21 17:25:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

after a deep love with a boy and girl they agreed to marry.they wrote bunch of love letters each other.the boy promised to marry her and made affidavit before notary that he will marry her. later his parents refused ( rich & poor basis ) & the boy also refused the girl.now the girl wants marriage with that boy only not any other type of compensation. any legal remedy please.

2007-07-21 17:25:01 · 26 answers · asked by civil servant 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay so hear how it went down
there's this girl i loved with all of my heart and i finally got the courage to ask her out only because i knew she like this other guy who i couldn't possibly compete with. and she said how she didn't like him any more so i ask her out and she said the way i put it make her cry because it was the nicest thing any one had said to her. so thought i won her heart and i finally felt happy for the 1st time in a very very long time. but then right before we parted she said how she loved me but she thought it would ruin our friendship if we went to the next level in our relationship. i was crushed i felt tears building up in my eyes. and she kept saying she was telling the truth and i said i understand and she asked if i was mad a t her and i kept said no i understand.
i was crushed and my already broken heart was shattered.

2007-07-21 17:24:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-21 17:22:14 · 1 answers · asked by asim_darwesh 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hello all. I am eighteen-years-old and I am interested in a thirty-year-old that I work with. We flirt constantly, so I think the affection is returned. But anyhow, my question about this is regarding the male sex drive. I've been told that men in their thirties don't hold a candle to men in their twenties, and I'd like some imput. I've never been with ANYONE, so I don't know what to think.

Please don't judge, just offer advice if possible.

2007-07-21 17:15:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is from New Washington, Aklan, Philippines.Late 40's & early 50's. Member of a Christian denomination. A social worker. A graduate of Philippine Christian College

2007-07-21 17:06:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

it seems everyone in my school has had a boyfriend. even kids in like gr. 5 have bf's! but i can never get one. all my friends have had at least 2 bf's. why can't i get one?

2007-07-21 17:01:39 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just want to know what birds and bees have to do with sex? Why do people refer to them when they talk about it, I just want a simple explination. I know about sex so you don't have to explain that, I just want to know the symbolization of the birds and bees. Please.

2007-07-21 16:59:04 · 1 answers · asked by Tracey D 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

and he kissed me alot. some were small and sweet like on the cheek or forehead or hand(my weak spot) and more on the lips and there was definite passion and a connection. ive known him for a long time, like 6 or 7 years. he is a really sweet guy, but somewhat of a trouble maker. but im having trouble letting go of all the hurt ppl have caused me and im finding it hard to trust him, even tho i have no reason not to. how do i get over it? im just scared.

2007-07-21 16:50:57 · 8 answers · asked by Raven S 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-21 16:42:25 · 21 answers · asked by aminallover29 2 in Singles & Dating

just curious if anyone thinks they have that ability? lmfao

2007-07-21 16:42:05 · 22 answers · asked by faded_for_now 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-21 16:36:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have this friend.well she is a really good friend at least thats what i thut.her name is laura.then i have this friend kara.kara is having a party.about the party kara invites laura but not me.when i ask if shes goin she says no shes got plans.but on the nite of the party she calls me.and says so kara didnt invite you?? (she asked that when she already knew the answer).then i said nope she didnt.then she said wats up with that.y didnt she.but then i heard laughter and i ammediately thut she was there at the party and she was testing me to see what i wud say bad bout kara then kara wud be rite there listening.it was 9:30 at nite.(note cell phones have free min. after 9) she said an excuse that she was wasteing her minutes on her cell phone she had to go.then she said she was at her other friends house darcy.i said ok bye.then i heard lots of laughter.

do u think its time to exclude them from my life or what/note that they were lieing and back stabbing me

how shud i handle this??

2007-07-21 16:35:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

does time heal a broken heart? my boyfriend and i were together for 7 years. we just split up. he is seeing another, but still tells me he loves me? and still calls me, i dont pick up any of his calls. because i;m trying to move on. for a week,... he has been calling me, leaving me msgs saying he is "in trouble", "call me"?.... we cant work things out because there is just too much to fix. i love him but i have to let him go,... what can i do to move on?

2007-07-21 16:34:30 · 12 answers · asked by 1212 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Some1 told me it was a bad idea to walk n2 high school single. Exspecailly if ur pretty like me(that's wat they said-not b'n consited) and if ur go'n 2 a ghetto high school where every1 has a bad attitude and likes 2 fight(like the 1 i'm going to). so do u think it a bad idea?

2007-07-21 16:33:56 · 11 answers · asked by Merci 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-21 16:32:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got engaged before two weeks. I am trying to understand my life partner before marriage. I need serious advices from married persons regarding things to discuss.

2007-07-21 16:32:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have a friend of mine that has been going out with the same guy for 51/2 yrs. She didn't know anything about him watching until he came to her one day and said that since they had been going out he had not been watching porn... as the years went by, she discovered on his computer a porn video and she asked him about it and he said that yeah he watches porn. Now, she asked him to stop but he says he will but he never does. She's told him she doesn't like him watching that...
She feel bad and she's told him that if she is there for him for sexual needs, why does he need porn....
She doesn't know what to do and I don't know what to tell her.. any advice??

2007-07-21 16:31:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what does 'friends with benefits' mean because this guy just told me that we can be friends with benefits... THANK U ALL SO MUCH FOR YOUR HELP!!

2007-07-21 16:30:19 · 49 answers · asked by andrea.babez.xxx<3 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't know what to do. I'm sort of intimidated by her size, but otherwise she's great. She's definitely not fat, but she plays sports, so she has muscle on her. She's also a few inches taller than me. Otherwise, I'm a 5'7" guy...pretty lean (normal weight for my age and size). I dunno wot to do...I usually don't care what other ppl think, but I don't know why I'm concerned about that also....is it too weird?

2007-07-21 16:29:08 · 21 answers · asked by green_e_zeleno 1 in Singles & Dating

Have you ever been spanked by anyone besides your mom or dad, like a grandma or grandpa, aunt or uncle, babysitter, nanny, whoever?

2007-07-21 16:26:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i love this chick and she loves me and we wanan have sex but i do not no wut turns her on wut are sum things that will turn her on

2007-07-21 16:26:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I miss my ex so much. i am always thinking about her. I tried asking her out again, but she said no. I need advice on how to get her back or how to let her go. Please dont say things like move on. i hear enough of that from my friends. Please help me!

2007-07-21 16:25:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-21 16:23:19 · 17 answers · asked by rose 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I live in California and my mother and father are moving to Hawaii tomorrow. I will be moving there in about 3 months with them. I was off work all week and wanted to hang out with them and they said they were very busy with the move. I hung out at there house on Wednesday and called them Thursday and no one returned my calls, I called them friday and no one returned my calls and my mother called me this morning at 7:30 and asked what i was doing today and I told her I was free all day and she said great I will call you right back.. well 4 hours went by and no phone call from her.. i called her .. no answer. I got a call from a friend who needed me to babysit for 2 hours tonight an emergency and I said yes. I got a call from my mom(6:45) to come over and i told her i was babysitting and she got very upset and was like u knew we were leaving tomorrow. Then she said you just dont care. thanks a lot. I told her maybe i can come after.. Do you think she was wrong in what she did to me???

2007-07-21 16:20:55 · 14 answers · asked by Lindsay B 1 in Family

well..next year im going into a high school tht is know for it's drinking habits. My friends tht go to other schools, but are going into grade nine, and are going to this high school already drink. Not often...just once in a while, they'll get together and drink. They don't get drunk or anything. I wanna have a drink like them but i dunno if i shud. My friend and I are planning on hanging out soon, and drinking for the first time, see how it is and stuff. Is that alright? Should we try drinking now or should we just wait until we get offered? or should we not drink at all? one of our friends is REALLY against drinking, and duzn't want us to, but our other friends say it's alright...as long as you don't get drunk. We're 14 btw

2007-07-21 16:19:58 · 15 answers · asked by 'L ov e ly 2 in Singles & Dating

just wonderin

2007-07-21 16:18:36 · 10 answers · asked by Carl G 1 in Weddings

theres this girl that i really like and i want to ask her out but i dont no if she likes me wat do i do and ill describe myself to find out if im nervous cuz of my looks
-medium long brown hair curls at back
-hazel eyes
-nice tan
-very athletic
-smart as hell
-play many sports
and im average height and a bit underweight for 13

2007-07-21 16:15:05 · 7 answers · asked by loveth3irish 2 in Singles & Dating