Plase help I miss my ex?

Question

I miss my ex so much. i am always thinking about her. I tried asking her out again, but she said no. I need advice on how to get her back or how to let her go. Please dont say things like move on. i hear enough of that from my friends. Please help me!

Answer 1

I'm sorry for you loss. There is no easy answer...you don't say how much time has passed since you split, it sounds like not much chance of reconciliation.
Don't hang on to her, it will only disappoint you when she rejects you. I went through this some time ago, I am sorry to say there is no easy way out. Grieve and gradually let go. Don't hold grudges. Though it seems unbearable now, in time it will dissipate.
Try to find pleasure in the moment. If you have friends, lean on them. Talking relieves the pressure building inside.
In the end I suppose it is something time will heal.
I wish you well

Answer 2

All I can tell you is that you can't fight fate.

Some people use these techniques where they act and live their lives as if they don't miss the one they actually do miss... aka showing her that you can live without her. and it was proven that in some cases it actually worked. However, my advice would be to leave her alone for a while and give her sometime to live without you. It also depends on if she broke up with you... because if she did then she might want to not be with you and you have to accept that. For now, meet other people, get to know some other girls and eventually you will meet someone more worthwhile and special. Distract yourself with good friends and do a lot of things you enjoy doing to take your mind off the situation. Afterall, I've been in your position a couple times and it isn't fun but it's just a part of life. There are so many other people out there (:

Answer 3

Dude, I'm sorry things didn't work out between the two of you. I was in the same situation you're in about two months ago. First of all, you need to accept the fact that the relationship is over and that she's gone and she won't come back. Second of all, you need to keep yourself busy, make time to do the things you enjoy like playing sports, hanging out with friends etc. stuff like that. That way you won't have time to think about her. In time you will gradually move on and let her go. Dude honestly, don't get hung up on this girl. Another thing I learned is that life is too short to get hung up on a failed relationship. If you keep thinking about this girl, you will miss out on other girls. You deserve better and eventually you will find a girl so much better than her. Remember, there are plenty of other fish in the sea.

Good luck and hope this helps!!

Answer 4

well, friends usually have good advice in that department. cause other than you, they know the situation better than anyone. so, i would have to side with your friends on the whole "move on" bit. your real question might be how? and my answer is this...distractions, distractions, distractions. now i don't necessarily mean distractions as in women. just keep yourself busy. make it a point to have your mind constantly somewhere else. pick up some new hobbies or something. that's usually what helps me get over someone. these types of things are just life's little lessons. everything happens for a reason. accept what has happened and continue on with your life. you can't change the past. and if things were meant to be...they will be. good luck

Answer 5

she obviously doesn't want to get back together
to get over her- you've got to realize that everything happens for a reason. for whatever reason, you are not with her anymore and you gotta decide what you'll take from the relationship and learn from it for future relationships.

here's something you should read, it's from AA:
Acceptance is the answer to all my problems today. When I am disturbed, it is because I find some person, place, thing or situation -- some fact of my life -- unacceptable to me, and I can find no serenity until I accept that person, place, thing or situation as being exactly the way it is supposed to be at this moment.
Nothing, absolutely nothing happens in God's world by mistake. Unless I accept life completely on life's terms, I cannot be happy. I need to concentrate not so much on what needs to be changed in the world as on what needs to be changed in me and in my attitudes.

Answer 6

First, take a deep breath. If you were in tht relationship for a long time, those feelings are prob still knoting aroung in u. There really isn't anything I can tell u to get over someone u loved. The truth is, u may never get over them, but tht shouldn't stop u from smiling and, Im sory, u asked me not to say this, but move on and smile cuz it happened, not cuz its gone!
:-)
good luck!

Answer 7

Hi, its hard letting go of someone.

I guess the question to ask yourself is do you miss her specifically or are you just lonely?

I would ask you to consider speaking to a professional councellor, someone in that profession even after 2 sessions can help you sort that out.

Answer 8

ok homie first thing is first u need to find out if she even likes u anymore best way to do this is by trying to get her jeleous meaning hanging out with other shorties and ignoring her for a while check out her reaction if she gets jeleous chances are there is something there and i can work with that if not there is really no advice in the world i can give u man

Answer 9

I know this is easier said then done but the first thing you should do is
1.accept how she feels even if your hurt.
2.Dont pressure her to much about it when you come in contact with her and be kind to her.
3. Do things you enjoy to occupy your time and spend time with people you care about

Answer 10

Well, you can only wait if you want her back. Can earn back her love as your girlfriend any other way. That's actually suitable. If you want to get over her, you need to get out try to meet other girls. It may seem like there's no one like her, but there is. Hope it works out!