Family & Relationships - 21 July 2007

2007-07-21 12:39:37 · 9 answers · asked by eldude 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have two friends that will not be named that I think are crazy or c-nile. One day they act all nice to me and are my best friends but the next day they act like we just had a horrible fight and are not speaking to me and like i dont exist!! What do I do???

2007-07-21 12:35:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What can I do. As in recent questions I have said i've been seeing this guy for nine months (Mark), he's 45 and im 43. The problem is his brother(Jeff), gives a lot of signs showing me that he likes me, and i don't have an interest in him, but this is causing trouble between me and Mark. I don't know what to do, I can't ignore Jeff. But when I say hi or something, Mark gets these spurts of jealousy. Help!

2007-07-21 12:33:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I like this guy and i don't know if he likes me, but he is so nice to me but mean to my friends. What do I do if he asks me out?

2007-07-21 12:29:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and doesnt answer her phone all day when she said to call her, and she is out of town. what should i do?

her friends and family dont like me so maybe they are telling her not to answer her phone. should i call the cops?

2007-07-21 12:29:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex who i was with for 6 years walked out on me and our 4 year old son just after new year,obviously i was heartbroken but am managing to get over it but know i will never forget how he treated us or forgive,he left us for someone he worked with and they`ve now moved in together,i dont know his address just the area and have his mobile number.he never phones to ask after our son or to speak to him,he keeps in touch through texts and i suspect it`s when his gf isn`t around,i didnt want my son introduced to this girl as i`ve met her when we were still together at a works do and instantly disliked her,he went behind my back and did it anyway since then if told him he`ll either have to come to mine to see our son or take him out for a while but he wont be staying at their house.So its now been a week since i`ve last heard from him or seen him and even before this he`d easily go 10 days without seeing or speaking to his son,i think it`s the gf thats telling him not to be coming to the

2007-07-21 12:28:24 · 18 answers · asked by onlyme 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you guys like us tiny girls saying 5'3 and under?

2007-07-21 12:27:25 · 2 answers · asked by Sam 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-21 12:27:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

We are having disposable cameras at each guest's table. Our guests will be asked by the DJ to take a photo of each person at the table. After that they may take what ever photos they choose. My questions are,
Where is the best place to put the cameras when they are finished taking the photos? Also what type of container or decoration should be used to put them in. There will be 24 cameras.

2007-07-21 12:21:50 · 13 answers · asked by Patricia K 1 in Weddings

All they do is hurt me in every way possible by starting rumors about me, beating up on me, & causing me to lose out on great opportunities in life. I have it when I forgive them & they hurt me again, & other people say that I put myself in the position to DESERVE to be abused by being too nice & forgiving of my family. They hurt & scam me worse than anybody in the world.

So by people being taught to forgive & forget, how can I if other people tell me that I keep putting myself in dangerous positions by contacting my family? It just hurts me so much that my family only loves me when I have what they want & then kick me up the @$$ once they get it. I'm tired of being depressed & crying over my family. I guess things are never going to change since this has been going on for years, & my twin sister hurts me the most out of my family, when we're supposed to be the closest. So should I avoid them for the REST of my life to prevent from being hurt again & blamed for being the victim?

2007-07-21 12:19:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

A guy from work recently told me how he was intimidated by me and was really shy, to approach me and chat. Why is this im a really nice person i take it i scare him:( lol

2007-07-21 12:19:38 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 43 yrs old, and I've been seeing this fellow for 9 months. I really don't know if he loves me or not, all he does is joke around, kiss, and feel. He does treat me well but I don't see this going anywhere? Any signs that could help me figure this guy out?

2007-07-21 12:16:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This senior girl I know is currently "seeing" a freshman in college. Since he's leaving soon, they're not dating and don't want to get anything started, but they still really like each other. I want to ask her out once he's gone, but a few things hold me back. First, I don't know whether she's still like him as much once he's gone, and if she does it's hopeless. Next, she's a friend of mine, and I don't want it to seem disrespectful, the "once he's out I move in" kinda deals. And lastly, I don't know how to phrase it so it seems more like hanging out then an actual date.
So here's my question:
A) Do most gilrs still go out with guys if the guy's in college and the girl's in high school?
B) will it seem rude and uncaring to ask her out once he leaves? Should I not ask, or how long should I wait?
C) How do I make it should as hanging out, not as a date, even thoguh it is... in that sense?
Thank you!

2007-07-21 12:15:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she always says shes so popular, and she even said she started dating in THIRD GRADE! shes also really skinny and tan and shows it off by wearing tight shirts, reslly short shorts, and tiny bikinis. its annoying, but shes my friend! what should i do? PLEASE don't tell me she isn't really my friend cuz she lives next-door and i cant help but hang out with her. help!

2007-07-21 12:14:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-07-21 12:13:51 · 13 answers · asked by Justin D 1 in Singles & Dating

my mom is very always yelling and she is super sensitive, so yells some more ,my dad always tries to calm down the situation but today mom was yelling at me as usual and my dad just left the house after i cleaned the whole house and the car, and he took the car so we dont know where he is going. My sister isnt helping either because she only helps fuel the rage in my mom against me. any suggestions, ideas, what happens next, ANYTHING will do!?!


i just turned 18, and i am in my first year of running my own business where i teach people how to retire and manage their money. she also yells for me to get a "real" job, like at a bank. I make great money but she wants me to get a job that pays a lot less just because "she thinks" its a real job and what i do is just a hobby

she always threatens me by saying the same thing over and over... "Im this close to not loving you ". blah blah blah

2007-07-21 12:13:39 · 3 answers · asked by ImaYam 3 in Family

2007-07-21 12:12:55 · 10 answers · asked by eoc1000 2 in Friends

ok wat r some signs that a boy only wants you for sex

2007-07-21 12:12:05 · 16 answers · asked by caylee d 2 in Singles & Dating

There this boy and i like him but i do not know if he likes me and he lives far away from me and i would not be able to see him how should i do i do want to go out with him but he lives far away what should i do

2007-07-21 12:10:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

After 8 months her dad finally started paying child support but he still don't came to see her or call to check on her. Recently I found out that he was going behind my back to file for visitation rights. Even though I always give him oppertunities to come see her. She doesn't really know him and we got an a argument and he said he was going to take her from me. What rights does he have if his name is not on her birth certificate. He has way more money than I do and said that he has a lawyer. I'm afraid that he's going to take her and I don't know what I should do I can't afford a lawyer. Any advice would be helpful.

2007-07-21 12:09:48 · 20 answers · asked by yalonda w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Yea yea yea im 17 i should know these things i know but really i dont lol, you can laugh if you want to even i think its funny but seriously i need some advice because i have no idea

2007-07-21 12:05:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you don't act project, thuggish or ghetto, then you're crazy & not normal.

I get shunned the most because I'm the youngest person to go to college & the only one with a degree. I'm the family geek.

2007-07-21 12:01:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Are there any guys out there who date not ONLY for sex and looks? And who are respectful to women?

2007-07-21 12:00:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-21 12:00:30 · 9 answers · asked by shekinah_78 2 in Singles & Dating

Heres the thing - I'm 17, my girlfriend of 3 years is 16. I love her soooo much, I really really do and I care for her so much. Her dad was a drug dealer, and he treated her violently. She absolutely HATES drugs for this reason.

Shes told me from the start of our relationship that if I ever touched drugs again that would be the end of me and her... I understood this and I promised her I never would. But the other night I was very drunk and my friend's were all taking e's and smoking blow. I couldn't resist the temptation and took a few.

I loved it at the time but now I feel soooo guilty and I really don't know whether to tell my girlfriend or not cause I dont wanna lose her!! PLEASE HELP :(

and I know I'm the one in the wrong, so I don't need you's to tell me - I just need some advice. Thanks.

2007-07-21 11:59:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend (who's also been my best friend for ten years!) is returning home after being away for two years. I really want to surprise him with something memorable he'll never forget for his "homecoming". Is a man's idea of romance the same as a woman's (candlelight, music, flowers, etc.)? Does anyone have any suggestions for a masculine-romantic surprise that'll blow his mind??? Thanks! :-)

2007-07-21 11:58:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i really love my boyfriend... i have been w/ him for a year & 1/2...... i no u may say... oh ur only 16 u dont no bout love...
but i do... and dont care wat u think bout that...
i just want to know... my boyfriend likes to have sex... ALOT!...
and i dont want to do it all the time... he doesnt really listen... and wen he does he just makes me feel so bad bout saying no...
and i dont want to leave him... but how can i talk to him and stop having sex all the time?

2007-07-21 11:58:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 33 weeks pregnant. I filed a restraining order against my husband. He's now filed a motion for me to vacate the marital property. We go to court in 2 weeks. At this time i'll be very close to my due date. What are my rights?

2007-07-21 11:57:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what if the guy makes me feel :( and makes u cry and unhappy and critisises u and hurts u by saying stuff that he prob dont realise it's hurting u and makes u have headaches...is a guy like that worth it?

2007-07-21 11:54:46 · 53 answers · asked by allgiggles1984 6 in Singles & Dating

will suddenly start messenging me every night for the longest time.
*90% of the time he will ask me to put on the web cam
*100% of the time he will mention the girl he left me for and how much he loves her etc.
*and lately he's been telling me how he's been getting drunk and drinking for the past week or so(every day!)
*then with each time we chat again, he'll start being nicer and nicer and start sending me kisses and stuff.
he's been with the girl he left me for for 8 months or so and we haven't seen eachother for 8 months(in real life) and i tell him that i like someone else now.
what's up with him?
when i was dating him, he would take 5 minutes to respond "good and you" when HE would messenge me saying"hi" and now he responds extremely quickly and well.
is this normal?
is he being passive agressive or am i just looking to much into this?
thanks,
xao=]

2007-07-21 11:53:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating