my mom is very always yelling and she is super sensitive, so yells some more ,my dad always tries to calm down the situation but today mom was yelling at me as usual and my dad just left the house after i cleaned the whole house and the car, and he took the car so we dont know where he is going. My sister isnt helping either because she only helps fuel the rage in my mom against me. any suggestions, ideas, what happens next, ANYTHING will do!?!
i just turned 18, and i am in my first year of running my own business where i teach people how to retire and manage their money. she also yells for me to get a "real" job, like at a bank. I make great money but she wants me to get a job that pays a lot less just because "she thinks" its a real job and what i do is just a hobby
she always threatens me by saying the same thing over and over... "Im this close to not loving you ". blah blah blah
2007-07-21 12:13:39 · 3 answers · asked by ImaYam 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It sounds like you make enough money to have your own place. If your job is to teach people how to manage money, then you won't have any problem when you get out of your parents home. You don't have to have a fantastic place to call home, but somewhere that allows you to be an adult, out on your own. Sometimes we never appreciate what we have until it's all gone. So move out and you might appreciate your mother more, and your mother can't use you as an excuse to blow up. You don't sound like you respect your mother if what she is saying is blah blah blah. Maybe you should listen to what she is really saying, and being an adult you'll know where she is coming from.
2007-07-21 12:31:03 · answer #1 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. sounds like you have alot on your plate.it doesnt matter what she thinks anymore. your an adult and can make your own decisions. you need to walk right up to her and tell her exactly that. in the meantime, start looking for an appartment. you need to focus on your future and her nagging is just bringing you down. it would be good for you if you were to get away from that negative tension in your house right now. hope all goes well and she realizes that she needs to lay off. best of luck!
2007-07-21 19:21:44 · answer #2 · answered by kay lay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mom sounds like a self absorbed basket case - best advice - keep doing what youare doing, save your money and get your own place.
2007-07-21 19:20:20 · answer #3 · answered by roppin r 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋