Yea yea yea im 17 i should know these things i know but really i dont lol, you can laugh if you want to even i think its funny but seriously i need some advice because i have no idea
2007-07-21 12:05:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Alright ... well I'm 20 and I just had my first kiss about a week ago lol .... and I know, whatever ... I'm old haha.
Anyways, here's what happened ... we were out at a park one night, just chilling on the equipment, and I finally decided that I had waited long enough ... we've been dating about 2 weeks, and it was time. So I chose the "corny" approach, which some women like, I guess haha.
So we were sitting there talking about something to do with doors, and I said, "I'm not sure how to do this, since I've never done it before." So then she says, "What, close a door?" And I said, "No .... this." And I leaned over and kissed her ... but on the cheek. This shows that you're interested, but it's not like some kinda weird lip attack, if you know what I mean. So she started laughing and then we started making out there in the park ... for about 30 mins ... so it worked for me.
Yes, it's scary as hell, and it takes a huuuuuuge leap of faith ... but man oh man, is it worth it! Trust me ... I'm a REALLY shy guy, so this was very hard for me ... but like I said, it is TOTALLY worth it.
After you get over this little mole hill, there's a more important question to be asked ... what to do when making out with a woman? Well I found this little topic that helped me out alot.
http://au.answers.yahoo.com/question/index.php?qid=20070716161846AAyn8K8
Check that out and take the advice ... IT WORKS MAN!
Good luck man, I have faith in you!
2007-07-21 12:26:09 · answer #1 · answered by Hamer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax, breathe, it is something that comes to u naturally. u just naturally know what to do and how to do it. you never know when u2 are gonna kiss. you make lock eyes u may stare at each other's lips. get nervous and fidgety. theres really no really good way to tell but when u feel its the right time jsut go for it.
2007-07-21 12:08:51 · answer #2 · answered by Siroonig 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You just do- you have a hard to resist feeling inside, you start being hard on yourself for not doing it, you keep reminding yourself you have to do it, and you don't feel happy. When you feel that way, take her to the county fair or some place, then do it, when you're both sitting down. Surprise her.
2007-07-21 12:13:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just look into her eyes and if she looks straight at you as with loving eyes (yes, you'll be able to tell) or if shes looking at one eye then the other, lean in just a little bit and if she does the same, tilt your head and go for it.
2007-07-21 12:10:56 · answer #4 · answered by kay lay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't examine the perfect time. You will know and you need to just do it. Just do not take it any further than that.
2007-07-21 12:07:54 · answer #5 · answered by bobbo342 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
haha its okay, this is normal. there really isnt a 'time' for the first kiss. if you feel the urge to kiss her then do it. dont force yourself to do it. it wont feel good. good luck [:
2007-07-21 12:17:17 · answer #6 · answered by May 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you feel ready-give her an "air kiss" & ask "do I get a kiss"? & maybe she'll come to you or let her kiss you first.
2007-07-21 12:11:47 · answer #7 · answered by strange-artist 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not funny at all. I say that you will know when it's time....when that comes, go for it.
2007-07-21 12:09:37 · answer #8 · answered by dr_salvadore@verizon.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You two have to be in the moment. Try getting close to her and if she hesitats, back off. Try watching HITCH!!!
2007-07-21 12:08:52 · answer #9 · answered by Cryptic 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Check out the body signals that she will be sending out to you.
2007-07-21 12:09:09 · answer #10 · answered by Miss J 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋