Family & Relationships - 21 July 2007

If you do what do you like a big one or a small one?

2007-07-21 00:54:10 · 10 answers · asked by Guitarist4333 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex-husband and I got married at 27 and at the time he was fully aware that I never intended to have children and he told me he was ok with that. I couldn’t find a doctor who’d let me get my tubes tied in my 20’s so I took every other precaution I had available to make sure I didn’t get pregnant. After 3 years of marriage I got pregnant and was determined to abort it but everyone around me especially my husband begged me to reconsider assuring me I’d feel different once she was born. I ended up having my daughter , signing away all parental rights and divorcing him because I didn’t see how we could make it work with a baby I never wanted in our lives. I see my daughter about four times a month when dropping off the 5 dogs we share custody over. My family has virtually disowned me for not having any contact with my daughter who turned 3 last week. Why can’t they just understand that I don’t want to be part of her life? Note: At the insistence of my mother who adores children, I went to several doctors who all confirmed that I’m not suffering from any type of depression and am in perfect health. I just recently got a promotion with a significant pay increase and have a wonderful boyfriend of a year and just couldn’t be happier. Why can’t they be happy for me?

2007-07-21 00:42:36 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My ex-husband and I got married at 27 and at the time he was fully aware that I never intended to have children and he told me he was ok with that. I couldn’t find a doctor who’d let me get my tubes tied in my 20’s so I took every other precaution I had available to make sure I didn’t get pregnant. After 3 years of marriage I got pregnant and was determined to abort it but everyone around me especially my husband begged me to reconsider assuring me I’d feel different once she was born. I ended up having my daughter , signing away all parental rights and divorcing him because I didn’t see how we could make it work with a baby I never wanted in our lives. I see my daughter about four times a month when dropping off the 5 dogs we share custody over. My family has virtually disowned me for not having any contact with my daughter who turned 3 last week. Why can’t they just understand that I don’t want to be part of her life? Note: At the insistence of my mother who adores children, I went to several doctors who all confirmed that I’m not suffering from any type of depression and am in perfect health. I just recently got a promotion with a significant pay increase and have a wonderful boyfriend of a year and just couldn’t be happier. Why can’t they be happy for me?

2007-07-21 00:42:19 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

man i sure hope not she has been cutting it really close at her job and because she is the reason for her loosing her job i dont feel i need to help her any more than i do right now

2007-07-21 00:35:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-21 00:32:58 · 20 answers · asked by >D_ConTradictor< 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My dad used to walk around in boxers all the time. He's like 236 pounds, no shirt, no shoes, just boxers. It was a very disturbing scene. He would always... "hang out" if you know what I mean. I told my doctor how upsetting this was to me, so he went out and bought these ugly red shorts, which, to be honest, are like one inch longer then boxers. He wears them out of the house to, with shirts that are to small, and sandals. When he sits on the couch, it's basically a sideways version of the Lotus Position. When he eats, his legs are wide open, and he makes disgusting smacking noises with his mouth. Another problem is, ankles are a major turn-on for me, and he's always walking around barefoot or with sandals. It would be like if your mom walked around topless, that's what ankles are to me. I've already explained how gross his shorts are, but he thinks I'm being silly, and I can't tell him about my "foot" thing, he'll think I'm a freak. How do I get the message across if he wont listen?

2007-07-21 00:29:42 · 5 answers · asked by RainKid 2 in Family

2007-07-21 00:29:28 · 10 answers · asked by Littlemiss Me 2 in Singles & Dating