Family & Relationships - 21 July 2007

My a**hole husband told me that he doesn't care about my feelings last night. I told him that I want an apology and have been ignoring him since 7 pm last night. He doesn't seem to care. How can I get what I want -- an apology -- without giving in by being the first one to talk? Any suggestions?

I seriously didn't do anything to make him be such a jerk. I do EVERTHING for this ungrateful bastard!

2007-07-21 07:04:36 · 20 answers · asked by Jamie HB 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Our sex life is not much in our relationship, but i really hate it when i go to give my husband a hug and he just gropes my *** and grabs me. Its not romantic, I tell him he'sgabbing me to hard, he tells me he's not. I tell him i don't like it, and he just replies what else am i suppose to do? I feel like that behavior is just for him and his pleasure, thats how he makes me feel, like it doesn't matter if i like it or not...i'm just suppose to let him do what he wants to do. I feel like he's so disrespectful when it comes to my body. He has told me doesn't feel like i'm attracted to him, he bases this on phycial. What I let him do to me, and what i do to him. I think this is a bunch of crap, and he bases love on the physical. AM I right?

2007-07-21 06:54:49 · 21 answers · asked by ilih2006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

wearing.. well use your imagination a bit... and you walked in on me... what would you do to me?

2007-07-21 06:54:23 · 17 answers · asked by sexyb0mbshell 1 in Singles & Dating

I have known this guy for about a year now, and we're not really good friends, but when we all hang out in a group, we laugh and talk and get along just fine. One night, we both got drunk and hooked up. After that, every time I saw him he was all smiles and cutesy around me. Then, a couple of nights ago, we both drank again and had sex again. Afterwards we sat up together and talked then fell asleep together. He's still very nice to me and things, but I'm afraid that he might get attached because he has been known to do that in the past. But I am not sure because he is 21 and I am 17 (almost 18) and I don't know if the age barrier is a factor. Also, I don't think I want to start anything with him but a good friendship. Any ideas?

2007-07-21 06:44:48 · 21 answers · asked by Holly 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is catholic and I was brought up in a more or less atheist family, my grandparents used to be protestant though. We want to get married in a church ceremony. Do I have to be christian for us to have a church wedding? If so, do I have to be catholic like him?

2007-07-21 06:42:18 · 7 answers · asked by The baby penguin 5 in Weddings

I've been married 6 years and been together for 9. We have 2 kids. From the beginning I have never had a sexual attraction and have never enjoyed sex with him. But we got along great and developed our relationship from that. I do love him because of everything we have been through, but I'm not sure that I made the right decision in the beginning. I am comfortable with him and he loves me like no man will probably ever love me, but we have our issues, and this one is becoming big for me. I have tried telling him exactly what I want in bed but it doesn't help. I have never had an orgasm with him in all this time. I feel extremely selfish for feeling this way. Should I stay in a marriage that is comfortable and forget about this?

2007-07-21 06:41:25 · 22 answers · asked by Dish29 1 in Marriage & Divorce

no stupid answers please..and no i don't dress in a very revealing way, i'm not an idiot or slag!

2007-07-21 06:41:07 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this guy who I thought that liked me. Everybody says that he likes me and even ppl on Yahoo Answers thought that too. Last night, after a night of showing all the signs of liking someone, I find out he has a g/f. why is this? how come he was acting like he likes me when he has a girlfriend? why do guys do that?

2007-07-21 06:38:27 · 5 answers · asked by hollywoodbabe 2 in Singles & Dating

I thought, why is the sky?

2007-07-21 06:34:14 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i wonder if most canadian people accept which type of match

Give some comments for each type at least

asian girl - white boy
white girl - asian guy
asian girl - asian boy
white girl - white boy

2007-07-21 06:34:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Going to the movies?
Spending Money on her Everyday?
Wondering if she wantes to kiss u?

2007-07-21 06:33:40 · 3 answers · asked by mcdonaldsw 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife thinks I'm a flirt and unfaithful. I just love females, what wrong.

2007-07-21 06:29:00 · 22 answers · asked by MICHAEL C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-21 06:27:40 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Ok... Long distance relationships... How long do you think a long distance relationship will last.... I mean we're both in the military(reserve) and we just left a training enviornment but we want to keep our relationship goin.. We've been together 4months now and we really like eachother... But its to soon for any one of us to move to one state or the other... so its kind of a long distance thing now.... Though we do plan to visit eachother.... But Do you think this will last.....

2007-07-21 06:24:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm a sophomore in high school.
i'm not really happy with my recent friends and i sorta lost my personality when i entered high school.
I want to become me again, make new friends, and have a bigger impact on people.
how can i start over in the same school?

2007-07-21 06:22:30 · 8 answers · asked by pepsiandpickles 2 in Friends

I have told my bf my feelings (no, I know he can't read my mind). I have told him that he needs to call more, that I have been really upset lately (he has been busy at work and hasn't been there), and even talked to him about his obliviousness. I told him that he needs to ask me to hang out on his days off, and he responded that I should assume he wants to see me and just make the plans. I told him "no, you need to make plans, too." I need to feel that he is putting in effort, and that he cares about me, too. We have both been busy with work, and I am being as understanding as possible, but my feelings are starting to get really hurt. I am very confident, and I don't need a guy to reassure me, tell me he cares, or tell me I'm beautiful, but that doesn't mean that I don't ever want to hear it. He's a great bf, and I love him, but I don't know what else to do. This has come up several times in the past, and I have talked to him about it and told him how I feel. What do I do?

2007-07-21 06:17:54 · 7 answers · asked by ami6580 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Now we are older and that life is over, but she can not let go! It is ruining our relationship. I've tried talking to her, but she seems to think that it doesn't matter how people view her....but I care how people see us when we go out together....as a result, men approach me as if I'm a video vixon....What can I do?

2007-07-21 06:14:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

IF YOUR FEET WERE SWEATY / SMELLY

2007-07-21 06:09:33 · 11 answers · asked by JACK M 1 in Weddings

Have you ever ask your wife or wanted a fmf 3-some with your wife?

2007-07-21 06:09:26 · 11 answers · asked by debra x 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Some guys who know lots of girls like them get really big-headed. their ego takes over. they start thinking, just because a few girls like them every girl he meets likes him. Why do some guys do that? then they just flirt with girls even if they don't like them. Do they like being chased? And what would they do if they liked a girl back, would they not care if they lost her because they've got other girls that like them? Also do big-headed boys ever tell a girl they like them?

Sry I knw theres a lot 2 answer, but i'm just confused. help me out.

2007-07-21 06:05:01 · 19 answers · asked by ..xXSummerXx.. 2 in Singles & Dating

Sorry to be so direct, but I only want answers from people with children of their own (nieces, nephews, brothers, sisters and friend's kids don't qualify) and have encountered the following situation...

I have been in my town for 2 years, haven't had a lot of time to make friends due to work, raising children, etc. I met another mother through my child's school that I clicked with and we have gotten together with the kids to go out to dinner, shop and go to the park. She is someone who is very nice and is the kind of person I would like to be friends with. The problem - her child is the most poorly behaved obnoxious child I have ever met. I have refused my child getting together with them in public because of the horrific behavior and embarrassment. Plus, this child pushes way beyond even my tolerance level. The mother seems to be completely oblivious and has complained that her family members will not watch her daughter.

2007-07-21 06:00:15 · 11 answers · asked by Mrs. Goddess 6 in Friends

I have a friend that is planning to get married with a Catholic guy, but she is not Cathalic and is divorced.

2007-07-21 06:00:10 · 8 answers · asked by inlove 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Both myself and my wife were virgins when we married, so we are both inexperienced. Do most married men finish inside their wifes? My wife is on birth control so I understand that there is a small chance of still getting preg though. Thanks

2007-07-21 05:56:17 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Now mine is a peculiar situation,i live in a russian city which has studies mostly in russian v have only one Indian school(v r Indians)&the standard is not so high,and the other International schools are so costly that v cant afford .Me &my husband are like any other couple loving but at times v r very violent so now the catch is our son is going 2 b 5 he cries a lot at our fights which r every 3 mths (very violent ons)& v need to b really serious about his studies ,my husband suggests that i need 2 shift bak to India with my in Laws for his studies in Delhi.Inspite of all the fights i dont want 2leave my hubby alone (no case of extra maritals with him at least i trust him completely)just cos i feel like living alone may grow the distance btw us als I m not used 2 staying with in laws for past 7yrs.He says he will b visting us every 3 mths or earlier and v can always spend the 3mths summer break here .So do u think i shud acept his suggestion of movin bak.Thanx 4 readin my long tale

2007-07-21 05:56:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anoymous 2 in Family

2007-07-21 05:53:40 · 7 answers · asked by Virginia 3 in Singles & Dating

about two years ago i ran into a mutual freind of my x,and we instantly clicked.I was just splitting up from my x for i caught him cheating and i was devastated,his friend held me that night till i slept and was so sweet,although he was nervous about the'guy code'.I know he liked me a lot and i really liked him,but the timing and circumstance was not right.two years later now and he has moved on and is seeing someone,i am still thinking about him,i saw him a few months ago and we both had a little too much to drink and started kissing like crazy,i stopped him when i remembered he has a girl,we both wanted eachother bad though,although he is with another girl.What can I do? I cannot forget him.

2007-07-21 05:52:18 · 5 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-21 05:50:58 · 12 answers · asked by bigantdog22 1 in Weddings

right now, i am 13, my brother is 18 (mike), and my other brother is 20 (matt). 2 years ago and before that, matt and mike got along great and hung out sometimes, and i was rarely ever included. but, 2 years ago, matt went away to college at westpoint. he only came home on some weekends and most holidays. mike was in high school at the time and i was in 5 grade. i never thought i would miss him so much. it made me think about how much i loved my brothers, so me and mike started talking and bonding more. when matt came home for a few days at a time, me him mike and matt's girlfriend were always together, cheriching the last few years we have as the "children". now, two years later, matt dropped out of westpoint and me and my brothers only kept some of the bonding we had. how do we get that FULL bonding we had back? please answer!

2007-07-21 05:49:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my mom was vacuuming and she found a note i had wrote my friend in school . and it was about how my boyfriend sells weed. she confronted me with it and i told her it was my friend who wrote it and she got really upset and was pretty much crying and saying how i could be lying and stuff .i dont want to tell her, so whut do i do? just let it go?

2007-07-21 05:48:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

okay well this guy i know on here is cool and all and he put up a pic. as a question you know and i told him that he's my type of guy. then like the next day he e-mailed me and asked for a pic of me to see if i was his type. should i send him a pic? im looking to meet any one on here though.

2007-07-21 05:48:30 · 11 answers · asked by Kelsey 5 in Singles & Dating