Some guys who know lots of girls like them get really big-headed. their ego takes over. they start thinking, just because a few girls like them every girl he meets likes him. Why do some guys do that? then they just flirt with girls even if they don't like them. Do they like being chased? And what would they do if they liked a girl back, would they not care if they lost her because they've got other girls that like them? Also do big-headed boys ever tell a girl they like them?
Sry I knw theres a lot 2 answer, but i'm just confused. help me out.
2007-07-21 06:05:01 · 19 answers · asked by ..xXSummerXx.. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know all guys are not big-headed, but i just want to know why they do what i've stated above.
2007-07-21 06:08:59 · update #1
Big heads to compensate for smallness in other departments.
2007-07-21 07:20:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
maybe guys with lots of girls liking them get big headed, but it is no match to the amount of swelling on the girl's head who knows lots of guys like them.
anyway, sex differences aside, you have made some very accurate observations, it is true that most girls would like a guy whose already got many girls liking him. it will only be the very odd one or two who wouldn't, especially if the guy is nice and polite rather than being too arrogant. a little bit is fine, in fact, a little bit of arrogance attracts some women even more.
these guys don't mind being chased, it depends on who it is i suppose, if they're being chased by girls they like, they'll like it and probably ask her out, if they're being chased by girls they don't like, they either find it flattering or if the girl does it too persistently, annoying.
if they liked a girl back, they would most likely respond well to the girl and probably ask her out, but if she starts playing that common game that all girls (especially young ones who only look average but think they're kate mosses) play, you are right in saying, he wouldn't care and he'll just move on, unless you're lucky enough to be in a very insular place that he hasn't got much to choose from.
yes, attractive boys do tell girls they like them, but they hate arrogance in girls, which women seem say they hate in men and that they'll never practice, which is a far cry from the truth
2007-07-21 06:17:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know EXACTLY what you mean.
maybe just to make themselves feel better. they become a little over confident. and yeah, i think some really big headded guys wouldnt care about a girl if they KNEW that there were others out there.
all guys are pervs. they just want what girls have. except some. some are really good. they treat girls the right way.
2007-07-21 06:09:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
- When we girls show an interest, it boosts their confidence and ego. Some girls do that too, you will find!
- I guess it must feel nice to once in a while experience being chased since usually they do all the hard work. Besides, it becomes a sort of status like " Look at this, lads, I've got my work cut out for me."
- I believe if they truly liked the girl, they'd go out of their way to try and win her back. If he never truly liked her, no doubt he will hang back with the other girls.
- If they like a girl enough, I'm sure they will.
A wise girl once told me "Guys who act like d***s act the way they do because they lack one, so they compensate by being one."
2007-07-21 06:25:41 · answer #4 · answered by Winnie C 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sorry - there are just as many girls who are big-headed.
Unfortunately the guys and girls are like that because other people have allowed it and catered to that behavior.
Guys like being chased and as long as there are girls chasing them, their bad behavior is rewarded. Walk away from these guys - they are idiots and will not treat you well. They only care about themselves.
2007-07-21 06:09:32 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. Goddess 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
bcoz some guys think they are all that when they are not. yes some guys like being chased. when a guy has a lot of females that he likes most of the time he wouldnt care if he lost one bcoz he usually replaces her. very few will tell a girl the truth. usually they only tell the girl what the girl wants to hear. my best advice is to stay clear of a guy like that unless u want ur heart broken. good luck.
2007-07-21 06:12:48 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ happy ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Roxy it seems that this big headed behaviour is obvious in both sexes. Some people truly believe that their poop doesn't stink and their egos are so big that they come to believe that they are God's gift to the opposite sex. It's great to have a positive self esteem but to carry it to the limits that you mention is quite sickening.
2007-07-21 06:11:56 · answer #7 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Insecurity
2007-07-21 06:07:57 · answer #8 · answered by sweetpea 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys are big headed, or at least not the nice ones anyway! Just steer clear of them!
2007-07-21 06:07:35 · answer #9 · answered by coca cola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because a lot of girls go for appearances and flatter them something chronic. I doubt they have a heart - or maybe its been broken and thats why they behave this way.
2007-07-21 06:58:12 · answer #10 · answered by Delerious? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋