Family & Relationships - 21 July 2007

I have sex like twice a week if that and when we do have sex it for 35 min if that. I am only 27 years old and I feel the need for more but he always get up set. Plus when we do have sex he is, so rough with me and when I try to tell him to ease up he gets mad and we end up just calling it a night. What do I do about wanting more but getting less?

2007-07-21 11:52:22 · 12 answers · asked by Kiwi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

if im to hot (what they say) then how come i dont get anything. like poeple dont ask me out

2007-07-21 11:51:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

honestly.
thats what being 19 is all about!!

don't you agree!

2007-07-21 11:47:33 · 78 answers · asked by Kaitlin 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-21 11:45:19 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

she was with the nieghbor while we were apart and he dont know I know. He's a young guy who is gonna try and hang out with me like we was all buddy buddy...

how do I best handle this situation?

Also she is kinda on the post about our future with a wait and see kind of additude... we have a son who is about to turn two and I really want this to work out.. I had a previous family and I dont want a third..

I know I still love her and she isnt sure yet how she feels about me

we've been apart for 5 months and I have been 660 miles from there

what are some ways I can ensure our success as a family on my end?

what are warning signs I should be looking for and how do I maintain my cool under this kind of pressure?

2007-07-21 11:41:10 · 5 answers · asked by breezeblanco 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-21 11:40:43 · 15 answers · asked by DUDE WITH DOG 1 in Singles & Dating

I have asked this before, but want to add details to the scenerio and question. Why would a man who gets sex anytime he wants ALSO want to sex outside of marriage? We've been together 5 years and I do a lot to spice up or sex life. We have sex all over the house; I wear all kinds of lingerie, sexy costumes and 4 inch heels. Yet he says he wishes I would be OK with him getting a little action on the side. To that I say "if I am not enough for U then why'd U marry me?" He says I am more than enough for him but it’s the excitement of being with other women from time to time. He swears that if I don't give him permission he will never cheat but I don't believe it. If he desires women now when he can have me anytime he wants then what will happen when I have an infant and am too tired to have sex when he wants?

2007-07-21 11:39:58 · 29 answers · asked by Renee C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my counsin is 7 years younger than me but weighs 10 pounds more. she has an eating problem but its so hard to tell her to stop eating when i babysit her. i want to help but i don't know how. HELP!!!!

2007-07-21 11:37:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

He abandon me over 6 years ago, So i want a divorce but I have no idea what state he is in.

2007-07-21 11:33:11 · 11 answers · asked by Nancy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My twin sister keeps being repeatedly abused by her husband, & when he takes the car & leaves her & the kids, that's when she calls telling about what he did to her, but then she always takes him back & betrays the rest of the family for him, & when she sneaks & takes him back, you don't hear from her until he beats on her & leaves her again. & she hides away from the family because she thinks that we're gonna call her stupid for getting back with him after he has beaten her upside the head with a wrench, raped her, & set her up to get raped while pregnant.

I've tried to be supportive & be there for her & help her, but she keeps taking this dude back & then betraying me & making it like I'm the bad person, & it makes me depressed & feel like I did something wrong. & this dude has given her STD's & cheated on her & everything, & she acts like she can't live or function without him. Now she's betrayed me ONCE AGAIN for the nth time, & I'm tired of it! I can't help her anymore.

2007-07-21 11:33:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I know this sounds silly. But I really love this guy. We've only been together a few months, we are both in our 30's. When we are together we can talk for hours, but since he left for training for Iraq, it seems like when he calls I can't think of anything to talk about. I love to talk to him on the phone, I just go braindead and can't think of anything to say. This is his second trip to Iraq. I have never dated a service man before him. Any good talking topics would be appreciated :)

2007-07-21 11:32:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friends have my girlfriend pinned on the floor and she doesn't think that seven ppl will say yes to me tickling her till she almost pees her pants!......please say yes!

2007-07-21 11:30:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend Logan and I are deeply inlove and would never do anything to hurt each other but how can I tell him I just want one day without seeing him.Because he comes over EVERY day to see me and then he stays like for 10 hours and every once and a while he will spend the night! :) But I am kind of tired of seeing him please help me!

2007-07-21 11:28:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

its my boyfriends birthday today and i want his night worth while if you now what i mean what can i do to pleasure him?

2007-07-21 11:28:12 · 4 answers · asked by Cheeky Monkey 3 in Singles & Dating

i have a pretty good slim figure but i feel uncomfortable and shy to wear these tank tops,halter tops and shorts etc.iam more of a jean- tee shirt kind of girl.the thing is when i see so many other girls wear stuff like the above i feel like i don't have the confidence to wear it and feel inferior.my friends say not to confuse comfort and confidence.kindly advise.thanks. (p.s-iam an indian girl living in usa)

2007-07-21 11:27:35 · 11 answers · asked by ashu 1 in Singles & Dating

My Niece is getting Married outdoors in next week, we live in hot California so a suit is not an option- plus she is not that conservative. What do you suggest I put on my boys ages 2 and 7?? I was thinking Khaki shorts or Blue shorts with polos, not so they match (I hate that). WHat do you think????

2007-07-21 11:27:22 · 6 answers · asked by Sun of the Dark 1 in Weddings

Weather they are flirting tips, clothing tips, make up tips hair tips, talking tips or any other tips you can think of, i don't care. just tell me everything you know! I'm hopeless!!!!

2007-07-21 11:21:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I feel shocked that someone told me that my ex-boyfriend is BI. I've been with him for 6 1/2 months & couldn't figure that out on my own.

& all he did was lie to me & cheat on me the whole time & I never knew what was going on. & come to find out, he would lie to me, saying he had to do stuff for his mom & he was cheating. & he always made it like he was too busy to visit me, & he never wanted me to meet his family. What's a relationship that he only visits once a month or every 2 weeks when he's horny? & he never spent the night by my house & I was 100% faithful & dedicated to staying with him, & people told me that I'm his leftover or sloppy seconds.

& when I asked him what I did wrong in the relationship, he said I did nothing, & that he just wanted to see what it felt like to cheat, & he later confessed to me that he was with that other person before me, so he tried to make it like he cheated on the other person for me. & he lied to me saying he was a virgin.

2007-07-21 11:19:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he hates me and hates children and it hurts me when i have sex because i am pregneant and he knows that because he forced me to have sex with hime and my doctor said if i do the i will have a really bad rest of my pregnantcy

2007-07-21 11:17:55 · 24 answers · asked by dramadiva23 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been thinking and even having dreams about my old crappy boyfriends who were stupid, cheaters loosers etc but yet some how I have been thinking about them. But I have a good boyfriend now. And overall we have been great and he treats me so much better then those old guys. Why am i thinking about these loosers? Does it mean anything?

2007-07-21 11:15:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if someone could post a link

2007-07-21 11:08:35 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so my friend and I were suppose to go to her house to sleep over (because we always do it at my house) and so I called her at like 5:45 to ask if 7:00 was still a good time... well she didn’t want to do the sleep over anymore because she was eating dinner then she was going to watch friends... that is all she said... well I am pretty mad now because I could be swimming or having fin right now, and the thing is, is that she always does this to me... cancels I mean... what should I do? because she get mad so easily.... I am very mad right now... but I am trying to just blow it of... so what should I do... please no mean answers, thanks

2007-07-21 11:05:32 · 4 answers · asked by . 3 in Friends

the girls them morning tea

2007-07-21 11:02:38 · 2 answers · asked by The girls them morning tea 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey I'm just being honest.

2007-07-21 11:01:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

see i meet this great boi i liked him from the start he is juss so sweet but im scard of rejection so i did not tell him how i fill but he was allways sayin how pretty an how good i kiss an stuff like dat an how much he likes me so i told him the same cause its true he then he started givin me the idae that he wanted to go wit me so i said look u say u like me alot an u know im crazy over u so why arent u wit me ? an he gonna say ummm i knew u was gonna ask that an that he is juss not ready for a relationship juss right know maybe later an that he juss wants to be friends really good friends an den the next day he gonna try to tell me that he loves me but n e ways wat do i do an eat dose that mean dose he still go wit some one or is he still n love wit some one i juss dont know wat to say or think so plez tell me wat to do an want do u think i should do ?

2007-07-21 10:59:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex-boyfriend cheated on me after being together for almost 3 years. He and I have been friends for 18 years. Most of our friends are friends with both of us and our families are both close friends. He is 24 and I am 18. I have tried to keep things civil..its just not working... If so how are you able too? any ideas or suggestions??

2007-07-21 10:58:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have not let my looks go.I wear suggestive clothing in the right places at the right times,suggested new ideas and places but he seems to have lost interest.WHY?

2007-07-21 10:55:33 · 20 answers · asked by sugartree2007 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been living with my boyfriend for 2 years we are getting married in august

My mum does not know we live together it is taboo in our culture if she gets to know that we have been living together and she will be very upset she might even cut me off the family and call me a disgrace to the family name .I just got a mail she is coming in 3 days ...what do i do?she assumes she will be staying with me ,but i live with my partner and his 2 kids(not the best behaved) i know i am in big trouble but i love my mum she looked after us single handed ,she was hurt when she could not attend my brother's wedding as we are only two kids i don't want her to miss mine,how do i break this to her,if i tell her she will not come.

2007-07-21 10:49:44 · 21 answers · asked by mimij 1 in Weddings

I wanna KNOW!! :P

2007-07-21 10:48:06 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Dear all / women, my girlfriend and I really want to marry each other, this would be our second marriage in both cases, both had long marriages before (20 years) and we were both **** on to put it blunt, but I really want to do it right, she has picked out the ring she likes and I know her size, but its just knowing or finding the right moment to actually pop the question, with out her really knowing what I was going to say, I was going to get the ring put in a fortune cookie, but I was worried the jewels might pop out in the heat....help please.

2007-07-21 10:47:43 · 13 answers · asked by saxons_uk 1 in Weddings