she always does this to me!?

Question

ok so my friend and I were suppose to go to her house to sleep over (because we always do it at my house) and so I called her at like 5:45 to ask if 7:00 was still a good time... well she didn’t want to do the sleep over anymore because she was eating dinner then she was going to watch friends... that is all she said... well I am pretty mad now because I could be swimming or having fin right now, and the thing is, is that she always does this to me... cancels I mean... what should I do? because she get mad so easily.... I am very mad right now... but I am trying to just blow it of... so what should I do... please no mean answers, thanks

and she has nice parents and is not embarrest!

Answer 1

read whole thing please. i know its long but still:

this has happened to me before. i hate it when people answer all mean too. well, maybe she has mean parents at her house, have you met them yet? i had a friend whos house i sleped at once but i didnt anymore when i found out her mom had put on an act and was accually really bad and abused my friend. She still is doing court triles and everything. maybe she has a messy house and is embarrassed and when she decided to have you sleep over, she was gonna clean for you but she wouldnt have the time. you need to settle this with her. Maybe she has annoying siblings. i wouldnt care if she gets mad easily, you need to ask her whats up and why she doesnt want to have you sleep over. i personally dont like going over to other people houses because im uncomftorble with it. i dont know why i just am. i like to always have the sleep overs over at my house. except one of my friends, alena. im okay there cause its just 3 houses away from mine. people have problems sometimes and they dont like friends invading them or making fun of them. they dont like to be embarrassed and they want to be comftorble. just talk to her honestly. thats what you need to do.

Answer 2

Is she having trouble at home? Does her parents fight alot? Does she usually come to your house to get away from hers? You might want to ask some questions, before you get mad at her. It wasn't very nice that she waited until the last hour to tell you, so don't be so quick to make plans with her if it means going to her house. If you enjoy her company, have fun together, then go someplace else. Friends are hard to come by, so don't loose one if you don't have to.

Answer 3

The next time SHE wants to make plans, say "Oh wow, I'm sorry I can't do it that night". After a while she may want to know why you aren't making plans with her anymore.

Or you could always sit down and just TELL her how frustrated you get when she does this to you and ask her why. Are you sure her parents aren't changing THEIR minds about letting someone come over and she's just embarrassed?

Answer 4

Turn about is fair play.