he hates me and hates children and it hurts me when i have sex because i am pregneant and he knows that because he forced me to have sex with hime and my doctor said if i do the i will have a really bad rest of my pregnantcy
2007-07-21 11:17:55 · 24 answers · asked by dramadiva23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
press rape charges and divorce this dick head
2007-07-21 11:27:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
NO....anyone who forces you to have sex and hates kids and tells you he hates you is an emotional abuser and a rapist. You need to leave this person. If you have family go to them. If he will find you and hurt you go to your local police department and ask them for the number of a local domestic violence shelter. You could also ask your doctor. He would be obligated by law to help you. It may seem hard right now, but in the long run it will be right for your child.
2007-07-21 18:27:38 · answer #2 · answered by TBECK 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
if he hates you, then why are you married to him? more so, why are you having his child if he hates children? what did you guys think would happen when you hv sex? how will things be when the baby is born?
if you're serious about this, then you need to leave him and get a divorce before its too late!
2007-07-21 20:19:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your dauther or mother would of ask you this question what would you say??
Being pregnant is not the problem I had sex until the day b4 having my baby, but you mention that he hade you and your children??? Honey oh Honey don't demimish your self you decerve better than that.
2007-07-21 18:34:41 · answer #4 · answered by ups2005 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Forget about sex,you should be divorcing this idiot.He hates you ,he hates children and he jeopardized you pregnancy as well as your health by forcing you to have sex.Find a lawyer as fast as possible.
2007-07-21 18:47:13 · answer #5 · answered by Julius C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is forcing you to have sex then that is rape. You should leave your house and stay with a friend or family member especially if the baby's or your health is in danger.
2007-07-21 18:24:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I just don't understand some questions here..they are just so questionable?????...Now why do you need to ask us?..when you already know the answers..Do what is good for you...
If your doctor said it's not good for your pregnancy then don't do it..remember s.ex is about both of you having fun NOT just him...You mean your husband has RAPED you before..You said he forced you to have s.ex....did you report him...
2007-07-21 18:30:54 · answer #7 · answered by Life is FUn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is there something wrong with your pregnancy? In most cases it is okay to have sex whille you are preg.
If he truely forced you to have sex with him and you didnt want to, that is RAPE. I would not even consider having sex with someone after they had raped me, especialy if it endangered me and my soon to be babys life.
Why wold you want to have sex with someone that hated you?
2007-07-21 18:27:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
its probably a good idea to listen to the doctor..and if he hates children then you might have a problem with this pregnancy...
2007-07-21 18:21:23 · answer #9 · answered by Ryan 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
omg, get out of there hunni! He is raping you and now that he has that control over you it will only escalate to further violence. Do what's best for you and your child..move out and press charges!
2007-07-21 18:25:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
That is called rape if he forced you and you said no. hard to prove in marriage, but you can press charges.
2007-07-21 18:20:55 · answer #11 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋