I feel shocked that someone told me that my ex-boyfriend is BI. I've been with him for 6 1/2 months & couldn't figure that out on my own.
& all he did was lie to me & cheat on me the whole time & I never knew what was going on. & come to find out, he would lie to me, saying he had to do stuff for his mom & he was cheating. & he always made it like he was too busy to visit me, & he never wanted me to meet his family. What's a relationship that he only visits once a month or every 2 weeks when he's horny? & he never spent the night by my house & I was 100% faithful & dedicated to staying with him, & people told me that I'm his leftover or sloppy seconds.
& when I asked him what I did wrong in the relationship, he said I did nothing, & that he just wanted to see what it felt like to cheat, & he later confessed to me that he was with that other person before me, so he tried to make it like he cheated on the other person for me. & he lied to me saying he was a virgin.
2007-07-21 11:19:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He sounds like he is very confused sexually and has zero respect for women and possibly men. Don't blame yourself, and nothing is wrong with you. its not your fault that he manipulates trust and takes advantage of good people. I know you are probubly feeling horriable, but its not you. Don't blame yourself for not figuring it out either, there is no shame in wanting to believe and see the best in a person and that sounds like that is what you did. It is him, because he took advantage of that. Just be thankful that you have found out now vs. a couple of years down the line. You are not sloppy seconds, you thought he was failthful and you were faithful. The other person isn't sloppy seconds either, he is the one who is sloppy and discusting for treating people like this. Who ever said that about you is an ***. All you can do is live and learn but don't blame yourself for his mistreating people, and obviously how confused he is, he shows this by cheating and lieing to people. Thats sick and he has issues. Its sad that he has to lie to get people to like him, obviously deep down he felt you were to good and he could not show you his true self because he knew that he wouldn't have been abole to have you, so he lied and gave you a fake painted picture of who he pretended to be. So don't blame yourself and you will find someone who is good and honest. Good luck and I hope you feel better soon!!!!
2007-07-21 11:30:47 · answer #1 · answered by Maalru3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is bi, then you had better go get an aids test, and don't let the grass grow under your feet. Some guys don't know what they are. I will predict that in 2 years he will be completely out of the closet and is gay. No matter what when you are lied to you feel used and put upon, It really hurts, but get away and do what your need to, to be happy. This guy is a user and you are not the only one he's done this to. It's a game to make him feel good.
2007-07-21 11:29:30 · answer #2 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, be happy you dumped the bum. I am glad you are finished with him. You will find someone better who doesn't think cheating is OK.
2007-07-21 12:48:37 · answer #3 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isuggest you get an HIV test asap! Any guy who is poking his thing in a guys a** is a risk.Sorry you got into that situation.Be careful in the future.
2007-07-21 11:27:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So be glad then that you broke up with him.. That is water under the bridge now.. be glad and move on to greener pastures,, happy hunting.
2007-07-21 11:23:55 · answer #5 · answered by jorge e 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would be more upset that he was cheating.
So what? You dumped the bum, so go on with your life and feel pity for anyone who dates him.
2007-07-21 11:22:03 · answer #6 · answered by lady_phoenix39 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
He would still be an ex
2007-07-21 11:23:08 · answer #7 · answered by skcs11 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
welll that's why he's your ex
don't worry so much about the past
2007-07-21 11:22:43 · answer #8 · answered by Karen 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
wow
just comfort him with being bi
2007-07-21 11:24:55 · answer #9 · answered by MARIPOSA 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't worry about it.Lots of people buy sex.
2007-07-21 11:24:46 · answer #10 · answered by david o 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋