I have been thinking and even having dreams about my old crappy boyfriends who were stupid, cheaters loosers etc but yet some how I have been thinking about them. But I have a good boyfriend now. And overall we have been great and he treats me so much better then those old guys. Why am i thinking about these loosers? Does it mean anything?
2007-07-21 11:15:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because of rejection, cheating is a form of rejection. Also women have a nurturing side to them, we always want to fix things and think we can change a bad guy to a good one. Its just rejection and it has cought up with you. maybe you are on guard a bit cause this boyfriend hasn't treated you bad. Doesn't mean anything, just small fear and rejection. Move on and try to stop thinking of them, they are probably busy treating someone else like crap. Be happy you have a guy that respects you and enjoy him. cheers
2007-07-21 11:21:59 · answer #1 · answered by Maalru3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in the same situation like a week ago.. it is nothing if things are fine with your new boyfriend there is no need to think about anyone else. if you cant stop thinking about your ex then think about how they made you feel how stupid they were and still are... you are better then them. you'll be better off without them!
2007-07-21 11:21:56 · answer #2 · answered by -=-==-=-==-=- 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think that your not good enough to have a nice guy, and be treated good? Some times we don't have a good opinion about ourselves and put ourselves down. You must be good because the new one likes doing good things for you. Enjoy it .
2007-07-21 11:21:16 · answer #3 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that you may have had some good times with him and it's just hard to move on. But now it's time to do just that.
2007-07-21 11:20:07 · answer #4 · answered by Jai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are just surprised that he doesn't compare to your past crappy boyfriends.
I used to think that a lot about my last boyfriend, he just waited longer than the rest to cheat on me.
2007-07-21 11:19:43 · answer #5 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think it means anything. it is commonplace to compare and contrast past lovers to our present, even if we are ding it on a subconscious level. you may be thinking about them, but you don't sound like you miss them.
2007-07-21 11:19:32 · answer #6 · answered by eb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you need to forget your past and move on.
2007-07-21 11:18:30 · answer #7 · answered by slither22a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know wat u mean i went through the same thing. The only thing i can tell u is that everytime u think about them say to urself " i'm glad i'm not with them" and then think about wat ur new bf has to offer. Or keep ur self busy.
2007-07-21 11:19:37 · answer #8 · answered by **tu<3nina** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋