I have not let my looks go.I wear suggestive clothing in the right places at the right times,suggested new ideas and places but he seems to have lost interest.WHY?
2007-07-21 10:55:33 · 20 answers · asked by sugartree2007 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sugartree, sounds like the honeymoon stage of your relationship is over. All relationships go through tough times and it appears that one partner may be losing interest, but this is not always the case. Best to sit down with him and let him know of your fears and how you are feeling. Hopefully he can explain what is happening in his life at present that is making it seem that he is losing interest. Best of luck.
2007-07-21 11:00:44 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. by "interest" I am guessing you mean sex. Have you tried talking to him about it? There could be a whole host of things going on in his life that are crowding out his need for sex.... work, finances, family are all issues that can cause a man to think about something else besides sex....
I would suggest you use your intelligent brain and carry on a conversation with the guy. If he has lost interest because he has another woman or because he is gay or because of any of the other reasons listed here... then let the poor guy go.
But maybe, instead of putting on suggestive clothing, if you sit down and have a loving, caring conversation with him, you'll find out that he needs more than a sexual partner right now...
2007-07-21 11:02:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THAT IS RUDE !!!!!!!! ALL YOU PEOPLE THAT SAY THAT ITS OLD ARE CRAZY OR DONT HAVE A VERY GOOD MEMORY OR A LASTING RELATIONSHIP...............remember that every one that she comes in contact with for the first time is seeing what that man saw five yrs ago and if he dosnt still see her with those same eyes its cause he is a LYING .....BLIND ...butthead.. i have been married 11 yrs and i still love to have sex...or make love or have a wild, get ur freak on night and that is how you get his interest back....after a little time it does become repetitious and both get a lil bored with " the same ole thing", dont let it become REPETITIVE ACTIONS.....she is bored with the lack of lustful attention... so, you have to make it fun and exciting in ways that accomodate the abnormal lifestyle that you dont live on a daily...normal work week....get out and get freaky after a romantic dinner and dancing...get a room somewhere that best indescribes the both of you......got plenty of ideas....to help......
2007-07-21 11:48:10 · answer #3 · answered by bigdscurrytx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's had the same pie for 5 years (or more). No matter how good the topping and filling is, it's going to get old after a while.
Try spicing it up with some new lingerie, roll playing, or sex toys.
2007-07-21 10:58:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are nothing like us they don't think like us talk like us and don't have a conscience like us. We mothers raise these young boys to grow into good and decent young man, so what happens. Where do they get their ideas from, do their dads secretly go behind our backs and tell them not to listen to anything we tell them, they are put here to do two things and that is to have fun and sleep with as many women as you can. It's hard for us women to think of our husbands as anything else but a good and honorable man. In some cases that isn't true he is a snake not to be trusted around any female. It's husbands like that, that get tired of their wives and stops looking at her regardless of how sexy she is or what she looks like. My husband was doing the very same thing as yours, he stopped looking and caring and what he wasn't giving to me he was giving to another woman( a co-worker) in fact. Lets hope your husband isn't like so many others maybe you are one of the lucky ones who have a good man who is just bored.
2007-07-21 11:51:17 · answer #5 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honey, it's not always about YOU. Do you make sure to tell your man compliments? Does he know how INTO HIM you are? Does he feel manly and capable and like a hero to you? Perhaps you are just too capable yourself, let him solve some problems once in a while, and be sure to let him know how thankful you are when he takes care of something. Men like to be needed and helpful, just like we do.
2007-07-21 11:09:54 · answer #6 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are not able to fully commit to another person. If you're married I would ask him to go with you to marriage counseling.
I hope you're not married and there are no children involved because it will be easier to walk away.
I wish you well.
2007-07-21 11:01:08 · answer #7 · answered by Sage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The appeal of variety is a natural thing for most humans.
2007-07-21 11:10:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's BORED. Try new, exciting things even if it's skydiving or something. I mean, it doesn't have to always insinuate sex. If you're still not getting what you need, sit down and talk to him about it.
2007-07-21 11:00:13 · answer #9 · answered by heideezy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it usually has to deal with personality..
perhaps your personality has changed, and he doesnt like it... he liked the old you.
maybe youve matured more than he has in the past 5 years youve been together.
Doesnt mean you should revert back to the old you though..
Your just being you,and no one should be able to change that.
2007-07-21 11:01:05 · answer #10 · answered by Dr. VanNostrand 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋