My boyfriend Logan and I are deeply inlove and would never do anything to hurt each other but how can I tell him I just want one day without seeing him.Because he comes over EVERY day to see me and then he stays like for 10 hours and every once and a while he will spend the night! :) But I am kind of tired of seeing him please help me!
2007-07-21 11:28:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow, sounds like neither of you has a life outside the relationship, and it's important that you both maintain your own lives, friends, etc.
Tell him how you feel. A relationship isn't healthy when it excludes everything and everyone else.
2007-07-21 11:32:38 · answer #1 · answered by lady_phoenix39 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How long have you two been a "couple"?
Whatever you do, do NOT lie to him. This could worsen your relationship ten-fold!
Obviously, you DO like him, and he likes you! That's super and great and wonderful... but if you "love" eachother that much and respect eachother enough, he should be able to take the "I want a me-only day" and accept it without getting upset.
Tell him that you love that he comes to visit, but maybe everyday isn't what's right. Tell Logan that you want a "me only" day, and actually take advantage of being alone. Bubble bath? Reading a book? Jogging? Or it could be a one-person party with the music turned up, chips on the table, and jumping around by yourself.
If Logan does respect you enough, he should be able to take the request with calmness and understanding.
=) Good luck.
2007-07-21 11:33:41 · answer #2 · answered by Lindzey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we all go through with that at some point in our lives, but we each have our own ways of dealing with it. You could try to explain to him that while you love him very much, you just need a day to yourself. If he loves you, he should understand...if not, you'll have to work on it more. I spend all my time with my b/f but we do spend some time apart (I mean I work with him and we live together), but we do have a gaming system and a computer in seperate rooms-so it's like I have my own time w/o him...but I feel complete when I'm with him, so I don't mind it too much! Good luck!
2007-07-21 11:33:49 · answer #3 · answered by darklotuslvr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u could tell him, you want a day to your self. Or just take off for a day and dont tell where you are going just tell him you are getting away for a day. What ever you do just talk to him, he will understand, and if he doesn't and starts acting like weird, then maybe he isn't good for you
2007-07-21 11:34:32 · answer #4 · answered by Pearl P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just explain to him that everyone needs time to just relax by themselves and have that down time to do what you like and not have to worry about someone else being around. tell him that he should go out with the guys for the day and that you want to just hang out and relax and have some alone time not that you are dissing him or blowing him off but just that everyone needs time for thereselves and you would like a day to spend on your own if he cannot understnad that then he needs to grow up.just make it a point to make him understand you are not breaking up or blowing him off you would just like a day to yourself to do things you like or just to sit around and watch chick flicks.
2007-07-21 11:43:43 · answer #5 · answered by suni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you try and plan a girls night once a week, and just do your own thing. If he cares about you, he'll understand. It's hard to miss someone if they're always around. Just try not to hurt his feelings :)
2007-07-21 11:34:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stanley should not be so related which you're his complete international. think of approximately it- in the journey that your boyfriend replace into so prepared approximately you that he could refuse to pass everywhere with out you, would not you be creeped out by it? Stanley is your canine- he is going to be greater related to you than your bf, who he has everyday much less time, yet you ought to additionally motivate him in direction of a healthful relationship with individuals besides your self. Its fit mentally to your puppy and could be much less perplexing for you in the long-term. in case you motivate an suggestions-set the place you are the full international you're able to be coping with separation stress subjects like those my chum deals with while she leaves the living house- she will't pass away for greater suitable than 3 hours with out her maltese with out coming living house to urine, feces, and a chewed up, destroyed living house. you will desire to motivate Stanley to have a connection to greater human beings than basically your self.
2016-10-22 07:26:31 · answer #7 · answered by boice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you need some space. But what do you think will happen when you have been married for for 40 years? I don't think you are ready for a steady relationship.
2007-07-21 11:40:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol to much aerosmith "I don't wanna miss a thing" maybe thats what his feeling, anyways tell him you sometimes wanna be lonely and just relax by yourself. I'm sure you treasure every moment with him, but its to much
2007-07-21 11:32:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just explain to him that you just want some alone time. Or sched a day to do girls out and just go out with some friends.
2007-07-21 11:32:58 · answer #10 · answered by Nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋