Family & Relationships - 21 July 2007

2007-07-21 09:53:57 · 12 answers · asked by looziegirl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am trying to find a wedding invatation verse that sounds like the bride and grooms baby is invintin you to the wedding, i really want to involver my baby in the invitation, any ideas ya know something like "My Mommy and Daddy are getting married......" thats as afar as i can get on my own???

Please Help!!!!!!!

2007-07-21 09:52:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Last night at 4am my cell range and it was my brother he said a life long friend I grew up with broke in the house and attempted to rape our mother.At I wanted to kill him and at the same time I couldn't believe what happened,I mean you never think this can happen to your loved ones...only in the movies.Then when I went to my house to grab some stuff and come back to my Mom's the guy shows up balling his eyes out telling me he needs to talk to me he can't live with himself.Well as bad as I wanted to kill him.... I managed to compose myself call the police and have him arrested.Now I'm filled with mixed emotions of anger,hate,sorrow for my mother,sadness,sorry for him in a way,and just confused at what to do next.I would just like to hear some kind of reply other than the normal I would of beat,killed him and if anybody knows what I could do to help my mother thru this horrible situation.

2007-07-21 09:50:10 · 18 answers · asked by the Juggernaut 1 in Friends

i met a guy who was from africa a month ago. but just knowing him for a week, he became terribly clingy and often makes presumptions of a serious relationship between the two of us, even though i have made no communication to him that i am interested in one. i have made it clear that he is just a friend. this doesn't sink in and he will often tell me he loves me and it is love at first sight, and that he is more than a friend to me. he is very persistent and won't back off. it's like to him it doesn't matter whether or not the feelings are mutual, just as long as he feels that way its enough to pursue and pressure a woman into a relationship/marriage. it's crazy. is he delusional enough to think that i will marry him and he'll get his greencard? i don't understand him nor his culture. i notice a lot of foreign men particularly african men try to marry women they just met why is that?

2007-07-21 09:45:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok here's the deal my husband got the cell phone bill today and I went over our minutes ALOT, like 900 minutes over. Needless to say the bill is HUGE!!! I REALLY didn't intentionally go over and run up this huge bill I guess I just wasn't paying enough attention to how much I was talking and the time of day I was using the phone. FYI we dont have a land line so this is my ONLY phone. Anyways what can I do to make him happy and get him off my back when he comes home from work. He is seriously pissed off. All he told me on the phone was that he'd talk to me about it later when he came home. Any suggestions????
P.S. - Dont just tell me to pay the bill myself. I'm a stay at home mom at HIS REQUEST untill our kids our school age.

2007-07-21 09:42:34 · 13 answers · asked by Luv_My_Baby 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Is dis true dat after having intimate relation?
iam having relation wid a guy for past 7 years n v got intimate 2 years back after dat he was gud but sooner he started flirting with others and abuse me but sometimes says he wanna marry me. but today he said dat i got everything from u before marriege den y d hell will i marry u. pllzz suggest me something

2007-07-21 09:41:59 · 9 answers · asked by angel 1 in Singles & Dating

i want to have sex wit my bf really bad but idk if he wants to and like he talks bout just makin out and idk how to bring up the topic sex help plz.

2007-07-21 09:41:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im getting married in August and its getting to the point where i need to make hair decisions i cant decide a little help is great.


hair style #1
http://i148.photobucket.com/albums/s26/Ena29/hair-styles.jpg


hair style #2
http://i177.photobucket.com/albums/w209/iguessineedYOU/hair%20styles/hair.jpg

hair style #3
http://i32.photobucket.com/albums/d29/emmons_brian/Hair.jpg

Hair style #4
http://i171.photobucket.com/albums/u300/lil_miss_17/Hair/up-dos/hair9.jpg





I am wearing a tiara and a vile , spelling may be off.

2007-07-21 09:38:19 · 22 answers · asked by Mrs. Nolan 4 in Weddings

My sister is terminally ill and I would like to get something that is from the heart. I am totally in shoke and can not think clearly. Any help is greatly appreciated.

2007-07-21 09:34:40 · 16 answers · asked by promus69 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

when someone asks you "do you have a staring problem" i wasn't even staring at her in the first place. but i need some real good comebacks for that. don't tell me fiteing back won't be the solution- i didn't post this question to hear that. so if u plan too, you could just leave.

2007-07-21 09:33:17 · 26 answers · asked by CurioslyPerfect 2 in Friends

Which do you like better? How many times a week? How many times a day? male and female please answer

2007-07-21 09:18:32 · 13 answers · asked by 2bit 7 in Singles & Dating

going down to TN we live in Ohio and pick up some furniture. Well they picked up the furniture and now they are at a race track. He said he didn't know they were going to go the the tracks and now they won't be home until to late to go out. This is one day, that I don't have my son. It doesn't happen very often and we actually have time together. He does this kind of stuff a lot. Do I have the right to be mad? What would u do?

2007-07-21 09:16:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He always text me I am going sleep or I was sleeping and yet he suppose to be my friend. He never says anything else to me and I do not know why, but can he at least say something to me instead of saying, "I'm going sleep" or "I was sleeping.” Only one time he had mention that he was "working" but I work too, so it does not mean anything to me. What should I say to him to stop saying the same thing to me? I know he does more things than sleeping.
Thanks! =D

2007-07-21 09:13:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

tell me i work for sex chatlines and normal chatlines is a job and i can do it at home am not hurting noone ,and have plenty of calls , lol so before you jeaulous women start saying am sad whos sad spending hours a day working in stupid job when i can work what hours i want for good money and i love it ,more fun than sitting in office all day or cleaning old peoples bottoms!! so anyone too my point lol what would make you call a chatline if you were listening to a recorded message first lol let me know what turns u on what makes u want 2 speak to that person ,its all good lol sex sells and so does dirty chat ty guys xx

2007-07-21 09:12:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im in a summer internship in Iowa and I had this friend from Italy which I was close to at the last week of her internship.
Problem is that she like a guy that was hitting on me. I always ignored him,he would tell me he loves me etc. But my friend didnt ignore him,she got to REALLY like him. My best friend and I saw bad intentions in that guy's eyes,but we didnt get involved in it. At the end of the program he hits on both of us at the same time so I decide to talk to her even if I didnt know her. She got crushed and now she is back in Italy. Apparently the guy sends her love letters,tells her he missed her and loves her while hes been sleeping eight different girls in here and he is hitting on me again.
She just found out about this and she just told me she believed in him and they had sex.she is extremely hurt and wants to pay back.
I don't know what to tell her,cause I believe she does need to do something,the guy is an **
Thing is I dont' know if I should take "justice" in my hands

2007-07-21 08:55:41 · 14 answers · asked by kittycatkitty 2 in Friends

This black guy I was out with was like your stacked too I would tear that up. I would hit it so good. Oh and then he's like oh yeah and you stacked too. I'm not black I am afghani so idkkk. What does that mean????????

2007-07-21 08:46:12 · 9 answers · asked by hotgirl 2 in Singles & Dating

Im a married 24 year old girl......I think im going through something...like a stage or something like someone may go through sort of like a mid life crisis or something similar....Ive been married for 3 years & it seems like now I have a hard time focusing on our marriage & I give other men atten. alot more than when I used to. Its like I crave atten. from other men & I cant be happy w/ who Im w/. I should be happy w/ him but whatever I do & however hard I try I still im interested in other men......is this normal? Am I going through something like a phase etc.?

2007-07-21 08:42:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

5 1/2 years down the drain from being betrayed by a man, i finally let it go before i lost myself!

It's been a few months and still its hard and hurts like hell!

2007-07-21 08:42:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i just got informed that my fiance died of heart attack. i am numb all over. i feel like i just died too. there's no one to talk to right now (3:35am). how will i survive today and the following days to come?

2007-07-21 08:39:14 · 28 answers · asked by shirley g 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok this guy wants to go out with me, but I found out that one of my friends use to go out with. There only dated for like a few weeks. Let me remind you that this was like a year ago. She is now with this guys friend, so is it wrong if I date him? Am I betraying her? What should I do? THis guy and I have a lot in commen and I woulndn't mind seeing him! Am I being a bad friend If I date him???

2007-07-21 08:37:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a few days ago, one of my sort-of good friends started being weird toward me. she hasnt acted like this before and if i'm completely honest, it's startin to annoy me now -
she knows i'm sensitive about my accent but she started taking the mick, saying things like "please say that again, didnt get what you were sayin" then laughing about it as if its the funniest thing ever.
the reason i'm sensitive about my accent is coz it's quite hard to understand and its a mixture of different accents put together so i usually have to repeat myself to practically everyone who i'm talking to. i don't have speech problems, it's just the way i talk. plus, some people have been racist toward me coz of my accent.
i know full and well that she understands what i'm sayin, i just dont understand why she's being a cow over somethin she knows i'm sensitive about.

2007-07-21 08:35:29 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband is white and he acts as if he is ashamed of me. I am african american. We have been married for 12 years and he is yet to introduce me to his friends, nor does he wear a wedding ring. He is a truck driver and says he is afraid the ring will get caught up and he could lose a finger while hooking up the truck to the trailers. I think he is just a rotten scoundrel.

2007-07-21 08:30:38 · 23 answers · asked by Wanda 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My problem is with my ex-husband. We have been separated for almost 6 years, yet he still expects me to take responsibility for all the problems in his life. He kicked myself and our 2 kids out when they were 7 years old and 3months. We had been together for 9 years prior to that and he had convinced me through manipulation and degrading that he was the only thing important in my life and without him I was nothing. During the last 5 years I've spent a lot of time trying to stop thinking like this and move on with my life and have begun to succeed. This weekend I'm celebrating my first anniversary with my new husband, and I'm 26 weeks pregnant with our first child together. The lat year has been especially hard for my ex to deal with and has gotten to the point where no matter what happens to him it's my fault. He calls me and tells me he can't pay his rent because I'm making him pay child support, or he can't find a new girlfriend because he's still in love with me.

2007-07-21 08:28:29 · 3 answers · asked by Lostlove 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

My cousin came over yesterday and left last night. While she was here, she was getting on my nerves. She kept calling up all my friends and cussing them out. She wouldnt get off my computer!! So I told her if she didnt act right that she was going to have to go home. I am 18 and she is 17. She said whatever and I said yeah whatever and she started to get in my face saying I need to stop being an *** hole and slapped me hard in my face. Of course I slapped her back. She started punching me and I punched her in the eye. My little sister (age 11) broke up the fight and my cousin threatened to kill me when she comes over tomorrow. She is able to get a knife, gun, pepperspray, baseball bat, anything to hurt me with. I tried apologizing but she tells me ( I am gonna kill you) what do i do?

2007-07-21 08:26:42 · 8 answers · asked by Vanessa 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my partner have been together nearly 3 years now and he just cant accept my daughter and it is really annoying me he has got 2 kids from hes previous relationship and i treat them all the same they stay over on wekends but he is nasty to her ignores her if she is speaking to him always has to find something to moan about her what should i do as it is breaking me in two as i love him but at the end of the day she comes first and always will

2007-07-21 08:25:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-21 08:24:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My sister says 'SPESH' when anything is good, special or worth smiling about. She says she made this up and it's her word.

I say 'WAGGING' (as in wagging like a puppy) and sometimes even wag/wiggle at the same time, to express the same sentiment. I think my word is far superior. I think my sister secretly agrees, but won't admit it. Which do you all think is better? (ps, I am aged 30 and the sister is 32)

2007-07-21 08:23:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

what I mean, well, I'm 39 (hard to believe) and no marriage never, no relationship, just a bunch of annoying dating and one big platonic affair that broke my heart. most people find me beautiful and get all excited to date me, but i guess it doesn't work. so what is that? a lost cause? or keep fighting for this real and solid relationship? the fact that I am an author I thought would be attractive, but whatdoyouknow? most men freak out. deep down I say 'fcuk them' and keep going. what do you think?

2007-07-21 08:22:53 · 19 answers · asked by sarah kay 5 in Singles & Dating

how many minutes do you get?

2007-07-21 08:22:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I do what she asks, whether it's dishes or homework. She argues I should get it done faster, or about it when I do it. I clean up her messes, when she blames it on me. I never complain to her, even when she calls me useless. When I ask for her help, she declines and says she "quits". I am nothing but a trophy to her, and if I dont do something that she wants to show off(mainly to the family), she gets mad. How do I deal with a mother thats able bodied, but doesn't want to get a job? how do I deal with a mother that would rather buy a flat screen t.v with my child support, instead of a new computer for school? How do I deal with a mother that complains about helping me with home-schooling, when she is the one insisting on it?

I know this sounds brattish to all the mothers, but I am basically to tears with her. She treats me wrong, even when I do everything for her.

2007-07-21 08:18:02 · 12 answers · asked by babbaler 2 in Family