5 1/2 years down the drain from being betrayed by a man, i finally let it go before i lost myself!
It's been a few months and still its hard and hurts like hell!
2007-07-21 08:42:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The only thing that heals is time, sorry to say especially if your trust has been broken, and it has. In the meantime try to keep yourself socially busy, friends, internet, hobby's. There is no worse feeling than being betrayed by the one you love, happened to me my first marriage, then I found my love, my soul partner and it has been 26 years, she still is the most beautiful woman in the world and love her more now than I did when I married her. Patience things will work out, your heart will heal and someone good will come into your life, it did for me
2007-07-21 08:54:38 · answer #1 · answered by Pengy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breakups are not easy and though is seems like you're alone in this you are not, it has happened countless times before and it shall happen again to someone else.
Tomorrow will be a brighter day but you have to start working for that day. Right now you haven't completely let go of the past and that's OK but know that one day this experience will be behind you and don't look at it as a lost but as a phase that have allowed you to gain new strength.
2007-07-21 15:51:24 · answer #2 · answered by Owl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortionatley,there is not magic cure,your gonna have to go through all the stages like everyone else,but working on yourself is a great start,go out be with other people,it will take the edge off for a while,and eventually the hurt will go away...good luck.
2007-07-21 16:06:12 · answer #3 · answered by marie e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it does, stuff like that hurst even if you know the person just a few months and truly loved them. But time heals, and remember who you are, what you have to offer, and that that the person is the one who lost out, not you.
2007-07-21 15:47:53 · answer #4 · answered by ningis n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys dont fall in love as much as girls do, but when they do its hard to get over. This sounds so cheesy but go out have fun and meet new people. Even if you meet new just to be friends this can definately help.
2007-07-21 15:47:34 · answer #5 · answered by tibetrangel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its not an easy thing to cure,,,one way i did it was by ,everytime when he popped in my mind i simply ignore it by thinking of something else and i think of the reasons y we werent together...and the good always overcame the bad....even though i still miss him i had to move on cus our relationship wasnt going no where but hell
2007-07-21 15:47:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find something that motivates you and take charge. Keep your mind occupied with good things. Before you know it you would have forgotten about him.
2007-07-21 15:52:00 · answer #7 · answered by Mekia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep ur mind oqupied!!! go to the mall with ur friends and have fun!!! but if u feel that u need more time to mend ur heart, then do that b4 anything else.
2007-07-21 15:44:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a wish for yourself and for your future! http://www.themostexpensivewish.com/ ; it's free, it's a good way to know exactly what you want for your life and to find again hope and confidence... Good luck!
2007-07-21 16:31:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give your poon away to his friend and video tape it. then send it to him in the mail with his friends sperm filled condom. nothing says fu like that.
2007-07-21 15:45:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋