i want to have sex wit my bf really bad but idk if he wants to and like he talks bout just makin out and idk how to bring up the topic sex help plz.
2007-07-21 09:41:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unless your bf is gay, you don't have to say anything. Thank you.
2007-07-21 09:44:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The best way to find out is to actually talk about it. And also if u cant just talk about it you are not read to do it. So just casually bring up the topic of sex. Maybe play a game where u ask eachother questions and u can ask anything. Because eventually it'll get on that anyways. Good luck.
2007-07-21 16:45:23 · answer #2 · answered by T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hmmm. why don't you two just go somewhere and make out for a while, believe me if you two make out and get into it he will get turned on, and then tell him you want to have sex with him and baby I don't think he will have a problem with that kay? just let it happen that is the best way, better than saying "hey lets have sex" this is better its more spontaneous and sexy good luck :)~~~~~~~`
2007-07-21 16:46:59 · answer #3 · answered by willloveslisa37 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember you can only lose your virginity once. But, if you think its the right time, just don't set limits when you are making out, let your hand wander, and be careful, use birth control.
2007-07-21 16:44:41 · answer #4 · answered by Danny N 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
geez i wish my girlfriend said this to me !!
because im the one who wants to have sex she doesnt ever at all
your BF must be very lucky to have a girl like you that wants to give herself up to him what the heck is he thinking not wanting to get laid just try to keep convincing him it will work on guys but no t on girls the other way around so go for it
2007-07-21 16:45:34 · answer #5 · answered by universe man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your thinking like a girl.. duh huh..Love, hun, isn't a topic, its a feeling.. and a Verb.. Does he Love you? Kiss you? Listen to you?- All verbs~love. maybe hes shy- Love Him. start making out occassionally look in his eyes, put your hands on him. If he feels the same way, he'll follow suit. casually pull at his clothes, take off... . shirt or whatever, and if he follows suit, then right on your half way there./ always remember love is a verb!
2007-07-21 16:50:57 · answer #6 · answered by justanotherfreak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't talk about sex and the logistics, then you aren't old enough to have sex. Wait until you are.
2007-07-21 16:43:25 · answer #7 · answered by Karen 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow, Kudos to Karen and Femme Fatale. Anyway, dont be selfish. Ask him........and you will find out the answer. COMMUNICATION BABY!
2007-07-21 17:24:54 · answer #8 · answered by Justice Agent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let things happen naturally.
You will enjoy it better that way.
Why put all this pressure on yourself.
Just wait to see what happens and if you can't do that, then jump him ;)
2007-07-21 16:46:39 · answer #9 · answered by MommaBear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would reccomend not "bringing" the topic, if its something u want make plans to take chargre and take what u want....many men...me includeed love it when a woman takes charge and takes what she wants
2007-07-21 16:47:28 · answer #10 · answered by Joseph C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex outside of marriage is fornication and that is a sin.
2007-07-21 16:47:13 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋