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if im to hot (what they say) then how come i dont get anything. like poeple dont ask me out

2007-07-21 11:51:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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If guys don't ask you out and you are beautiful and intelligent, it is because they are scared that you will turn them down.

You don't want those guys asking you out anyway. Insecurity is not a good thing for any relationship.

Don't hang out at the same places. What type a guy do you want to go out with? Think of a place that they will hang out and hang out at that kind of place.

I don't think that most ladies would want a relationship with a guy who is just after their looks. I may be wrong but I have been married for fifteen years. Good luck.

2007-07-21 11:58:54 · answer #1 · answered by Erik A 3 · 1 1

Perhaps you don't realize just how hot you are and that you are playing the field to low with too little confidence. It amazes me at how many beautiful women don't realize how hot they really are. It could be you're not flirting appropiatley to so ask an objective friend about how you come across to guys. You might find that your body language such as crossing your arms are sending a message of stay away from me. There could be many other things so be upfront and listen to a friend. And be sure to flirt with a guy you like....touch his arm lightly for a second, eye contact, guys are suckers for flirts. But as stated above you could enter into the arms of a player so watch out!
If you are a tease then I personally find that very unattractive so I'd venture to guess many others feel the same and being hot that sends the message that this girls gets around so leave you heart at the door bang her and leave(only hot guys do this).

By the way, I'm hardly the person to ask for this kind of advice
but I just can't shut up.

2007-07-21 12:10:15 · answer #2 · answered by greenwood 5 · 0 0

are you a tease?? there is a thing called "the Centerfold Syndrome", women are so pretty that men think that they are unapproachable,so the men don't even try. the thinking is that you can have the pick of any guys out there and that you already have guys lined up to date you (take a number type thing). if you are teasing, all you do is reaffirm that thinking. if you want to get over that, become more approachable, don't look your best all the time, be more human.

2007-07-21 12:07:30 · answer #3 · answered by oldguy 6 · 0 0

you mustn't be a wimp and bend over backwards, yet you apart from would should not be cocky. in case you will in simple terms be much less cocky, then which would be wonderful. i'm attracted to warm, humorous men that have the suitable volume of self-worth. no longer too lots yet no longer too little.

2016-12-10 18:35:15 · answer #4 · answered by behl 4 · 0 0

My brother tells me that guys don't ask out very attractive girls because they figure the girl must already be "taken" (his word). I think that's kind of messed up. Hopefully sometime you'll meet a guy who's not superficial enough to make the mistake of being intimidated by your looks and who will see your other good qualities.

2007-07-21 11:56:33 · answer #5 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0 0

Leigh is right,a lot of times a really attractive woman scare guys off they think they won't have a chance,so they don't even try,OH YAH,women are not being cocky if they think their good looking,just sure of them selves,guys,their cocky!!!

2007-07-21 12:04:33 · answer #6 · answered by Butch46 4 · 0 0

They might be afraid from the rumors they hear. They want a girlfriend that would be there for them and not run after some other guy that seems a bit hotter than them. Try proving them wrong and be careful about your flirting. Be loyal.

2007-07-21 11:56:47 · answer #7 · answered by Red velvet cupcake:) 2 · 0 0

maybe they think your too pretty to be single & they dont feel like getting rejected by an attractive girl. =]

2007-07-21 11:55:15 · answer #8 · answered by kay lay 2 · 0 0

You're exactly in a same situation like I am..I want to know the answers too!=)

2007-07-21 11:55:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

They must not see your stellar personality on account of your ginormous head

2007-07-21 11:56:21 · answer #10 · answered by Morley 5 · 0 0

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