Family & Relationships - 21 July 2007

i think we are, however he never calls me. so it was his birthday i ask him out , we went to the movies ate. that was on july 15 i have not talked to him since. should i just forget about him or what?

2007-07-21 14:16:57 · 22 answers · asked by coco 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So I have a bf last march. I broke up with him and fell for this another guy who's the top 1 of our class and the heartthrob too. We we're together since april up to present. So when classes started, there we're a lot of gossips about us, especially about me. I ignored this gossips for i really love him. Then, last week i learned that he's besfriend (a girl), one of my closest friends (a boy) and another biotch in our class were stabbing me behind back. This besfriend of his knew our problem last may which should be a secret. For we trusted her, not to tell anyone. Then this guy, is our family friend. I treated him like my brother. The other girl, she's really a damn f*uc*ing s***. Damn. I really hate them. They were saying bad things which were not even true. I'm really not affected by what they were saying for those were damn lies. What made me so affected is THEM, for they were my so-called trusted close friends that i never expected to do such bad things to me. What shall i do?

2007-07-21 14:16:30 · 4 answers · asked by hermione 2 in Friends

Jenn and Josh are getting married in Santa Barbara - I am sending rehearsal wedding invites on beach scene stationery - blue sky, water, sand, palm tree and a littlle red crab - could only find pacific coast lighthouse stamps in keeping to the theme. Want to have some sort of rhyme it will be at Bay Cafe on the 10th of August

2007-07-21 14:11:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

What do you think about choclate linens with a red table runner? Someone suggested I should do this for my wedding colors.

2007-07-21 14:07:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

every movie i see, a pizza delivery boy gets attacked by hot women...usually at a sorority house. what is the deal? is it the uniform or something?

2007-07-21 14:01:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-21 13:55:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I mean, i feel like she deserves better, because i am stubborn and she says i am too hard. I don't try to be hard, but i tell her i am who i am and i was like this when she married me, so now she wants me to be all sweet and i just can't. I really don't know what to do , stay or go. I guess its true when men say you can never please a woman.

2007-07-21 13:54:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

hotness
personality
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2007-07-21 13:52:55 · 24 answers · asked by Lynsey 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy is my best guy friend and I think he likes me. He is always near me, touching my arm, hair, etc. Today, he saw a picture with my hair in a ponytail and he said I looked better with it down. On are way back from the swimming pool ( I had put shorts over my bottoms) he pointed to my but saying I wet myself. He has also found in one day three different excuses to take his shirt off in front of me. And one day he decided to unbotton his shirt and play superman. lol And why me and him were fighting over a sleeping bag, (don't ask why) he said I love you, and then he said he was joking. Was he really joking? He also likes to wrestle with me. I also tried setting him up with another girl, which he refused to even to on the phone. So my question is, does he like me? How do I ask him out ( I asked before, but it was online and he said he only like me as a friend)? He has also showed other signs, but should I look out for anymore?

2007-07-21 13:51:50 · 12 answers · asked by Nicole. 3 in Singles & Dating

Besides your traditional coffee & champagne what alcoholic beverages are typical at weddings? and what NON alcoholic bevys are typical??

2007-07-21 13:44:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

ok my boyfriend and i have sex everytime we see eachother cuz we live in different towns (like 15 mins away) but he always wants it. is he just doing it for fun or cuz he has feelings for me. He tells me he loves me everytime. but latly it just seems fake. so???!!!

2007-07-21 13:44:39 · 6 answers · asked by megan 1 in Singles & Dating

she likes me but i dont like her, what do i do?

2007-07-21 13:34:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

her father is in prison right now and when i had her we wernt talking but we are cool now in fact we will be married in november so i want to go ahead and get her last name changed to his ASAP what steps do i need to take.... and i just yall to know i dont need any right or wrong advice all i want to know is how to get her name changed so dont tell me about how he is in prison and blah blah blah okkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk? thank you

2007-07-21 13:31:52 · 2 answers · asked by brun!pinky 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Basically, a lot of my old friends have moved away or we've grown apart and I find myself with very few friends these days. I'm 23, kind of girlie, ambisious and fun. I used to have lots of friends at high school and these day it's not the case...

Over the past year or two I think it would be fair to say that a bit of my confidence in approaching people has gone, I used to be quite OK in speaking to people in all types of situations but these days I really struggle. My days basically consist of going to work, going to the gym and studying and it's getting REALLY boring.

The problem for me is that I currently study through distance learning and i work in an office where everyone is at least 10+ years older than me, there's only 5 of us in the office and it's unlikely we'll ever go out for a drink after work with one another. All I would like is to make some new friends my own age to hang out with.

Any ideas as to how I can go about this?

Thanks for any advice. :-)

2007-07-21 13:26:04 · 6 answers · asked by Scarlet Siren 2 in Friends

i went over to my friends house and saw that she had another friend over, the other girl was very rude to me the whole time and my friend had invited me first to come over. the other friend is always rude and is so snobby to everyone. we were going to go to the movies but i couldn't stand the other friend any longer and just went home. will they think i am totally retarded or something??
was that a mistake?
i have mixed feelings about it.
and i just don't know...

2007-07-21 13:25:59 · 9 answers · asked by omg.emma37 3 in Friends

I'm so worried about getting married. I am 23 and it seems like all of my friends that have gotten married are divorced and/or not happy with their Significant Other. Granted, most of them married at a young age and usually young marriages don't last. Anyway, I just want to know if anyone out there is in a HAPPY marriage and what you do to keep it happy? How did you know that your partner was right for you?

2007-07-21 13:25:48 · 10 answers · asked by Jenny 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and i have been happily married 16 yrs and we want to buy a porn movie since neither 1 of us has ever seen 1 and are curious to see what 1 is like.

2007-07-21 13:18:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If a smokin hot guy/cutie comes up to you and says you're beautiful or compliments you..

Would you accept it?

would you give him a chance to impress you and have a convo with him?

would you go on a date with him?

How bout an average joe...decently dressed (not brand name clothing) but fat, wears glasses...he said the same thing genuninely....would you accept it?

would you give him a chance to impress you and have a convo with him?

would you go on a date with him?



alright...go!

2007-07-21 13:14:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I got divorced three months ago and im still walking around i really loved this woman even though she was abusive to me, i still dont feel right will this feeling ever go away, anyone out there been in the same boat?? i feel like im walking around making it day by day.

2007-07-21 13:02:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my story...at first this guy would tell me how much he wants me and that he likes me and cant wait to see me...cuz he does live in a different state...right
then he tells me recently that he is going to the army for 6 years...but he is still coming to see me
i am piss off...
what does he mean he is going the army what about us?
he already served....i told him i didnt want him to go....he told me he hasnt even seen me ....and then i said exactly...he states that he is still coming to see me...he also never calls me or saids he miss me are nothing..just everything else....then he told me i was overreacting...when i left messages of the same thing...telling him dont go...i care about you...i want to see if we can be together....keep in mind i have nothing agsnst the army at all...

2007-07-21 13:00:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I would like some advice on how I can help my wife develop a good relationship with my children. I am remarried, and I pay child support. I'm close with my children, but they pose a significant expense to me.

Any advice out there?

2007-07-21 12:57:30 · 9 answers · asked by PersonalImprov 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend Josephine (15) is caught up in a fantasy world. Her and I have known this guy who goes to our church for about a year and a half, and she has never said a sentence to the guy. But she keeps on obssesing over him, and creating parallel universes. Talking about him for hours. Asking me if I go and she doesn't what he is wearing. Now that she and I have got into a fight she asks our other friend Jim. It's ridiculous because this guy is 4 years older then us and I can tell in no way has tried to get to know her. I don't want her to get hurt but when I try to help she says im jealous. What can I do

2007-07-21 12:57:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have a male (30 ish) boarder for 2 or 3 weeks. The first night after dinner he said he would clear the dishes and wash up. I said no I will do them, you check out whats on the T.V or whatever. He started to clear up and I got a bit agro and said no man does the dishes in MY house. I think he felt a bit ummmmmm unwanted. It's just I feel it is my place to do the domestic things and let him relax while he is here.

2007-07-21 12:55:02 · 13 answers · asked by G G 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been seeing a man for 5 years now.We are both in our 40's. We met when he was still married and I was recently divorced. He is now divorced too and we have a great thing. Neither of us want to marry until my children are out of the house; they are teenagers. We both always put our children first and see each other when we can. My problem is this... he does not want me to be around his children. One daughter is 20 and the other is 11. The older one thinks of me as the woman who broke up her parent's marriage and the little one doesn't know anything about me. He says I would be a wonderful example for them and he knows they would like me if given a chance but he doesn't want to confuse or upset them, so we keep our lives separate from theirs. I haven't made an issue about it because I understand in a way that he is trying to protect them. Still, sometimes it makes me feel very bad that he won't share this part of his life with me. Any suggestions?

2007-07-21 12:53:32 · 8 answers · asked by mab5096 7 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife and I have an open relationship, she never has trouble finding playmates, but I do. Any suggestions?

2007-07-21 12:53:28 · 5 answers · asked by jstusucks 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Everyone has special routines they put together. Maybe its your sunday morning routine, or your 'alone time' routine. What's yours?

2007-07-21 12:53:11 · 5 answers · asked by jordan baker 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

how are some ways to cheer her up. and if not how muc time alone should i give her ?

2007-07-21 12:50:46 · 3 answers · asked by joe s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I haven't been in the dating circle for a while, my husband is 10 years older than I am, he told me he was only 3 years older when we were dating.
What are some reasons men prefer much younger women?

2007-07-21 12:45:57 · 14 answers · asked by 結縁 Heemei 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-21 12:44:23 · 6 answers · asked by lisa s 1 in Family

Ok my boyfriend of 4 years almost has the most annoying mom... I am a VERY nice person but I just can seem to get along with her at all! I am a Sagg. and she is a Taurus and that is a very BAD combination. She tries to outdo me with material things and everything I do she does the same thing.... like she tries to be me and acts jealous in a way cuz she always looks at me like she hates me but always asks me where I bought this or that. She always tells my b/f that I am too loud and she would rather me not be at their house. I really cant stand her at all. She tries to act like she has all control over me and treats me like I am a little kid and I am almost 21! Also.. I try to hide everything I buy or even not let her hear what music I like b/c she will imitate and do the exact same thing. She talks bad about me and is always rude to me. We know we both pretty much hate each other. What should I do???

2007-07-21 12:44:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family