Ok my boyfriend of 4 years almost has the most annoying mom... I am a VERY nice person but I just can seem to get along with her at all! I am a Sagg. and she is a Taurus and that is a very BAD combination. She tries to outdo me with material things and everything I do she does the same thing.... like she tries to be me and acts jealous in a way cuz she always looks at me like she hates me but always asks me where I bought this or that. She always tells my b/f that I am too loud and she would rather me not be at their house. I really cant stand her at all. She tries to act like she has all control over me and treats me like I am a little kid and I am almost 21! Also.. I try to hide everything I buy or even not let her hear what music I like b/c she will imitate and do the exact same thing. She talks bad about me and is always rude to me. We know we both pretty much hate each other. What should I do???
2007-07-21 12:44:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Maybe you should listen to what she has to say, maybe some of it is true. If you don't like being around her, then why go to HER house. You don't have to around someone you don't like, because she is your boyfriends mother. If you go on like this your boyfriend will have to choose between you or mom, and you'll lose.
2007-07-21 13:02:25 · answer #1 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey I would have a talk with your boyfriend and tell him that you don't deserve to be treated like she treats you, and until things change you just can't be around her. There is no reason you have to take that abuse. Life is too short to have to suffer because someone can't let thier baby boy go. If you are meant to be together he will tell his mom that she is creating a bad situation for the two of you. May God bless the two of you.
2007-07-21 20:21:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let your other half know how she makes you fell and stop going over there go to your house or find a special place for the two of you to hang out and do what it is you do
2007-07-25 19:25:19 · answer #3 · answered by blackrose8684 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first talk to the b/f about if it continues and he is saying nothing dump him for his mom maybe that's what she want,you deserve better
2007-07-21 19:56:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore her, eventualy she will accept your relationship. she probably just jealous but most mother in laws are so its normal.
2007-07-21 20:46:51 · answer #5 · answered by spadezgurl22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋