ok my boyfriend and i have sex everytime we see eachother cuz we live in different towns (like 15 mins away) but he always wants it. is he just doing it for fun or cuz he has feelings for me. He tells me he loves me everytime. but latly it just seems fake. so???!!!
2007-07-21 13:44:39 · 6 answers · asked by megan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go with your gut. It seems fake. Does he talk to you when you don't see eachother, like on the phone or through an instant messaging program? If not, then no he doesn't really care. If he did, he'd make it priority to keep in contact with you. If I were you I'd just dump him.
2007-07-21 13:47:40 · answer #1 · answered by ♫ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be possible hes faking it and just using u for sex :\
but since u guys live in different towns then that could only mean he misses u and everything but then again by the way u say that it sounds so fake probably means u lost ur love for him or maybe that he rlly just wants the sex....so just try asking how much he rlly loves u and also do u guys talk a lot on the computer and any way u guys communicate is that still good....then maybe he does love you if ur guys's way of communicating stronger cause it can only mean he makes it up for the no seeing eachother so he wants the both of u to feel good......does it make sense?
2007-07-21 13:50:54 · answer #2 · answered by VannaCuppycake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both, but I bet your intuition is right. A lot depends on how old you guys are. If you are teens/early 20's it is pretty unlikely that either of you are really in love. And how long have you been in this relationship? I don't believe in "love at first sight", we tend to confuse that feeling with infactuation or lust. However, having sex everytime you see each other is pretty normal no matter how old you are. Enjoy that for what it is.
2007-07-21 13:54:00 · answer #3 · answered by Glen W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
15 minutes away is your excuse for having sex every time you guys see each other? It's not a good enough excuse! 15 minutes is nothing! If you want to find out if he's feelings are sincere have him or you visit three or four times without sex and see what happens! If he's cool and still loving you, well then you know!
2007-07-21 13:50:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it even remotely seems fake, then its definetly fake.
You guys just seem like f*ck buddies, and honestly theres nothing wrong with that as long as you both know thats its just for fun and nothing more.
I suggest you talk to him about it.
2007-07-21 13:47:52 · answer #5 · answered by atari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be an "I love this" instead of "I love you".
2007-07-21 13:48:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋