i went over to my friends house and saw that she had another friend over, the other girl was very rude to me the whole time and my friend had invited me first to come over. the other friend is always rude and is so snobby to everyone. we were going to go to the movies but i couldn't stand the other friend any longer and just went home. will they think i am totally retarded or something??
was that a mistake?
i have mixed feelings about it.
and i just don't know...
2007-07-21 13:25:59 · 9 answers · asked by omg.emma37 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No, you're not retarded. Always leave people who don;t respect you. You did the right thing.
If either of those girls think you're "retarded" for going home, they don;t deserve your friendship.
2007-07-21 13:32:17 · answer #1 · answered by Loen872 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, leaving was not a mistake. However, you probably should have either told your friend the real reason you were leaving before you left, or simply said that you were sorry, but couldn't go to the movies. If you chose the second option, then I'd suggest telling your friend the real reason you couldn't go to the movies is because you really didn't like the other girl and would not have had a good time if she were there. Do NOT tell your friend that she has to choose between you, let her do that for herself. Once she knows that you don't get along with the other girl, she will either stop seeing one of you, or plan her visits so that you are not both there at the same time. Just be prepared to be the one not invited, just in case.
2007-07-21 21:58:09 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I think that was actually a very smart thing to do. About the rude friend I think you should tell you friend about it and if she sticks by the rude friend then you know who your real friends are.
2007-07-21 20:30:50 · answer #3 · answered by shy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have wondered the same thing b4 and have always chose to stay, but i regreted it later. it depends how bad the situation is. mine was they always put me down and in the end they made me feel bad about myself. you just have to do wha you feel is best, go with your gut! you could also try to talk to your friend about how you feel and try to make sure that they understand that u didnt leave bc of them!
Good Luck!
2007-07-21 20:32:20 · answer #4 · answered by Jennar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your not retarted it's just that you probaly wanted to have some alone time with your friend but, then she already had another friend over you could have still went to the movies with them nomatter if she was going to.
2007-07-21 20:29:51 · answer #5 · answered by carla m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not retarted.
The girl obviously doesnt like you but thats not your problem.
I think she wanted to get rid of you so she could have your friend to herself.
Just dont take it too seriously.
2007-07-22 01:00:10 · answer #6 · answered by melissa b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have to tell my friend that if that other girl is there, I won't be showing up. You don't have to put up with her BS.
2007-07-21 20:28:58 · answer #7 · answered by Danagasta 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have done the same, I'm sure your friend will understand.
2007-07-21 20:28:52 · answer #8 · answered by Annie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u are not retarded
it was not a mistake i would have done the same thing
2007-07-21 20:29:11 · answer #9 · answered by soccerlover214 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋