Family & Relationships - 21 July 2007

This boy at my school wrote me a love note and attached a highlighted copy of Annabel Lee by Edgar Allen Poe. He bought me a locket, and then later showed his friends a lock of my hair.

2007-07-21 04:35:17 · 17 answers · asked by durritscaitlin 2 in Singles & Dating

moved out months ago leaving bills all unpaid, which we just found out, and has cancer so its unlikely she will move back in. his mom just passed and left him a little money, he wants to catch up on the mortgage to take it out of foreclosure (its still on market) and move in until it sells. we can't afford rent in apt we live in and mortgage. and if it goes under we won't be able to get a house when we are ready. we have been together two years, im about to have a child in jan, and planned to buy a home in another year. I just want honest opinions

2007-07-21 04:34:28 · 5 answers · asked by uthinkso 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm really interested in hearing from guys especially...what age did you meet your true love..that is the one you fell head over heels for and married!

2007-07-21 04:33:20 · 32 answers · asked by sonia 1 in Weddings

like if a mother had atention deficit disorder, would she pass it to her unborn baby?

2007-07-21 04:32:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

His family is in Los Angeles. My family is east coast (Virginia, Maryland, New York.) I grew up in Richmond, Va. In Richmond, my family has a lot of connections with restuarnts and vendors and such. My question, Do i have my wedding in Richmond where i can probably get a lot of great deals on vendors near my family, OR do i have it in Dc, where it would be more cost effective for his family to fly into? I live directly (almost to the mile) smack dab in the middle of the two. There is NO question we're having it in VA or Dc, because my family is much larger than his. How accomidating to i want to be? Date isnt set til '09.

2007-07-21 04:31:48 · 14 answers · asked by loki_only1 6 in Weddings

we dated on and off for 2 years and then very serious for another year ( i got a ring we basically lived together) but see we were was to young for what we had .. i was 17 and he was 18. So things got really bad he left came back, and then i left all together. There were some things about him that weren't really acceptable in my eyes.. like he dropped out of school ( with no ged) wrecked 2 cars (more then once) didn't have insurance.wanted to have unprotected sex with me, cussed and yelled, lied..but now a year later i think about what if he changed? what if i messed up leaving him (because i still do love him) so i wen on his myspace the other day to see that he has a new gf.. now he is 20, and he is dating a 15 ( or just turned 16) year old girl that is a sophmore! is there anyway that they ever will get married? i'm scared she might get pregnant by him.. what if now he is a good bf to her. they have alot of friends together, and seem to be happy.. did i make a mistake in leavn him?

2007-07-21 04:31:22 · 10 answers · asked by southernprideinmyveins420 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

when he and i r out @ a movie, he sometimes brushes my hair back w/ his hand and then puts his head on mine. what does it mean?

2007-07-21 04:29:49 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

would it be ok if i called her "pink monster" or do you think she would get angry?

2007-07-21 04:29:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am a 5'11" female. My brother is 6'2" tall. However, we two sisters who are 5'4" Our parents are tall. What happened to the other girls?

2007-07-21 04:28:08 · 5 answers · asked by lahlahdipsypo 2 in Family

And if so , what would be an appropriate gift?

2007-07-21 04:26:33 · 12 answers · asked by donellew2002 2 in Weddings

im 15 and my moms friend is 56. she takes me out once a week. we go shopping and go to her house. her name is nancy. she is married and has two adopted daughters that are 26 and 28. i known her for 5 years. we do fun things together. last night, i saw her from 2:00 to 10:00 at night. she is like a mentor. i gave her a 4 paged story on how much i love her and admired her. i wrote in the story that she puffs her hair a lot. she was laughing through the whole story. she holds my hand and kisses me on the cheek. she calls me honey and sweets. she says her daughters get jealous. is this normal?

2007-07-21 04:25:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am about to lose my mind, b/c of my in-laws. Everytime I try to tell them NO, they keep persisting.

Here is the list of questions they REPEATEDLY ASK ME!

1. can we, ( FIL & MIL) be in the delivery room and take pictures? And Just "BE THERE" to witness...I think they are sick to want to see my neither regions!

2. Will you, hubby & son go with us to the water park? ( Even though I am having complications, Back & heart problems) Even BIL from Texas asked me 3 times, and I told him NO!

3. can you take a week off while your BIL and family is in town, to spend the entire week with us and them?

( they are coming down next weekend! How can I get the ok by next week? DUH!)
I am NOT supposed to be under any stress...I just got out of the hospital with my heart, luckily the baby is ok.
What do I do?

Please help me!

2007-07-21 04:24:18 · 15 answers · asked by Midnight Winter WOLF 4 in Family

She has her own apartment, while I still live with the folks. I live in a really bad part of town, and she lives in the nicest part of town. She probably has cooler friends, why I have losers as friends. Should I even try or attempt to ask her out? All I really want is to hang out with her, cause I find her really interesting.

2007-07-21 04:23:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-21 04:23:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know everyone will call me racist, but I really don't feel that it's right to marry outside of your own colour. I don't hate people of colour, or even dislike them, but I don't want this for our family. What should I do?

2007-07-21 04:20:41 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm just curious how you feel about it. I have a guy friend (well, technically friends-with-benefits) who wants to watch me with another woman. I have no problem with it (especially if he wants to join in!), but I'm not sure how other women feel about it. What do you think the chances are another girl would be okay with that???

2007-07-21 04:18:04 · 10 answers · asked by Amy S 3 in Singles & Dating

Or does having true love means not wanting only Sex or wanting only sex means not true love or what . Is there any other concept of love . can someone be really attached to someone that does not even fantasize a physical relation with him/her to feel in love . Like it shows in many films and many . Or this is all just fake & only sex is what we call LOVE

2007-07-21 04:17:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am at a breaking point with this relationship and wondering if it is even worth the aggravation. I am not fulfilled and do not feel supported in this relationship. He does NOT contribute financially, sexually he has gotten lazy and sloppy, and emotionally he just isn't there for me like I need. How do I begin to turn the tables to get more of what I want, to ensure that I am happy and satisfied and not wasting my time in this relationship? I really care about this guy. We are extreemly compatible, and have the potential to be a lasting relationship.

I am asking because right now I am wondering if I should even go on. I mean, I want to but I am giving way more than I should in this relationship and would like things to be EVEN between the two of us. How can I begin to assert myself, without being a *****? How can I stand up for myself and assert my rights and needs as a woman in this relationship? I am giving way more of myself and it's starting to get old. Fast.

2007-07-21 04:17:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Her name is jessica.She is 13 years old and she is doing grade 7.

2007-07-21 04:16:32 · 4 answers · asked by Samantha J 1 in Friends

Last night after a quickie my boyfriend asked me if I came and I didn't. I didn't know to answer that so I tried to avoid the question. I don't want to have to do that again. I want to be upfront and honest with him in everything.

Guys, I'm pretty sure if I said "No, but it's ok" it's not ok and that's not something you would want to hear, correct?

If it should happen again, how can I tell him no without hurting him?

2007-07-21 04:16:02 · 8 answers · asked by Ersabette 5 in Singles & Dating

What do I do after a friend of mine set me up on a blind date after I recently broke up? I talked to her online, and I guess we are going to the movies with her and friends. What do I do without going to far. Also, WHEN SHOULD YOU PULL THE MOVE?

2007-07-21 04:14:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay i'm attracted by older men(like 20-30's even) and when ever i'm around one i go crazy and i don't care if they even have a gf so how can i be less atracted and flirty with older men and get into my age men??( around 17-20?) and i heard once if you lost your dad you seem to find guy to match his kind and kinda want him because you miss your dad sooo much (but thats the whole point I kinda don't miss my dad?) Any answers???

2007-07-21 04:14:23 · 1 answers · asked by mandy 2 in Singles & Dating

i heard that my sister has smoked pot from people and i found in the internet browser she has been looking up how to roll a blunt, also i heard that she has had sex but can't prove that, its really gross. what do u think i should do? how should i punish her im her older brother and were catholic i don't go to church and i used to smoke too

2007-07-21 04:14:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If so, Why?

2007-07-21 04:10:27 · 14 answers · asked by Sherry 1 in Family

i feel SO bad!
im seeing this guy..like were not actually dating serious or whatever and i slept with someone else last night.
he slept with someone else to but that was like 3 weeks ago and now we've become closer.
but we're not a 'couple'

should i feel bad??

2007-07-21 04:08:38 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He kissed me than he left well he moved to ohio but he e-mails me still but only on my b-day and other holidays thats all.

2007-07-21 04:08:13 · 9 answers · asked by Radical Red 2 in Friends

I do not know if he still loves me, he avoids me. I'd like to break our relation but HOW???

2007-07-21 04:07:12 · 8 answers · asked by Tahosy 1 in Singles & Dating

is it wrong for a guy whos 19 to like a 16 year old girl and not for sex but for a relationship?

2007-07-21 04:05:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi, i recently split with my girlfriend of 2yrs, and in the past few weeks ive been out on dates, friends have setup. I havent been having much joy to be honest, and i dont feel my confident self, its kinda getting me down as ive never had a problem with women before and I used to be the life and soul of the party, i could chat to anyone and just charm them in the past, but what have i become now, if only my friends could see me now(lol).


This is a link to my picture, have a look and tell me what you think, am i really that bad???

www.myspace.com/virtual_irish_guy

2007-07-21 04:04:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Life expectancy for a woman is about 80, so 40 would be middle age and 45 would be past middle age. Some people are in denial about there age and say 45 is the new 30. If 45 is the new 30, then is 30 the new 15? Life expectancy has not increased much over the last ten years, so how can 45 =30? People are so afraid to grow old they deny the truth to feel young.

2007-07-21 04:01:45 · 26 answers · asked by DALIAN 1 in Singles & Dating