moved out months ago leaving bills all unpaid, which we just found out, and has cancer so its unlikely she will move back in. his mom just passed and left him a little money, he wants to catch up on the mortgage to take it out of foreclosure (its still on market) and move in until it sells. we can't afford rent in apt we live in and mortgage. and if it goes under we won't be able to get a house when we are ready. we have been together two years, im about to have a child in jan, and planned to buy a home in another year. I just want honest opinions
2007-07-21 04:34:28 · 5 answers · asked by uthinkso 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am in the mortgage industry you do not want a foreclosure on your bf if you plan on making a life with him and buying a home together in the future. Move into the home that he currently owns keep up the payments and when you decide to sell you can use the equity to put down on your new home. In the meantime do a little painting and put some of your things around so that you will feel a little more comfortable.
2007-07-21 05:02:33 · answer #1 · answered by ashwilly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can take it out of foreclosure, just keep up the payments after that and stay there. If the ex is wanting half the money from the sale, offer to make payments to her, after deductiong the money you spent getting out of foreclosure.
2007-07-21 04:40:55 · answer #2 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is totally fine as long as you feel ok with it. In your case you are forced to live in the house. Put up lots of pics of you and your bf together as well as your family. Bring in lots of plants and aquarium. It will bring you a sense of your own space in no time.
Just relax and save your money for that baby and your new house. Congrats on your new addition!
2007-07-21 04:45:14 · answer #3 · answered by Laura 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you men can get the domicile out of foreclosures, i might say do it. There are some motives - one, having a foreclosures or financial disaster on your credit checklist is amazingly undesirable. 2, pulling it out of foreclosures will enable him to maintain in spite of fairness he has contained in the domicile so if he needs to sell it contained sooner or later, there is a few money already contained in the domicile. whether, with this being pronounced - he needs to make valuable the ex-spouse has no legal precise to the domicile. this might require getting a lawyer who makes a speciality of genuine supplies/supplies. He additionally needs to make valuable the ex-spouse is totally out of the domicile and is conscious that she will't come decrease back. (Sorry with regards to the main cancers.) in my view, i might do it. and that i might additionally paint, wallpaper or in spite of to make it experience greater like "our" domicile and not the domicile of him and the ex.
2016-09-30 10:22:55 · answer #4 · answered by mcglothlen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt want to be in this situation. but if you love him and want to stay with him. just hang in there until yall get a home of your own.
2007-07-21 04:43:56 · answer #5 · answered by star lights 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋