i feel SO bad!
im seeing this guy..like were not actually dating serious or whatever and i slept with someone else last night.
he slept with someone else to but that was like 3 weeks ago and now we've become closer.
but we're not a 'couple'
should i feel bad??
2007-07-21 04:08:38 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you both are cheap sl uts - god help you when you settled down in many years to come
2007-07-21 04:10:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 4⤋
Well, since you are just dating and it sounds like to me that the relationship is open you shouldn't feel bad. If you feel that you two are becoming closer then perhaps sleeping with other people should be off limits at least on your end. This non serious relationship could be starting into something more. Talk with him about his intentions and how you stand with him in the relationship. This would help ease any confusion between the two of you.
2007-07-21 04:13:44 · answer #2 · answered by pacifia1977 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awh hon, why are you going to feel bad if your only seeing him. Seeing dont really mean anything if your boyfriend and girlfriend then you should feel bad. You aint done anything wrong. Some people see loads of people at the same time and sleep with them all. Hes probs done the same thing at one point along the line, so you can talk to him about it and try and make him understand or you can just leave it. Because you really have done nothing wrong.
2007-07-21 04:40:15 · answer #3 · answered by Danii B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol wow i was in same situation not too long ago, only the guy i slept with was my ex, and we were doing the friends with benefits thing for a while before i started seeing my new guy. we werent real serious so i thought it was ok. i felt a lil guilty since i like this new guy, but i did it anyways. now me and new guy are serious so i quit sleepin with my ex. feel bad only if u do feel bad. if u dont feel bad then nothings wrong!
2007-07-21 04:14:34 · answer #4 · answered by knowitall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 10:21:28 · answer #5 · answered by mcglothlen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if "you" feel what you did was wrong.
If there's no type of commitment between the 2 of you, then you really don't have anything to feel bad about.
Not saying that he's going to look at it that way.
So maybe now is a good time to talk to him and find out exactly where your relationship lies.
2007-07-21 04:13:09 · answer #6 · answered by MommaBear 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, you shouldn't feel bad because you're not in an exclusive relationship. However, I think that you should work on being with just one person, not sleeping around. Believe me, your heart will get involved even when you think it's just for sex, and then it hurts a lot when the guy doesn't feel the same. Reserve sex for when you know someone well and you're exclusive, and it will feel a whole lot better.
2007-07-21 04:13:00 · answer #7 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
in young age when am doing somthing wrong ? then after i feel its bad but in our mind some days after i can repeat the bad item again thats the nature dont thinking about this matter.
every bad work like be good but after passing time i know its big mistake i think? anyway enjoy ur life
2007-07-21 04:17:49 · answer #8 · answered by raj sharma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, If he slept with someone else 3 weeks ago, I don't think so. but thats my opinion. You really should talk to him.
Ask him what's going on the between you two. ask for honest him for his opinion, you don't want to get serious when you don't really want to
2007-07-21 04:15:00 · answer #9 · answered by omniryu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to ask yourself and your guy where you both stand. I think that you should feel bad if you are in a relationship with him, but if he slept with someone 3 WEEKS ago and you are "cool" with it....there's no relationship and you shouldn't feel bad.
2007-07-21 04:12:47 · answer #10 · answered by beaniebaby 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you have said what you have done and whats happend - yet not why feel bad - just that you do.
what you seem to be suggesting there is that you are acting as tho your in exclusive relationship and thats why you feel bad.
if so then your in the wrong kind of relationship and need to talk to him or change where you are.
2007-07-21 05:36:11 · answer #11 · answered by Andy C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋