Hi, i recently split with my girlfriend of 2yrs, and in the past few weeks ive been out on dates, friends have setup. I havent been having much joy to be honest, and i dont feel my confident self, its kinda getting me down as ive never had a problem with women before and I used to be the life and soul of the party, i could chat to anyone and just charm them in the past, but what have i become now, if only my friends could see me now(lol).
This is a link to my picture, have a look and tell me what you think, am i really that bad???
www.myspace.com/virtual_irish_guy
2007-07-21 04:04:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
www.myspace.com/virtual_irish_guy
2007-07-21 04:05:46 · update #1
Thanks for all your kind words guys, im not depressed or anything like that, wont go that far, just a little down thats all, hey dont worry about me, im a big boy!
xxx
2007-07-21 04:24:27 · update #2
your cute in the one picture, but your other picture is just weird. it dont make you look oh so good. i'd do away with it.
so you lost your enjoyment in life and are probably a little depressed, but all this will come back in time. if you cant be with the one you love, love the one your with.
and for all you people out there, the myspace is followed with virtual_irish_guy
2007-07-21 04:12:47 · answer #1 · answered by Tljabgdvhj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not ready to date yet. If you've been successful in the past, it isn't about your looks, because they haven't changed. You're just not much fun to be around, and people pick up on that. Give yourself some time to be sad before you jump out there again. When you're ready, you'll know. The usual rule is, take one month off for every year of the relationship. Perhaps you'll be ready to try again in a few weeks.
2007-07-21 04:08:38 · answer #2 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't link to your picture. because it really doesn't matter WHAT you look like, everyone can be happy, regardless of height, facial features, weight, etc.
We are put on this earth for a reason, we are all unique and very special. perhaps you need to change your dating habits. Maybe change the places you go on a date or the places you go looking for dates.
The only time you want to change yourself, is when YOUR not happy with yourself.
So we have to be honest with ourselves to know when that time for change comes.
Your particular story, face, body, are all unique, they are worth getting to know!
If someone doesn't hink that, their not worth knowing.
If you go to the same places all the time, you will meet all the same people. try somewhere new, but safe, you might change your perspective!
2007-07-21 04:12:24 · answer #3 · answered by Market Magician 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry im like that 2, but i think it would be a good idea just 2 think of ya self like some1 else or something....
2007-07-21 04:11:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your link does not work
2007-07-21 04:09:26 · answer #5 · answered by misskitti7® 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur not over her yet,be single for a while and have some time on ur own. getting over someone doesnt happen over night,no matter who did the breaking up.
be happy.
xxx
2007-07-21 04:11:19 · answer #6 · answered by Honeybee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just never tell yourself that you can't do it.. Always say that you can...
2007-07-21 04:08:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋