She has her own apartment, while I still live with the folks. I live in a really bad part of town, and she lives in the nicest part of town. She probably has cooler friends, why I have losers as friends. Should I even try or attempt to ask her out? All I really want is to hang out with her, cause I find her really interesting.
2007-07-21 04:23:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No chance in hell? She goes to the same college im going to. She also dresses nicer than me.
2007-07-21 04:24:10 · update #1
Ive already talked to her. I want to be her friend, but i do find her attractive. Do I have a chance?
2007-07-21 04:28:39 · update #2
It's a pride thing for most guys. I don't think any guys would want to date a girl well off then they are.
2007-07-21 04:31:51 · update #3
Wow your story sounds exactly like the play "A Streetcar Named Desire" where Stanley comes from a really crappy area, while his wife Stella was raised in a nice area. I'd say you have a chance. You have nothing to lose. Ask her out!
2007-07-21 05:25:47 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not ever going to unless you can get past this whole feeling inadequate because your material possessions may or may not be what hers are. Who cares if she has her own apartment and you're not there yet? Who cares if she's got "nicer" clothes or lives in a different part of town. And who judges how "cool" her friends are compared to yours? If you don't think your friends are very cool, then they're not really friends are they? You've got to accept that you're good enough for someone to love you for who you are instead of something that you're not or you will be alone forever, or you'll end up attracting the WRONG type of girl. I'm sorry to be so blunt, but that's just how it is.
2007-07-21 11:30:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're assuming she's hung up on money and 'coolness.' Maybe you should get to know her and give her a chance. Also, you can get some really nice clothes from thrift stores, so maybe do some shopping and see if you can do better without spending money. Yes, you have a chance. Figure it this way: rejection will hurt, but if you don't try, you can never get a 'yes' either.
2007-07-21 11:28:15 · answer #3 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, try to make frends. find out more bout her (but dont stalk lol). it doesnt really matter where ur frum
my bf lives in an apartment on the other side of town, and i live in a mansion near the coast....hes african american, im asian...it doesnt matter where u come frum, how much money u hav, and where u live...if u guys end up frends, whos to say u cant b anything more?
2007-07-21 11:37:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure you have a chance you can date anyone you want to date sure she might say no but a girl that is has bad friends and is not a good dresser and stuff might say no it all depends on who she wants to date you should try you never know she might say yes maybe she doesn't care how you dress and stuff maybe she feels the same about you give it a shot
2007-07-21 11:29:29 · answer #5 · answered by Maddie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well....no girls is out of any guys league...you just need to know the right things to say....find out what shes interested in, dress a little nicer and compliment her at least once everytime you c her....she'll come around just dont rush it...it might take alittle time if she doesnt feel the same way about you
2007-07-21 11:36:16 · answer #6 · answered by halo_1_rocks117 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were her, I wouldn't date you. However if she does i'm sure the ending won't be fairy tale like you expect it to be. Her parents will know. Find a hoodrat.
2007-07-21 11:33:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG YOUR BACK FEELING SORRY FOR YOURSELF AGAIN !!!! PLEASE GROW SOME NUTS AND START ACTING LIKE A MAN INSTEAD OF BI*CHTING ABOUT HOW UGLY YOU ARE !! WHAT IS UGLY TO SOME IS BEAUTIFUL TO OTHERS AND EVERYONE AT SOME POINT IN THERE LIVES GETS THE KNOCK BACK ITS PART OF BEING AN ADULT !! JUST TAKE IT IN THE CHIN AND MOVE ON IF SHE DONESNT FANCY YOU !!
2007-07-21 11:28:37 · answer #8 · answered by DEBBIE DOES DALLAS !!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u like her or her surroundings go talk to her u just want to be her friend WATS the deal
2007-07-21 11:27:56 · answer #9 · answered by someone special u can love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋