I do not know if he still loves me, he avoids me. I'd like to break our relation but HOW???
2007-07-21 04:07:12 · 8 answers · asked by Tahosy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Call and tell him you need to speak with him in person and do not take "no" for an answer. Tell him things are not working out and you want to break it off with him. Do not call him or see him anymore either. Make a clean break from him and do other things to keep him off your mind.
2007-07-21 04:11:52 · answer #1 · answered by leliu5th 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This seems familiar because I've been there, honestly its really hard.
What I did to mine is that I first talked to him on the phone regarding our relationship and how its progressing. I told him to meet me in some place and so we did.
I told him that I still liked him but it just isn't working out. It might be the hardest thing to say goodbye as of now, but I think I'm doing the right thing.
Hope I helped.
2007-07-21 11:12:41 · answer #2 · answered by speakers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he avoids you, then you definitely need to break it off, even if you still love him, just for your self-esteem. If he avoids you, then just let it go. You don't need any big scene. Just don't call him and avoid places where you'll see him. It will fade away by itself.
2007-07-21 11:16:09 · answer #3 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he avoids you it sounds like he doesn't love you in return and you are wasting your time and your heart....there are to many good men out there looking for a good woman to waste your time on a loser? player? it is hard to close your heart to love but the heart will heal with time....i spent nine years with a man i loved, one day he raised a hand to me, it was the only time and the last time he did it, i packed my bags on the spot and left....yes i missed him but also realized that me heart was better for what i had done, the pain eventually passes....as they say, life goes on....
2007-07-21 11:15:23 · answer #4 · answered by msvaga 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit with him and tell him that you feel as though he doesn't want this relationship anymore and that your feelings seem to be stronger for him than his do for you. Tell him that you deserve someone that cares for you and that it isn't him and that you think you two should see other people and not each other anymore. Good luck.
2007-07-21 11:14:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave him. Dont even call or look for him, then he knows you want a break
2007-07-21 11:48:37 · answer #6 · answered by ironlady42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to just break it off. the longer you wait, the more it'll hurt.
2007-07-21 11:11:22 · answer #7 · answered by VW Girl :o) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just break it!!!???
call it off the next time u talk
all the best
2007-07-21 11:10:20 · answer #8 · answered by tas s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋