My dad used to walk around in boxers all the time. He's like 236 pounds, no shirt, no shoes, just boxers. It was a very disturbing scene. He would always... "hang out" if you know what I mean. I told my doctor how upsetting this was to me, so he went out and bought these ugly red shorts, which, to be honest, are like one inch longer then boxers. He wears them out of the house to, with shirts that are to small, and sandals. When he sits on the couch, it's basically a sideways version of the Lotus Position. When he eats, his legs are wide open, and he makes disgusting smacking noises with his mouth. Another problem is, ankles are a major turn-on for me, and he's always walking around barefoot or with sandals. It would be like if your mom walked around topless, that's what ankles are to me. I've already explained how gross his shorts are, but he thinks I'm being silly, and I can't tell him about my "foot" thing, he'll think I'm a freak. How do I get the message across if he wont listen?
2007-07-21 00:29:42 · 5 answers · asked by RainKid 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It goes beyond that to though. I harbor very negative feelings towards men (I know I'm a guy to, but I'm also gay so I guess it kind of makes sense) and I think they originated from him. It gets worse and worse everyday, I don't even want him to sit next to me anymore. Every time he talks I get pissed. When he kisses me goodbye, I wipe the spot where his lips where. I think him "exposing" himself to me and my sister might be the cause of all this. I find us both screaming at him everyday for small things, where if my mom where to do it, it wouldn't bother me at all. He thinks my anger towards him is because of friends, or teenage hormones, or my new religion. He blames everything else, when in reality, it seems to all lead back to him.
2007-07-21 00:35:36 · update #1
You need serious counseling in your house.I say this not because of your ankle turn on .the fact that it's u r dads is off the mark.Your father forgot to mentally and emotionally grow up somewhere.In our home with a Dad and 3 sons none of these behaviors would be excepted.Get an older important family member to speak to him ,about help.If he refuses consider living with other responsible family.Growing up like this you'll have more baggage than Samsonite.Best Wishes.
2007-07-21 00:44:50 · answer #1 · answered by oatesmokid 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Great material! Write a book.
2007-07-21 00:36:46 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take pictures of him dressed like that and send it to all the relatives and friends. They'll either say something to him or laugh their asses off.
2007-07-21 00:37:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are old enough move out to your own place. If not, then ignore it until you can.
2007-07-21 00:42:00 · answer #4 · answered by Beau R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Son, you need to get some counseling.
2007-07-21 00:38:16 · answer #5 · answered by Alterfemego 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋