Heres the thing - I'm 17, my girlfriend of 3 years is 16. I love her soooo much, I really really do and I care for her so much. Her dad was a drug dealer, and he treated her violently. She absolutely HATES drugs for this reason.
Shes told me from the start of our relationship that if I ever touched drugs again that would be the end of me and her... I understood this and I promised her I never would. But the other night I was very drunk and my friend's were all taking e's and smoking blow. I couldn't resist the temptation and took a few.
I loved it at the time but now I feel soooo guilty and I really don't know whether to tell my girlfriend or not cause I dont wanna lose her!! PLEASE HELP :(
and I know I'm the one in the wrong, so I don't need you's to tell me - I just need some advice. Thanks.
2007-07-21 11:59:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes you should. Be decent, you've already did the damage now own up to your mistake and whatever way she treats you.. no offence but you deserve it for betraying her wishes like this.
2007-07-21 12:28:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are going to stop using or make sure your first time was your last, you need to tell her what you did and let her know where you stand. Let her know you love her and that it is over. You are human and made a mistake...if you plan on to continue you still need to tell her and make sure she know you want to do it again so she can make her choice. If she does not want to make the choice then you have to leave her so that you do not hurt her in any way. This goes under the Be a man catagory. Own up and ask for forgivness and take care of your girl. She does not have a good relationship with her dad so that makes you (through her eyes) the male figure in her life. Be bigger than her dad. God Bless and good luck
2007-07-21 19:13:14 · answer #2 · answered by bobbo342 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for starters you need new friends.yes i think that you should tell her,not to try to lose her but to prove that you want to be honest with her.honesty is always the best tool to keep a relationship on ,if you don't tell her then she'll find out some other way,and how do you think that would go over?just let her know that your sorry and spend as much time making it up to her as she needs..
2007-07-21 19:15:06 · answer #3 · answered by Thomas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you know you did wrong and at least you're admitting it. I wouldn't tell her about it this time, just stay away from the friends and ppl that you know who do drugs so that this doesn't happen again.Hope this helps.
2007-07-21 19:04:20 · answer #4 · answered by Lula 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her that you did. and hopefully she will understand, you only did it once, and you wont ever do it again. the whole point of relationships is honesty. so tell her. because if my boyfriend did drugs, i would want him to tell me. i mean i would be really mad at first, but i would understand because it was just a one night. good luck [:
2007-07-21 19:06:08 · answer #5 · answered by May 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest in ur relationship and tell her what happened and why u did it. give her simple details, let her ask questions. honesty in a relationship is the best thing, tell her ur sorry for breaking ur promise. best of luck and im sure if she loves you she will forgive you.
2007-07-21 19:05:07 · answer #6 · answered by Siroonig 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell you her you need help with your drug addicition and that you want her to help you with rehab if needed. Tell her not to leave you as you need her for you to be strong and admit to what you did. She'll understand. Just don't do it again!!!!!!! Blow and "E" eats your brain like you wouldn't believe
2007-07-21 19:05:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be ashamed of yourself, you damn liar! But here's the thing: Don't tell her. It's not an excuse for you to keep on doing it, but to protect her feelings.
2007-07-21 19:04:40 · answer #8 · answered by Zoe S. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She will find out anyway from one of the other guys who was there, so you better man-up and tell her yourself.
2007-07-21 19:06:51 · answer #9 · answered by mom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋