2007-07-21 16:23:19 · 17 answers · asked by rose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
their actions and always finding a an excuse to leave the house and they take extra care of their self and they usually dont show you no attention or they try to pick fights where its easier to leave and cheat they start wearing different cologne and they start being shaved more less well groomed and they spend as little as time they can with you and they blame everything on you all the time why their not happy beleive me i have been cheated on two many times that i can count
2007-07-21 16:30:30 · answer #1 · answered by foxy lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man tonight is the night when most of the wife is asking what is the sign that your husband is having an affair, well I just finished answering the other wife about what sign a husband have when his having an affair. Like what I said, I noticed my husband for 2 months of, he uses his computer a lot, he stays inside our garage all the time,(we thought his doing some work),he had this sparks in his eyes, he kept his cell phone hidden so i cant see it, he only slept 2-3 hours most of the night, he always dress up wearing a cologne when he goes to work, he comes home very early in the morning, he set aside my kids needs, after meal he goes back to the garage and lock himself inside, he takes a shower twice a day esp. at night when he comes home.....gosh a lot that I noticed that he never done regularly, and yes he goes to work in a hurry during the week day. Now I know why, because my husband called this married woman every single day,24/7 for 2 months.............and if this is not enough ,just watch your husband and see what he does that he never do before, from there you will know and sense it..........
2007-07-22 00:05:14 · answer #2 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The "if" part is easy...
Check his cell phone bill, it will be a dead give away. Is he paying special attention to grooming? I'm not talking about what you see in public. Is he suddenly working out, or spending more time at the "gym"? Casually check the mileage on his car, is it reasonable for where he says he's been. He might be dumb enough to use credit cards for things you've never seen.
The "why" part is more complicated...
Does he have self esteem issues? Does he feel smothered at home? Does he not get the credit he thinks he deserves around the house? Are you a pain in the ***? (sorry, but it might be that simple)
2007-07-22 00:13:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if they don't come home on time, don't want sex, are spending more money, going a lot of places without you........odds of an affair are pretty good. As for why, some people just can't be faithful.
2007-07-21 23:27:05 · answer #4 · answered by Pache 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you suspect your husband is having an affair, then I would guess it is a good chance he is. Ask him and see how he reacts. And he is the only person who can answer the question of why. So talk to your man.
2007-07-21 23:30:51 · answer #5 · answered by Tina #1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gain or loose weight. Change the style of clothes they wear. Different cologne. Pay more attention to their personal hygene. Change jobs. Working over time. Going out with the guys/gals more often. Unexplained phone calls.... on and on...
Personal experience.
2007-07-21 23:27:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well ladies we always go with intuition and your heart. Don't ignore the signs. And guys women are tricky so I'll say communication ask a lot of questions and listen. LISTEN words play on words and story changes
2007-07-21 23:35:26 · answer #7 · answered by Sweet&Sexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On the phone more than usual and hiding his calls,going to work earlier and working late,saying he is going out with the guys when he hasn't been doing it to often,the sex he could want less or maybe it is the same,some guys want it all,so he will have sex with her and still want you,have his cake and eat it to,you need to watch him closely and have friends watch him also,always make sure be for you confront him.
2007-07-21 23:33:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all gut instinct. It draws attention to the fact that something isn't quite right. Take your time and read everything that has been written to answer your question. It's all true!
2007-07-21 23:37:41 · answer #9 · answered by . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best person to answer that question is you, you know them better than anybody. If you feel like something is wrong, most of the time your gut feeling is right. more people should listen to that feeling
2007-07-21 23:32:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋