Alot of people use a phrase like "that person is so out of style",
or "he said this" and "she said that"
This is becoming a big problem in a community.
Talking about what everyone is or does.
There must be a limit of how far this can go.
Is there a way to make others see that what they are doing is wrong?
2007-07-21 20:12:03 · 11 answers · asked by Luby 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It's almost impossible to stop drama. Drama is drama
and I don't think it'll ever stop. My advice is to not really
become a part of it. You can be but not the main person.
Spreading rumurs and talking about poeple when other people can hear what your saying are be told what your saying is not a good thing. When you speak your mind about someone make sure your with someone that you trust won't go and tell the world.
2007-07-21 20:25:48 · answer #1 · answered by lovessoccer13 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there is a way and that is to stop spreading the venom. Gossiping is like having an evil tongue. If you are in a group and they are talking about someone who is not there, you are just as guilty as the one speaking.
If you are in a situation to where someone is speaking ill against someone else, you need to tell that person that you would rather not hear such words and then leave. The best way to prevent drama, is to stay away from people who like spreading venom.
2007-07-22 03:33:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think if you are trying to make others see what they're doing is wrong, you're only going to add to the drama.
The best way to prevent drama is to assume the best intentions in people, even when they're acting crazy. Give them the benefit of the doubt. If you can't stand it, tab away. It's an online community, and you have the ultimate power to just leave it when it gets out of control.
2007-07-22 03:17:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, some people thrive on drama. just ignore the BS and go about your own life and dont worry about what other people do or think. Or move somewhere else, but you will find drama wherever you go.
2007-07-22 03:15:56 · answer #4 · answered by steven v 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Just keep people who cause drama, or constantly look for drama out of your life. Drama will certainly stop for you, but obviously continue for them. Let them all drama each other out. They'll learn to hate each other.
2007-07-22 03:14:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
people need to realize that what they are doing is making more problems for them selves
talking about others speads the word and then every one knows
somethings are not meant to be brought up in a conversation
and there is no reason to hate
2007-07-22 03:32:21 · answer #6 · answered by vika07b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
usually when you catch a person starting drama it is a slap in the face to them...they know that they were caught...this is a big problem in my town also and there is no real way to stop it but one way to keep away from it is to ignore it and don't start it yourself...
2007-07-22 03:15:16 · answer #7 · answered by ~LakersGirl~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is always drama everywhere.... work, school, home, even at a cafe. Only place that doesnt have it is when you're dead and sleeping in a coffan.
2007-07-22 03:27:22 · answer #8 · answered by Glenn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
best way to take care of that is to not participate... dont be a part of it and if you are asked state you dont care to part in all that gossip have more imp things to do with ur life.. ppl are going to do this for all eternity but if we dont participate in it .. ppl wont try to involve you as often .
2007-07-22 03:17:10 · answer #9 · answered by wanting2learn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope...I think lots of people try to recreate high school, all of that "he said\she said" drama-oriented behavior.
2007-07-22 03:17:41 · answer #10 · answered by jlhpisces 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋