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women answer plz!! and how come most women cant have just friends with benefits?

and how would it be a right way to ask a girl u know for a while where there has been some occassional sparks to be a friend with benefit without offending her?

2007-07-21 19:27:28 · 23 answers · asked by loverboyschs 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

23 answers

friends with benefits is the perfect set up
less hassle
more freedom in the bedroom and out
i like sex, but am selfish about it
i have to have my own way
hope you find what ur looking for
i can't answer for everyone

2007-07-21 19:33:50 · answer #1 · answered by sparkleplenny 2 · 0 0

Dude!!! Women LOVE sex!!!!!!!! ---- Sex is more of a risk for women because they have a chance of getting pregnant -- Having a child changes their entire life -- but for guys, it's easy -- he can walk away if he wants while she raises the child. That's the scientific answer ---- I'm sure you'll get all kinds of things from women who don't actually understand how they're biologically wired or else they'll deny it -- but it doesn't make it any less true.
It is not smart to tell a woman you want to be friends with benefits unless she's really easy and very open about it. You're gonna have to learn some game and get her all heated up one night and have sex with her -- That's how the pros do it. After that she'll see you as a sex partner, not BF material.
Chances are, she sees you as no more than a friend. Good luck getting past that ---- Once you're a friend, that's how she sees you -- and it takes some smooth moves to change her way of thinking.




And YES YES YES --- some women will resist the whole "friends with benefits package" because they don't want to be labeled a slut ------- So True!!!

2007-07-22 02:42:46 · answer #2 · answered by BIG 4 · 0 0

No, absolutely not. When you ask a woman to be friends w/ benefits that's really offended us. Because your just implying that women are just sex object you like to get whenever you want and then all of a sudden you dump when your finished. Please don't get me wrong, but whatever sparks you had seeking a friend with benefit asking her that question will be offending her ego. Women are women longing for constant love and affection.

2007-07-22 02:39:05 · answer #3 · answered by no_blemishes 3 · 1 0

Most women do like sex.
I think most people prefer sex with love which is why your friends with benefits deal wears a bit thin. Women need that emotional kick (and I am generalizing a bit).

Look, grow up, or come right out and say, "I want a friend with benefits not a relationship." Be honest and straightforward.

2007-07-22 02:32:53 · answer #4 · answered by fugutastic 6 · 0 0

Ok this is a really stupid question. How the F**** don't you know that 90% of woman don't want a friend with benefits. When there is a spark that pretty much means she wants to be your GF and you should be her BF. Your just like any other guy, a Dam PLAYER who just want to taste the fish and throw it back. Get with the program, every girl wants her "Dream Man" and they don't want to be just friends with benefits with their "Dream Man". Your obviously a High Schooler who doesn't know much about life. Well here is a very very very small piece of it.
BD

2007-07-22 02:52:21 · answer #5 · answered by Black Dragon 2 · 0 0

In most cases women navigates where the relationship goes. Most guys are not ready for commitment or serious relationship, some girls are just trying to save themselves from the heartache and pain. Becoming friends with benefits, is an understanding between 2 people, I am not sure how you can come right out and ask your friend this question withoug offiending her, it just does not sound right. You probably just need to state your case, and be honest in telling her that you are not looking for commitment, and see where it goes from there.

2007-07-22 02:37:20 · answer #6 · answered by always51787 3 · 0 0

I think the issue is not about whether women like sex or not.
There are gals that can be friends wz benefits but mostly can be conservative.
Anyway, some gals are not emotionally attached and easy going may be the types you should look for. But if you meet the ones that talk about 'love', then you are in trouble cos it is not easy to let go.
Well, I think it is better to be safe. Always respect a gal's decision. Good luck.

2007-07-22 02:53:52 · answer #7 · answered by WhiskeyRose 2 · 0 0

Women LOVE sex....but sex brings emotions and a special connection for most. So friends with benefits is both insulting and impossible for many.

You can't ask her to be that without insulting her so don't.

2007-07-22 02:35:51 · answer #8 · answered by Karen 4 · 1 0

Girls are more emotional then most guys, so we fall harder. I also think that some women are scarred to be called sluts whores, etc so they just don't do that even if they want to. The other question about not offending your friend is difficult. Read her. If she says things about sex or how she likes it to you, then just ask in general how she feels about casual sex. If she says she likes or does it, then just ask!!!

2007-07-22 02:34:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

friends with benifits is asking for nothing but probs .. because sex for most women develops feelings and leads to more. it can destroy a friendship if this happens and both dont feel the same. not to mention sex should be shared when love is there! not just when you are bored..and yes most women like sex too .. just want it to mean more than pulling their pants down and getting off!

2007-07-22 02:34:31 · answer #10 · answered by wanting2learn 3 · 1 0

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