there is this girl i know named kayla and me and her have went out twice so we love each other still i asked her out recently and she said she has to have some time to recover from her x boyfriend i talk to her on yahoo every night till 6 in the morning, and then sometimes during the day she ignores me on yahoo and i do not no if she is doing because she is busy or if she just doesnt love me btw i really love this girl and if you could help it would be nice thanks
2007-07-21 10:44:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't chase. What usually happens is we chase them until they catch us. She may not be the one or not the one at this point in time. Cool it with her a little and see if she comes after you. If she knows that she can count on you being there for her all the time she will walk all over you and not show you any respect. Do yourself a favour find another girlfriend to go out with it may be just what you need and if she perks up then just what she needed to. Hey two dates is not really long enough to know if you love someone or not it is enough to know if you like her a hellof alot.
2007-07-21 10:55:05 · answer #1 · answered by terminator 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't pester her. Yes txt her or call her every other day, txt her in the morning and wish her a nice day. and sometimes txt her in the evening and wish her good night. If she does not resply that is OK continue to do it. She is listening to you and also to her heart when she reads your messages. Do not stop until she flat out tells you to quit sending her messages or quit calling her. Just imagine when she hears from you and the smile you bring out in her and while you do not see it,, trust me,, she is smiling and thinking to herself what a sweet guy you are. If you want to be loved in a certain way, then show the person how to love by you showing her how it is and what you feel for her. Loving is not easy but it is also the most greatest gift God blessed us with. We need to have patience also. So don't give up on her just surround her with love by showing her that you care,, show her don't just tell her. Actions are louder than words. Good luck to you both.
2007-07-21 17:54:26 · answer #2 · answered by jorge e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you went out twice so you love each other? What are you? 12 years old? IF she were interested in you, and I think it's apparent that she isn't, she would be talking to you a whole lot more.....time to get over her and find someone else.
2007-07-21 17:48:26 · answer #3 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it has to be love for two people, not only one, maybe she's just tired for her talking to you soo dang upp in the morning, and she probably doesn't like you anymore or whatever, and she doesn't want to hurt your feelings, and she just dated you for all those years.........
I don't think she is the onee, cause, she has to love you back, and she obviously wasn't the onee........
I hoped I helped
Good Luck!
2007-07-21 17:50:17 · answer #4 · answered by TempoBronze124 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SLOW DOWN....YOU HAVE ONLY BEEN ON TWO DATES. IF SHE NEEDS TIME TO RECOVER FROM HER EX BOYFRIEND,YOU MAY HAVE BEEN ONLY A REBOUND DATE AND HAVE FELL HEAD OVER HEELS FOR SOMEONE WHO IS STILL UNSURE OF HER OWN FEELINGS AT THIS TIME.. DATE OTHERS AND TAKE YOUR TIME WITH THE I LOVE YOUS!!!
2007-07-21 17:51:36 · answer #5 · answered by shebae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait till shes ready
2007-07-21 17:47:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
desperate? thats obvious "yes" ! give the girl some space dude!! you are being way to clingy and needy...thats a huge turn off. sorry!
2007-07-21 17:56:24 · answer #7 · answered by juskilentime 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop hassleing her and if she has any strong feelings for you she will approach you
2007-07-21 17:49:45 · answer #8 · answered by magnum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋