is he too old for me?

Question

there is this guy we like each other but im 13 and he is 17 is he after sleeping with me or does he care about me

Answer 1

Uh... It sounds like he wants to take advances of you, he only want one thing, so stay away from him until you are 18 years old!

Good Luck!
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Answer 2

You may have noticed that most of your friends and classmates are not dating 17 year old guys. There is a good reason for this.

17 year old boys are simply interested in different things than girls your age. They are getting ready for graduation, planning for college or a readying for full time work, and getting more serious about dating and relationships. Girls your age are generally not thinking about these kinds of responsibilities.

Yes, Im sure there are things about him you really like. Maybe he is cute, has a car, and is popular but having a crush on someone and starting a relationship with them are two different things. I think if you wait awhile and get to know some other boys you will probably realize you are better off with someone closer to your own age.

Good luck!
Christopher

Answer 3

4 years isint a lot when you are over 20, but at 13 it is a little worrysome. 17 year olds are on a very different level than a 13 year old. I would be very careful. Just imagine yourself when you are much older and have a 13 year old daughter.....would you want a 17 year old hanging out with her?
He should be going after high school girls...

Answer 4

Karina, 1st off, I'm a Mom myself to 3 girls and 1 boy. I remember well being your age, yet times have changed, so~~I went to my daughter for the answer to try to give you a fair answer, here goes my daughters response: 1) It is illegal 2) Are you looking for a potential STD or possibly creating another life 3)You asked "does he care about me"? Can you call him your BEST FRIEND and does he claim YOU are his best friend? And VERY IMPORTANT~~how long have you known one another? 4) Are you yourself seeking a sex buddy {even though you are WAY too YOUNG} or are you simply looking to be LOVED so that you FEEL secure in YOUR LIFE. {What's missing?} 5) Are you ready for all the responsibilities that comes with sex {including the emotional aspect as well as the social aspects, re;The Tramp Stamp~~sorry for puting the truth out that way} 6) Do you know who your "friend" has slept with in his lifetime, and those he has slept with, who they've slept with, and on and on and on? And do you understand that while some diseases are curable, you may be left STERILE, meaning when you're grown up and READY to begin your own family if you choose to, the choice is no longer yours?
know i am 17 years old and with a family that i can go to ask or tell anything openly even if i dont like the answer they give me.i hope you will think hard before you make a BIG decision that can affect your ENTIRE LIFETIME! i hope this helps you and please learn to take care of YOU.~~~my mothers daughter, chelsea.

Answer 5

Way too old! Ask yourself this, would you be interested in a 9 year old? That means you are 4 years older than a 9 year old. Now ask yourself, what does a 17 year old want with you? Only one thing and it isn't going to be a good thing for you!

Answer 6

Im sorry to say this but hes want to sleep with you! trust me been there done that!!! when i was 13 almost 14 there was this boy he was 15 almost 16 i think and i really like him and he asked me to be a his girlfriend and as soon as i wouldnt "mess" around with him he cheated on me and a very later he would cheat on his girlfriend to make out with me when isaw him!!! point being boy that age are always up to no good! find a boy your age things will be soo much better!

Answer 7

The only one who can answer that question is him, and if he's just after sex, he won't answer truthfully. The best thing for you to do is not sleep with him. If he really likes you for you, then sex won't be an issue. If he leaves because you are holding out, then you know what he wanted in the first place.

Answer 8

Yes is the answer to your question and allow me to explain.

I used to be you. Growing up older men loved me. I couldn't understand it. I felt as though they might actually like me. Most of them were cool and friends. But as I grew older I learned that those boys wanted me because I was young and niev. At 17, boys are very developed and nearly adults. There is no way he could want someone who just became a teenager unless he knew he could manipulate her. SAve yourself sweetie, you'll regret this later!

Answer 9

Don't do it. Are you crazy. You are young and vulnerable and he wants to take advantage of your virginity if you are still a virgin. Might as well go out with a 50 year old rich man so if he knocks you up he can support the kid. Don't get stranded with bastard babies. Nothing wrong with it but it will be hard to raise a child on your own.

Answer 10

i think he is too old for you. you should find some one your age. i am 13 and and i would never date a 17 year old guy

Answer 11

It depends. If you suspect him of not liking you for who you are but just for sex, you should probably give him up. You are only thirteen. You will have plenty of time to date guys his age when you are 17. For now go for the guys who are your age. If you don't, you never know what trouble you could get into.