is it okay for an 18 y o boy to have a relationship with a 27 y o woman?

Question

at 18 i have had nearly 12 g f's at different times. then one day my eye's froze on a female that looked about 22. i walkked up to her in a daze and whatever i said made her respond. i found myself talking with her after 2 hours, without knowing where the time had gone.

the relationship lasted for 5 years, she suffered a fall while rock climbing and died. i went into celebacy for 6 years after. everybody critizised our being together especially my exe's and the older guy's gave her a bad time too. in the early my mom was kinda pi..., off, but we did not care, because we knew what we knew.

there are lot's of jealous people who are against younger and olderer people relationships, even those that you've never seen before in your life. i say to them, va fai in culo !

Answer 1

Jealousy knows few boundaries.

People NEED to categorize and judge.

You, bro, were one HAPPY man to HAVE love, even to lose it. The two of you will meet again, it's just how it works.

Forget what others say, even if it turns out to be a mistake, because unless others' lives are destroyed in the process -- and I do mean DESTROYED, lol, then they have ZERO business poking into your love life.

I don't care about the:

Age
Color
Gender
Religion
Politics

Because when YOU love, you KNOW it, and because it was SO intense for you, it's like -- how could anyone question it?

And like I said at the beginning: jealousy makes people scary-mean, and they don't even know it's the reason for it.

Best to You -- you'll find it again because you KNOW how it feels. Just remember the feeling, and the joy and bliss of the feeling, and it will come to you again...

Answer 2

It's insane. Get therapy and stop looking for a mother figure.

Although youth counselors probably stop at age 18, in your case they'd probably make an exception.

And the people below who say it's fine need to join in the therapy session.

Answer 3

It sure is! My bf is younger than me and we love eachother dearly. Now days that's how it seems to be. The young guys like older women because an older woman has more experience than young women. Ain't nothin wrong with it.

Answer 4

Since this happened over 6 years ago, I would say that it is time to move on. You have nice memories, but what is the purpose of worrying about their opinion now? Choose who you would like to be with and be happy.

Answer 5

what is that mean? va fai in culo?
what about 50 yrs old the woman and the man is 35 yrs old ,how u will answer ?

Answer 6

Yes, if he's mature enough to handle the age difference, can keep the older woman happy and wise enough to be open minded to this type of experience.

Answer 7

you are of legal age, an adult.
That is a big gap. It can cause problems later...but then again...many couples have survived bigger age gaps. Its all about the relationship and how much you put in it. I do not think age matters when one is of age of course. your still young, enjoy being with her and don't try to make everyone else happy...date her for YOU and be happy. Don't try to worry yourself about what "others" think.
remember you are human, not normal....normal is for those who want you to look and act like them. Look and act like YOU, be you.

Answer 8

You were 13 on a 22 y o. sorry but that seems kind of weird. If you guys were intimate then that's illegal.

But if you love each other I guess it's alright, i guess.

Answer 9

i am not gonna waste my time reading your content and just respond to the headline.. YES!! but dont get hooked have kids or get married.. because if you do you will have an old woman as your wife when you are still in your prime.. have fun, learn some things and make her pay for everything!!

Answer 10

man, nothing wrong with that. it just matters what the two in the relationship think. if you are good for each other then that is what is important. hell, when i was 18 my girl was 29 (she also looked much younger)