I've always been a shy person, but when it comes to guys I never feel confident, and I know that the way my voice comes out I probably don't sound very confident, either. How can I stop being shy around guys I like, and basically guys overall?
2007-07-21 15:32:23 · 15 answers · asked by Laurie 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
liquor and drugs!!!! Combine the two and then you got instant courage!!!
2007-07-21 15:37:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Laurie, you are wonderful just the way you are. Guys are just as nervous around you as you are around them. Guys are wondering what to talk about , what to ask, how to act. Look at the questions asked here and you'll see how nervous and insecure so many people seem to be. The "secret" is to feel comfortable with yourself. Learn to honor and accept yourself as you are, without judgment. You are not "shy"...you are merely holding yourself in readiness for the right guy or the right group. You can decide to be anything you want to be. Consider joining some clubs or groups that have a specific hobby. You may find that focusing on something outside yourself will help you overcome shyness. But mostly, remember how great you are.
2007-07-21 15:38:07 · answer #2 · answered by judgebill 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't look at the guy you like as anything other then another human being. He may be just as nervous as you and most people say confidence draws them to a person. Pick something out about yourself either a physical or personality trait that you love about yourself and repeat it to yourself once a day. If you know you're going to encounter someone special save it up for the moment before to refresh yourself on how many great things you have to offer (maybe even pick out two great things that day). Good luck and Smiles are always great!
2007-07-21 15:41:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just have to take a deep breath and stop being so up tight. Enjoy the sensation that you get when you are around someone you like. The feelings of nervousness are something everyone has, including the guys you like. Your confidence in yourself will communicate well to the people you are with. Trust me, they will notice.
2007-07-21 15:39:55 · answer #4 · answered by Hopefull 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this may seem wrong, but practice talking to guys who you don't like. Get comfortable with them. Get them attached so that they can't help but want to talk to you when they see you. Then you will be more confident around the guys you do like. Don't feel bad, guys do this type of stuff all the time. Use that as some anger to get you started. GGGRRR! :)
2007-07-21 15:38:02 · answer #5 · answered by 400 Meters 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Laurie i no how you feel:) well im only shy around guys i actually fancy lol but with my other guy mates i can flirt and tease around! Im afraid ive not got the answer, but we`re in the same boat:P lol confidence will grow in time xxx
2007-07-21 15:36:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might help if you had more friends who were guys. Also you have to remember that he's just a regular person like you. If you want to work on not being shy you might want to take a speech or theatre class, that'll break anyone.
2007-07-21 15:38:24 · answer #7 · answered by mark g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-02-11 20:21:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a tough one. If you are shy you may just need to get to know the guy better before you can relax.
2007-07-21 15:34:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just open your mouth. Your voice will only get in the way.
2007-07-21 15:35:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i would say well just talk to them as if you are talking to a guy....theres no difference....to tell you the truth i have never had this problem...but my friend sydney does and she just doesnt talk to guys unless she is around me or my other friends....i tell her it is just like talking to me or anyone else of our friends...theres just less secrets with them...and thats what you should think of it as
-margo
2007-07-21 15:39:44 · answer #11 · answered by Margo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋