ok me and my freind like this guy and my freind told him she liked him and he liked her so they started to go out then my freind comes and tells me about it (she was my B.F.F) so i tell the guy that i liked him when they were going out and he said that he liked me too(i dont my freind about this she would kill me).The next day my freind comes up to me and tells me that he broke up with her,then 2 days later the guy asked me out and i said yes and were still going out today.Is this wrong?please answer i need help
2007-07-21 16:06:13 · 12 answers · asked by omg 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
whatever happens u should never chose a guy over a friend if hes willing to break up a friendship that youve had what makes you think he cares for you or her at all karma sweetie think before anything
2007-07-21 16:28:20 · answer #1 · answered by ************** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is only wrong to date someone if you or that other person is still dating someone else. He broke up with your friend and apparently wanted to date you. If you guys like each other and aren't in any other relationships, then it is okay. Of course, your friend may not be too happy about it because she just recently broke up with him. It would have been wise to wait a while before dating him so it doesn't look like you were unsupportive and trying to take her boyfriend away.
2007-07-21 16:18:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-23 06:13:49 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remind me to not be your "friend"...geeesh!
Friends dont go for each others men! You where wrong and your girl should have kicked you to the curb because you cant be trusted. You knew the whole situation and you still went for him and couldnt wait for them to break up so you could go out with him...some friend you where to her....and I have to wonder if the guy really trust you with the way you handled your friendship and all, If I saw that going on between so called "friends" I would be sceptical of you. Good luck with your new friends.
2007-07-21 16:19:41 · answer #4 · answered by stephanie_6234 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on if your friend cares or not. I have a similar story.
My friend dated this guy, and then he broke up with her. He asked me out a while later, and my friend told me that she was actually trying to hook me up with him, and she told me to say yes to him. In this case, I don't think saying yes was betraying my friend. After all, she gave me the 'okay' to do so.
If your friend cares, you don't want to ruin a good friendship because of some dumb boy that will come and go.
2007-07-21 16:11:12 · answer #5 · answered by Abby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That usually causes tension in friendships. I think it was wrong to tell him that after he was with your "B.F.F." Yep, I think you manipulated the situation and your friend would have every right to be angry with you.
2007-07-21 16:13:37 · answer #6 · answered by GoodJuJu2U 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she is your bff then i always thought that you didnt back stab of hurt that person and if it really upset her that he broke up with her then yeah it is going to crush her when she finds out it was for you he dumped her.
Best friend's exs are always off limits and especailly when they are not exs yet.
2007-07-21 16:10:57 · answer #7 · answered by pandabr74 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my situation is similar but b4 i even went out when him i would have talked to mii friend because it was her bf first and she might still have feelings for him..u never kno!!so b4 this gets farther tell your friend that ur srry but if she's not mad dont sweat it but be careful cuz the same thing he did to her he could do to u.good luck guurrll!!
2007-07-21 17:05:30 · answer #8 · answered by girlybluefree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya! you cant do that to a best friend. at least wait a week jez. and you shouldn't have told him you liked him in the first place, if they were goin out. you should have told you best friend in the first place. and even than you should ask if its ok before you go out w/ your friends ex
2007-07-21 16:17:15 · answer #9 · answered by bballxbaby147 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well girl your in big trouble you have to tell your friend that you go out with her ex if she finds out by her self she will kill you you should be a girl of honor and tell your friend it happen to me so i know what it fells like i feal sorrry for u
2007-07-21 16:17:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋