Family & Relationships - 23 May 2007

My ex and I both agreed to see each other, hang out for company and have sex once in a while. Would he want me more if I didn't have sex with him? WHAt would be the best way to get him back?

2007-05-23 19:37:50 · 11 answers · asked by alims94 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 23yrs old, very beautiful. I got married in court when i was 18yr .the guy was good a little elder to me, but later wen V lived, V realised our difference of opinions, i was still ready to live wit hm, but hs financial standing was too weak & he nvr supported me, in other words, he was immature. I couldn't wait until he could get matured & change things. our parents realized our mistakes & V mutually got divorced within a year. Overall it wasn't a proper marriage also. My parents supported me a lot & never reminded me of the past. We had no children or anything. We didn't marry in church. Since then I continued working & lost interest to pursue a 2nd marriage. Now I am doing very well at work & holding a good post in an MNC. I have considered marrying in a proper way but I am not getting good proposals. Many of them come up with random matches, assuming my past to be some big crime. I want to marry a good looking man who is also doing well & god fearing. No online matrimony plz.

2007-05-23 19:31:38 · 22 answers · asked by Deanne 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. I am 28. he's 38. I have messed a few friends b-day cuz they were going 2 a club My boyfrined doesn't believe that girls can go to a club and hang out with their girlfriends instead of hooking up with a guy.. Or that girls can also dance with a guy but doesn't mean we have to get to know him , exchange number or start making out or anything intimate with the guy. Just dance and then not go any further than that. I also told him that a easy girl is someone that doesn't know how to say no or make it clear there is nothing more with the guy. I can go to a club have fun with me and my girs and leave the club with only my girls and my respect. I love my boyfriend so much, but he forbids me to go to clubs or bar because he doesn't trust me. When i never did anything to break his trust in the first place. he doesn't like the club, cuz he said he's tired of clubs. Is he right , should I not go clubbing while I am in a relationship?

2007-05-23 19:31:29 · 16 answers · asked by Sonia D 1 in Singles & Dating

why it happends, am i right? its the case of all animals including men, watch the dog, its the case, u observe all the animals the case is the same , female hesitate to have sex at first, am i correct?

2007-05-23 19:31:22 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i have been judged harshly by some for my decision to stay with my kids. i feel that is so backward! does anyone agree that family life if disintegrating due to this, or am i odd?

2007-05-23 19:23:57 · 17 answers · asked by taryn 3 in Family

i am of the school of thought that you dont push your decision on your near and dear ones....so i make it a point to explain the pros and cons of the decisions i make for now or for the future....but i find that my spouse is so unconvinced bout it...and even after we hav settled on an issue we are back to square one...it gives me a feel that its getting useless explaining her ..but seriously i dont like to push...are all girls the same????or is it shes listening just becuase she has too...and ultimately just push her thoughts no matter what????

2007-05-23 19:23:27 · 6 answers · asked by anand 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

my best friend like's one of my mates... he doesnt feel the same way and tease's her behind her back. i keep telling her to just leave him alone coz she makes it worste for herself...then i stayed at her house and she gave me the phone and it was him on it asking me out on her cell phone. i ddnt know what to say but i said no coz i only see him as a mate. now my friends mad at me... what do i do now?

2007-05-23 19:19:32 · 8 answers · asked by eelamme_13 1 2 in Singles & Dating

She's having a mental breakdown and causing me one too, She's with her sister who says she don't need help, The police wanted to call the judge but he was gone for the day. Would i be a villain for sending her to a mental hospital or would she maybe understand after treatment? I offered to a polygraph test thinking this might help her understand that what she thinks is not true. What made her think it she said was because my daughter laid her panties on my pants that were on a chair. Does she just want a divorce from me? or is she jealous of my daughter.

I'm distraught and in distress and unbelief of what is happening in my life.

Should I commit her against her and her sisters wishes and ignore the treatment she needs or commit her

I need help.

2007-05-23 19:17:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating my boyfriend for four years now. He told me about a year ago that he NEVER wants to have children. He knew that I did all along and just strung me along anyway until he told me about a year ago. I have been taking the birth control pill the whole time that we have been dating. I told him that I would never purposely trap him, but I have been thinking about doing it lately. I even haven't been taking my birth control pill purposely and now I've gotten my period about six days too soon. Is getting pregnant by him knowing that he doesnt want children wrong?

2007-05-23 19:16:32 · 32 answers · asked by juniper555 5 in Singles & Dating

even though i got turned down, shoul i give up on love or try again?



P.S PLEASE BE HONEST.

2007-05-23 19:13:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I already graduate high school, and this girl who is a sophomore, wants to fight me, because she believes that I ruined her friend's life, who is a boy. Not to mention, almost everyone who goes to her school hates me. Ever since I befriended him(The Boy), all his friends feel like I stole him away from them. They all talk sh*t about me, but they've never seen my face. They feel like I'm the one that makes him feel ugly, and sad, and that I'm a cold-hearted b*itch. The irony is that, everyone at my school, who knows me, loves me and knows me as a friendly person. This is just 1/4 of the whole situation, and I don't know what to do anymore. I tried to not talk to The Boy, anymore, but he begged me to come back, and basically guilt me. Not only that, he wants to go to the same college as I am to be near me, and he just wants to go there. And on top of that, we're just friends! And yes, I've tried avoiding them, but they just keep harassing me and threatening me. I need HELP. ASAP!

2007-05-23 19:10:21 · 8 answers · asked by aryn300 1 in Friends

I am getting mixed signals from one of my male friends. He is always telling me his "criteria" for a spouse, we have a lot of mutual interest and values and we can talk for hours. I feel some "sexual tension"; but he has never approached me other than anything platonic. Does he seem to be interested in me and he's just being a gentleman; or is there nothing to it?

2007-05-23 19:09:43 · 12 answers · asked by isis 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-23 19:09:05 · 10 answers · asked by I ♥ Futbol 2 in Singles & Dating

theres a gurl whom i like very much...i asked her out a week before...1st she said yes 2 me...then after 2 days she said shes confused n now shes not even talkin to me......can ne 1 help me plz...

2007-05-23 19:07:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean they always want someone to take care of them like there 5 . What the hell is it about . My husband seems handicapped hwen it comes to his work clothes like he cannot get them out himself . What is your husband handicapped on .

2007-05-23 18:56:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

(i'm 25 right now and he's 26. I love him and he says that he loves me too. When asked about whether he would get married to me, he is like it scares him to think about it. He says that he loves the way things are and can be with me for the rest of my life. He thinks about marriage and feels it is ok, but when he seriously thinks about it, he can't commit. He asked me for time and that he's not sure if he will ever change his mind about marriage. He also promised me that if he were to marry, it would be me. I have a feeling that he is worried about having children, as he feels that they take too much out of life. Should i wait for him hoping that he would one day commit or should i move on?
Additional Details
4 minutes ago
Just to update with questions that some of you have asked-
No we don't live together as he lives 80km away, but the weekends are always spent 24/7 together.
He did mention to me the other day, that he's not sure, but maybe if he was more settled in his career, then he may feel that he is ready to committ.
At the bottom of my heart, i do feel that he thinks i'm pressuring him, but its just that my culture/religion expects me to be married before i'm 30.

2007-05-23 18:56:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-23 18:55:06 · 19 answers · asked by ranaji 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-23 18:54:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-23 18:54:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-23 18:48:31 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

And being around other kids at school or wherever, and playing a game and nobody ever picks you or throws the ball to you?
And you feel like you just want to curl up in a ball and cry, because you dont understand what you did wrong, but still no one will even look at you like they're going to play with you?
And you have no idea what to do, because even when you make the effort to try to get someone to pass the ball or talk to you, they just blow you off?
No matter how hard you try..

2007-05-23 18:48:28 · 7 answers · asked by PAYlURTACK* 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you give in easily? If so, why?

2007-05-23 18:39:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My mom is a bingo fool she feels like she has to go everyday and shes even cried over not being able to go it's terrible she's 57 and to see her worry about bingo so much and she has her lights off right now and her water shes been staying at my house for a month now and says she can't afford to help me out I don't want to say anything to her but she raises my neices and i can hardly pay my bills the way it is .What can you do about bingo and will anybody take me seriouse?It is serious there forclosing on her at this time after paying on it for 34 years.I live in a 2bedroom and theres no room with my 2 teenagers what should I do?Thats my mom and I can't be rude or disrespectful and she raised me.

2007-05-23 18:38:23 · 3 answers · asked by sinful_1971 2 in Family

I am so heart broke over this situation! I have supported him in every way, and have never asked him for anything!! I just wanted to go and see her graduate from high school!! I told my daughter that I would send her the money that we would have used to go up there and she said she just wanted me to be there and nothing else!!! I am so disappointed in my husband for promising me to take me there,(another state) and then saying no when it is this coming Sunday??? What should I do, try to drive myself? Or hitch hike ?? This is so not fair, when I have never asked him of anything!!! Sad in the south east!

2007-05-23 18:37:36 · 22 answers · asked by jbabysgma 2 in Family

should i date a guy who wants sex everday i meet this hot guy on connecting singles should i date this guy

2007-05-23 18:36:46 · 3 answers · asked by jennifer h 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-23 18:32:32 · 8 answers · asked by poppy_41 1 in Weddings

My sister inlaw is controling all aspects of my younger brothers life and she has now told my other brother that if he wants to see him he needs to respect her or she will not allow him to visit,My brother, she has said this to has driven her every were when she needs the ride,has taken her shopping and babysat their children.We at one point used to go over to visit them on sundays and have a family night but this has not been done in over 2months,my sister inlaw keeps telling us lies about why she cant have dinner or she phones us and we find out later they went no were,we ask her to let him stay over one night a week with us for what we call brothers night but she has now stopped that to.But she can have anyone stay over at her place when ever she wants,this is really pissing me off and im hopeing someone out there can tell me how to approach her and tell her how I feel,and to let my brother know all we want is to be together one night a week,we are not asking much.Please help.......

2007-05-23 18:17:59 · 8 answers · asked by meow_and_squeek2005 2 in Family

what does it mean when a guy wants to have sex everyday is that a bad sign

2007-05-23 18:15:57 · 32 answers · asked by jennifer h 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been together with my now fiance for almost 3 years now. Of course everything in the beginning was hot and heavy and then a little over a year ago we had our daughter and it slowly started to vanish. Less and less we'd be having sex...and it wouldn't even be as good. Now I know things change after you have a baby...and I might not be totally the same as I was before...but I'm still okay. More and more he needs porn to get in the right mood and it makes me feel like he doesn't find me attractive anymore...but he says he does. Before we got engaged I slept with someone else and realized it wasn't worth it. But I still find myself thinking of other guys and sort of wishing something would happen with them. I just feel like the spark has gone out in our relationship. What should I do?

2007-05-23 18:15:20 · 12 answers · asked by Mommy of 2 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-23 18:10:47 · 17 answers · asked by Masood 1 in Marriage & Divorce