I already graduate high school, and this girl who is a sophomore, wants to fight me, because she believes that I ruined her friend's life, who is a boy. Not to mention, almost everyone who goes to her school hates me. Ever since I befriended him(The Boy), all his friends feel like I stole him away from them. They all talk sh*t about me, but they've never seen my face. They feel like I'm the one that makes him feel ugly, and sad, and that I'm a cold-hearted b*itch. The irony is that, everyone at my school, who knows me, loves me and knows me as a friendly person. This is just 1/4 of the whole situation, and I don't know what to do anymore. I tried to not talk to The Boy, anymore, but he begged me to come back, and basically guilt me. Not only that, he wants to go to the same college as I am to be near me, and he just wants to go there. And on top of that, we're just friends! And yes, I've tried avoiding them, but they just keep harassing me and threatening me. I need HELP. ASAP!
2007-05-23 19:10:21 · 8 answers · asked by aryn300 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
And yes, I've tried sticking with him, and I do care about him, but it's just to a point where he's creeping me out. Now, I just don't want to have anything to do with him. Yeah, he's stuck up for me, but it seems like the threats and harassment isn't going to end until I get what they think I deserve.
2007-05-23 19:29:48 · update #1
Stop worrying about what people, who don't even know you, think about you. One of these girls probably wants to be more than a friend to your beau. So, tell your boyfriend to stop bringing it up. If he doesn't have anything else to talk about or you don't have anything else in common dump him. Most likely, if they really wanted to fight you, you would probably have been beat up already. They are continuing to harass you because they get a kick out of your reaction. Ignore that mess and move on. Now, if you feel your well being is in jeopardy, go to the authorities.
2007-05-31 10:51:03 · answer #1 · answered by Shon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a problem especially if you are over 18 and they are not. That would mean if you get into a fight with them, you are the one that will be seen as responsible in the eyes of the law. If this guy is 18 he is old enough to decide for himself who he wants to see - he doesn't need babysitters looking out for him.
The red flag here would be, why doesn't HE step-up and tell these other people to back off from you?
2007-05-23 19:18:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend to his face that you care for him, but tht you do not have a romantic interest in him. Tell him that you can not force yourself to feel that way about him. Tell him that if he cares anything about you, he will stop his friends from giving you such a hard time. Tell him that he is causing this by leading them to believe that you are trying to hurt him. Tell him that if this does not stop immediately, you do not want to be his friend, or ever see to speak to him again.
Good Luck!!
He is probably playing on his friend's sympathies because you do not have romantic feelings for him. He is being selfish, and you should confront him with it.
2007-05-23 19:22:35 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont bother abou tthe others so long as you like each other and are willing to stick with each other.
I personally thnk your just being paranoid.
If they threaten you with harm report it to the college or inform the cops.
2007-05-23 19:16:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THIS IS ALL SO CHILDISH ON THIER PART.
TAKE LEGAL ACTION AND GO TO THE POLICE. GET RESTRAINING ORDERS AGAINST THEM ALL AND CALL THE POLICE AND PROSECUTE THEM EVERY TIME THEY VIOLATE THE ORDER OF NO CONTACT.
A RESTRAINING ORDER IS ONLY AS GOOD AS THE PERSON WHO HOLDS IT AND WHO IS WILLING TO CALL THE POLICE WHEN IT IS VIOLATED.
THESE IMMATURE HIGH SCHOOL KIDS ARE HARASSIGN AND THREATING YOU.
THIS IS AGAINST THE LAW.
2007-05-23 19:16:41 · answer #5 · answered by soarinwithclouds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well couldnt the boy tell them to quit bothering u coz none of wats happened is ur fault?
2007-05-23 19:15:36 · answer #6 · answered by Nikki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kno how it is...i have this girl that wants to fight me over my boyfriend...cuz supposely they was datin...and then i called her...and told her that i was with him...then she start sayin...if he calls her...she's goin to call the cops...and she will come down her and beat my ***...we don't talk to her any more...but she called him...and told him that she still wanted to fight me...and that she hates him...so don't even stress it...cuz i'm not...and the **** stopped...she's doesn't talk **** anymore... but good luck with it anyways...
2007-05-23 19:29:19 · answer #7 · answered by tinker bell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All hypothetical.
2007-05-29 19:26:29 · answer #8 · answered by Tabi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋