Family & Relationships - 23 May 2007

my boyfriend is only 18 years old he has a 4 year old by his x girlfriend me and his x girlfriend DONT get alone at all i am pregnant right now i just found out yesterday my boyfriend name is Tray and he went to his x girlfriend house to pick up his child for the weekend his x is not over him he told me when he went there to pick up his child his x was wearin a thong
and a bra and he told me she said that she was horney and that he dont got to worry about his child because she is at her grandmas house he said he left right away she called the house the next day at asked for tray and said they had to talk i told her to come over here and talk TO him she said ok when she got here i was bout to hit her but i didnt i just started tellin her things like she can kiss my *** cause my man aint feelin her so she need to get over him then she called me a ***** i said u want to no what a ***** is come here and she said whatever i said **** u was thAT THE RIGHT THING TO SAY ?

2007-05-23 12:40:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Our bride just moved to another state (Texas), but the wedding will be back here in California but not at home, down south about 5 hours. So we will be travelling into town a few days before the wedding, and all the guests will shortly be arriving also.

There just won't be time for a full out bridal shower, so we are trying to think of fun alternatives?

All ideas (positive) welcome!

Thanks so much!

2007-05-23 12:40:17 · 13 answers · asked by Jessica G 1 in Weddings

I would like to have deep peach shower boquet and the bridesmaids ivory poseys! any idease anyone im worried that they wont go i dont want just ivory as it will be to bland. ive done invites in mango calla lillies and orange sweet favors. i have only seen this theme once and as ive not seen it since im worried the colours wont go!

2007-05-23 12:40:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

so.. my boyfriend and i really like eachother and we wanna get married when we're done with school and im completly in love with him and i know he is with me.
the think is.. i know he wants to have sex and ive told him no because i knew what could happen and hes ok and completly supportive of it. well now i really want .. its nothing to do with pressure i just really feel ready to do this with him and i love him and he loves me.
but i dont know because i know itll be great on my wedding night and sometimes i just wanna be that good cristian girl who waits for her fairy tail wedding .. does that even happen anymore? so should i follow my little fantasy and wait or should i go with how i feel now?

2007-05-23 12:39:08 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i liked this guy (we'll call him J) for a while. things sorta happened, but then fell off. i wasn't too upset about it and recently started dating someone else, and he's great. well, now that J knows i have a boyfriend all of a sudden he's sayin we should hang out. someone please inform me as to why when a girl is off the market guys are all of a sudden interested. because i just know if i dumped my bf (which i wouldn't do) and went after this guy he'd loose interest again.

2007-05-23 12:38:17 · 22 answers · asked by Katelyn Roberts 4 in Singles & Dating

When I was 12 my uncle was looking after me wile mum went out. He ended up sucking my brests and pashing me, I did not do anything to stop it but I just went along with the flow. Is this abuse?

2007-05-23 12:37:59 · 7 answers · asked by εїз♥ ZÕË♥ εїз 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I fell for a guy called "keyboardrocker" but he won't talk to me! online love is best for my cyber dreams i guess! He listened to good music too!

2007-05-23 12:36:30 · 3 answers · asked by Treeluver 1 in Singles & Dating

Its not like Im gonna do anything to have a baby but its weird why is it happening? My bff has a baby.

2007-05-23 12:35:52 · 9 answers · asked by Un-Happy Gilmore 4 in Singles & Dating

I wrote this poem..what do you think?It's called I Hate

I hate the way you look at me, I hate your goregeous eyes
I hate the way you talk to me i hate your stupid lies,
I hate the way you love her and the way she loves you. I hate how you said forever and now we're done and through but most of all i hate the way i love you.

2007-05-23 12:34:45 · 9 answers · asked by R 1 in Singles & Dating

I met my Dad when I was 18. I had to search for him, while he knew where I was till I was 10, and after that all he had to do was ask around, any way now he wants to be in my life but he lives miles away and the only way to see each other is by plane. He wants me to call him yet he pretty much never calls me because he's busy with my brothers and sisters (that's what he says). My mom never asked him to pay child support. My sister has a brand new car he gave her and he buys me a 1997, $4,000 car. There are a lot of other little situations like that, that are really hurting me. I don't want special treatment, just equal treatment, but he makes no intent to take care of me, when he never has, but can and could because has a lot of money. Should I let it go, or just realize he doesn't care?

2007-05-23 12:34:39 · 34 answers · asked by Dood 2 in Family

a guy I reallyyyyy had strange feelings for had weird reactions every time he would see me. we never talked in person, but we communicated on email once... now he graduated, which might mean i might never see him ever again
I am wondering if I would ever find out what those reactions meant....
sometimes his face would light up...
sometimes he would become all nervous
sometimes he would have an arrogant smile on his face
sometimes he would turn REALLY sad (the sadness on his face can be considered quite comparable to the sadness one express when he sees the love of his life walking away with another man, the only thing is i have been single all the time!)
Do I need to mention that I catch him staring at me almost always?
but i think i do need to mention that he has dated in past 4 years, and he has a girlfriend even now
it's not the first time i am crying for him. BUT WHY? i know you people will tell me to move on, but i am curious... what do you guys think, will I ever find out?

2007-05-23 12:33:01 · 4 answers · asked by rose 1 in Singles & Dating

I am twenty and my father is pressuring me to sign a will that makes him the person in charge. While all the money goes to my siblings, I don't feel comfortable giving him all the power.However my parents are divorced and I don't want either of them to be in charge. Is anyone else in a similar situation?

2007-05-23 12:31:22 · 5 answers · asked by Jacklyn 1 in Marriage & Divorce

CRY WITHIN.
HURT EXTEND.
LOVE IS SHORT.
HATE IS STRONG.

LUST IS FAKE.
FEELINGS ARE HURT.
PASSION IS LOST.
KISS IS REAL.

TALKS ARE BLEAK.
LOOKS CAN KILL.
EMBRACE IS LOST.
NEED IS GONE.

WANT IS REAL.
TOUCH IS COLD.
HEAT IS WARM.
HEART IS TORN.

LAUGHS ARE SILENT.
SMILE WILL FADE.
PAIN IS LONG.
IT'S NOT THE SAME.

SLEEP IS DEATH.
LIFE IS HARD.
DREAMS ARE COLD.
HEART IS CHARRED.

2007-05-23 12:31:07 · 6 answers · asked by redina_lawson 1 in Singles & Dating

i have to have him as a dance partner in PE and when we have to stop to learn a new move people tell me he checks me out and he is always staring at me even when we arent danceing

2007-05-23 12:30:10 · 1 answers · asked by Vikki[Rawhr] 3 in Singles & Dating

I saw this guy at Mcdonalds i was in the car waiting in line then this boy walks out he saw me while he was walking and smiled at me then turned away then like 5 seconds later he looked back at me and starred at me while he was walking.

The next day i saw him at school, should i go up and talk to him and how should i aproach him?

2007-05-23 12:29:18 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-23 12:29:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

After you had your first child how did you find it? Did you find yourself more vulnerable than usual to the lures of other woman during this time? (ie were u more tempted to have an affair if the opportunity presented itself) if so what was the worst time, up 3 months after birth, up to 6months after or over 6months?

2007-05-23 12:28:14 · 9 answers · asked by allyspringflower 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Here's the list of comments of things she says & does...

1) She heard me callin my bf by the nickname that only i call him, "papi" (it means daddy but in a sexy way)& she started callin him papi.
2) She saw that he opened doors 4me & hugged me all the time & she gave me a weird look.
3) She told me in front of him that i better not cheat on him because then she's gonna take him and then laugh & said im just kidding
4) A few weeks later my bf brought me 3 roses (plastic ones)..so she started talkin crap & said that fake roses is fake love &i said..its the tought that counts, it means alot 2me & she asked me if im gonna marry him and told me that she thinks that were not meant to be.
5) She dresses like a whore around him & acts like shes the best lookin girl around.
6) She tried hooking me up with some guy knowing that i already have a bf & i said No.

Should i keep being friends with her? Is she a backstabbing ***** who wants my bf?

2007-05-23 12:25:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-23 12:22:23 · 24 answers · asked by phantomgirl714 2 in Singles & Dating

date a girl with brown hair green eyes, medium body, not fat, nice hair haha, nice attitude. kinda shy but not very much more outgoing than shy. fun to be around. would you date a girl like that cause i havent been asked out once and i dont no why

2007-05-23 12:21:29 · 18 answers · asked by Oklahomachick 2 in Singles & Dating

After you had your first child how did you find it? Did you find yourself more vulnerable than usual to the lures of other woman during this time? (ie were u more tempted to have an affair if the opportunity presented itself) if so what was the worst time, up 3 months after birth, up to 6months after or over 6months?

2007-05-23 12:21:07 · 7 answers · asked by allyspringflower 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my mom never believes half of the things i say. i tell her i am bi-polar, she says, no you arent! i feel as though i need to go to the dr. even a dr note/prescription wouldnt help, i feel like she wouldnt pay for the medication. i recently hurt my ankle in my softball game, and she says, oh you will be fine and has me doing chores around the house, while my ankle is in pain. now my father did lie/cheat on her when they were together so could she have a trust issue? she thinks im just trying to get attention. what do i do? how can i get her to listen to me?

2007-05-23 12:19:24 · 5 answers · asked by helpful and helpless 2 in Family

2007-05-23 12:16:38 · 7 answers · asked by mickjack 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey! I have a small problem - someone is being mean. A REALLY BITCHY girl called me a "Manly-Hobo". What diss can I respond on my AIM profile to her about it? She says "manly hobo" about me in her profile, so i need something to say back about it, prefferbally a diss. I'll choose a best answer soon!

2007-05-23 12:14:31 · 9 answers · asked by no name 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 13, didn't think and, went to a mall with some friends, forgot to ask my mom, had to ask her to pick me there. I didn't do anything bad, but it was wrong. I apologized, mom was nice but gave me a lesson. Yesterday afternoon I had to stay home doing some chores. Mom made me put on a cute frilly apron and told me to keep it on. I didn't complain, I know I messed up, mom treated me with love and it was a light punishment. My parents were at work and I stayed home doing my chores. It happened that 2 of mom's fellows came home that afternoon and since mom was out I had to help them . I didn't know if I was allowed to take off my apron to receive them and I didn't think it'd be Ok to call her at her job, so I didn't take it off. They laughed, said I looked cute in it, asked what I was doing and I told the truth. I got embarrassed. When I told mom she laughed too, said there was no problem, gave me a big hug and kisses. But I'm embarrassed,

2007-05-23 12:03:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Why are there so many mean people in this world? Why cant' people treat people nicely and not make fun of them or any other kind of humiliation?What is wrong with these people in the world?

2007-05-23 12:02:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I swear to God I can't keep up with her mood swings and circular logic. I beg her to stop arguing and she will for 10 minutes and start back up again. It's like being trapped in an endless loop! If I think I've satisfied one particular topic of argument, she'll take a completely different path and I have to start all over! Is it her, me, or are all women just nuts!?

2007-05-23 12:02:29 · 26 answers · asked by Max 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-23 12:00:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He just won't let me in!

2007-05-23 11:50:16 · 10 answers · asked by Priscilla * 1 in Singles & Dating

I have had physical custody of my children, alone, for 9 months. Their father and I were never married, but were together 7 years (without commonlaw). We have a pending custody case. I want to help my mother who just lost my father. I would like to leave state for 5-6 months. Can I do this? I have been calling my lawyer all day and she has not returned my calls yet.

2007-05-23 11:48:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce