Family & Relationships - 23 May 2007

2007-05-23 01:42:38 · 4 answers · asked by jenn p 3 in Weddings

2007-05-23 01:36:35 · 32 answers · asked by G?ld?n ang?l 5 in Singles & Dating

Actually, we met through a friend. He's a black guy who really smooth talks & really makes you felt appreciated. After few meetings which ended with great sex, I felt so alive like a woman after so long which I have missed. Well, whenever we meet sometimes he asked for money. As I think I loved him so I gave him few hundreds. When I questioned him a lot, he don't want to answer. He hardly talked to me like any lover would do. But he kept asking me money after having sex & after a awhile I asked myself, "Is he a gigolo"? He said he wants to send some stuff to his home & do some business. The question is, "Maybe somebody kept him as a toy boy"? I can't stop thinking about him & I'm craving for sex with him. I can't keep him out of my mind. I think I have fallen in love with him but I know he's not to me. Or maybe it's only a lust? He really knows how to do me right & I can't erase him out of my mind..Guys, what do you think? Is he for real?

2007-05-23 01:35:11 · 9 answers · asked by Brenda 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this really nice guy , we are falling in love for each other , however he lives in London and I live in NYC ... he wants me to move to London this Summer :) he wants to get married .. i do too.... but i think its too soon .. what would you do ?

2007-05-23 01:31:38 · 11 answers · asked by jhonatanms 2 in Singles & Dating

My dad hates my mums partner (who she left my dad for).

I am planning my wedding and of course want dad to give me away but he says he won't go if "he's" there! I refuse to not have my step dad there and really want him to be part of it.

I know my dad will be talked round to coming without causing a fuss but how can I keep my step dad involved in the day without making my dad angry?

I wish they could both give me away without falling out!! That could never happen though.

I thought about asking my step dad to make a speech aswell at the sit down dinner but I think that will just make dad angry. I just don't know what to do.

2007-05-23 01:30:32 · 15 answers · asked by loopy_deb 1 in Weddings

i'm a lil curious cos i was having a convo with my friend about it and was wondering if they are full blood like your brother and sister?

2007-05-23 01:27:59 · 22 answers · asked by laughing_stock 1 in Family

keep me warm like Im suppose to be
love me with all your might and all intense
intwinted together lika a chain linked fence

Hold me..caress me
leaving my heart in your hands to be
wishing you were mine..
shutting out everything but you and me..in the late sunshine

Hold me..tease me..
Giving me your hand in my hand as it should be
In bed and having that someone to hold
Keeping the love and me out of cold

Hold me..love me..
Love you so..Never letting you go
The way you make me feel is irreplaceable
This is where I will stay within your arms
Just hold me..

2007-05-23 01:27:05 · 25 answers · asked by G?ld?n ang?l 5 in Singles & Dating

I had an affair with a coworker while I was living with my husband before we got married. Now I am married and have two children. My husband never found out about the affair. I regret what I did. I still work with the man I had the affair with. Occasionally he will bring it up like he wants to revisit. However, I tell him I am happily married. Do you think I am asking for disaster. Once a cheat always a cheat?

2007-05-23 01:17:25 · 20 answers · asked by Junebaby 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-23 01:14:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My friend 5month bills payment not yet pay! On the phone the bill collector assault him with buggle words & ask him to pay by tomorow, they also triterning to beat him,my friend lost his job 5month ago due to his sickness & no 1 assept him for a job.Now he lost his home & now he stay together with his son at his son home. My friend call police make a report for what has happern. Police officer give him a report for him to proceed at the court of laws. What will happern to him if he decide to go or not to go. & yes the bill collector already know he is making a Police report. Can you help me with this problem? It ok no ask for no mony just brain storming.

2007-05-23 01:13:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

she's verbally and mentally abusive; on the other hand, she's smothering and overprotective! But I'm 34. We've NEVER had a good relationship.

She recently told me that when I was in college, she wished I would've gone to school closer to home, so she could have been on campus with me EVERY DAY. Uh, why?! Maybe some kids want that but who NEEDS that? I told her that wasn't normal AT ALL. And my mother protested vehemently. Then my aunt agreed with me, and if I recall, my mom didn't respond much. Bu I'm sure inwardly she still disagreed.

Before you ask, yes, she was severely neglected and abused as a kid on into adulthood (mainly by her own mom). So I understand her REASONS. Her sense of reality is distorted. But how can we bring it back into focus?

I recently told her she needs help, but she refuses. However, being around her makes me a tad sick. I just try to stay away so she won't drive me crazy too. But that's wrong...Help!

2007-05-23 00:53:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

what attracts girls when they see a boy

2007-05-23 00:50:50 · 14 answers · asked by boss big boss 1 in Singles & Dating

i know this guy{best friend} he has this girlfriend that hes having probs with and well, me and my friends dont like her because she dont meet him half way and everything and well hes debating weither or not to break up with her!!
when i say meet him half way, its the seeing situation, she invite him to hang with her and when cody asks her to hang out with him she says no!
what should he do?

2007-05-23 00:47:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-23 00:45:51 · 22 answers · asked by tracyw 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am not clingy. I never have and possibly never will want to get married. I meet 'players' who persue me relentlessly. I'm extremely diffucult to get into bed so that can keeps them chasing for months and months. I'm talking 6 months!. I've done some serious 'fear of rejection and abandonment' therapy work which I hope will help me stop attracting men who eventually will end up rejecting me. I can keep them interested for months on end by not going to bed with them but they all disappear even if I've dated them for 6 months before sleeping with them. Apart from doing some therapy.....which I've done.....and I'm now assessing the 'type' of man ie is he a player before I get involved. Is there anything esle I can do? I'm
going to chill with my friends this summer and leave the whole 'dating' thing on the back burner and just enjoy my life. Just wondered if you guys have any advice?

2007-05-23 00:44:50 · 7 answers · asked by samsara 2 in Singles & Dating

my ouestion is wondering if he now i like him now because of that . idont now what to do when i see him again

2007-05-23 00:44:39 · 4 answers · asked by pamathason@alltel.net 1 in Singles & Dating

We have know each other for a year.Me and most of my friends think she likes me.But everytime I tell her that I love you...She always says..i want to b BFF(best friend forever)...what should i do?...should i keep trying...or move on..please help...thanks...

2007-05-23 00:44:29 · 7 answers · asked by Erik Oo 1 in Singles & Dating

I've liked this chick for about, 1 Year, thereabouts. (I'm grade 12, She's 11). I'll take it back a few months. Started working on her. After doing alot of stuff...i.e getting her a awesome job etc, i told her how i feel. She said, well i like you, but i've just broken up with my BF so i need some time, fair enough.

Week later, she said she likes me but she wants to be friends.

Since then, i kinda turned off her. But of recent times the fire has woken up inside me again.

My friend spoke to her - she said she likes me, but she's not sure how much. And she doesn't want to hurt me.
My friend, (who is also a girl) says after everything that i've done for her, it would make almost any girl turn for me...but she hasn't..

Would someone be able to post some advise, or something i could do, because this is really, really eating me up.

Thanks in advance!

2007-05-23 00:42:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with my fiancee for 5 years, between us we have 4 young kids. 2 of them I had from another relationship and 2 are by him. Anyhow, he makes lots more money then me. I could make more, but since I am the one who has to worry about babysitters I have to work around his schedual, so I just work part time as a cna. He wants full controll of his money, wants to see receipts for all things bought and wants me to okay all purchases with him. We just got in a big fight because I bought my kids some clothes on clearance without asking, he made me take them back! He acts like we live so bad that he has to oversee every cent spent, but financially, we live okay. Our utilities are always on, we have phone, satelite, internet, pets. He acts like we barely scape by. i admit there have been times I over spent, but it was not a crisis type situation. I just dont think i am liking being treated like I am one of the kids. Is what he's doing wrong, or am I the one who's wrong?

2007-05-23 00:41:49 · 35 answers · asked by tomesphotos 3 in Marriage & Divorce

See I have a problem, when there is a full moon out i turn into a werewolf. I can't help unless I take a silver bullet but the sadly would end my life. Anyways whats happened in the past is that I would go out with this girl and usually I would try to avoid full moon nights but once in a while they sneak up. One second we'll be having an intellectual conversation and then the next turn into a raging werewolf. Now mind you that I dont attack my date, just the people around them. Anyways after they see that they break up with me. This in turn makes me into a sad werewolf. I just don't want to be a sad werewolf anymore, just a happy werewolf with someone I love. Do you think this is possible or will I always be a sad heartbroken werewolf.

2007-05-23 00:41:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do girls like licking breasts as much as guys do?

2007-05-23 00:39:36 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband recently began thinking about getting circumcised. Oddly enough i've never been with a circumcised man and didn't really know how to respond when he told me he was thinking about having it done? Is it really any different at all? Will lovemaking feel different? Has anyone been in a similar situation? Well any answers/advice would help really.

2007-05-23 00:38:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay so im just goin 2 wing it is wierd that dating a black boy if im white i luv him a lot!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-05-23 00:37:19 · 7 answers · asked by jayh.ishotshit 1 in Singles & Dating

when were on the phone ill say i love you ad hell just say bye... hes never been in a realationship before

2007-05-23 00:35:47 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The guy that I'm going out with, his name is Cody, is very sweet and he's kinda cute. He goes to the same school as me, but he's getting held back so I won't get to see him very much. Then the other guy I like, his name is Jacob, is really funny and also kinda cute. He goes to my church, so I see him less often too, but the church has a lot of activities for the teens to do, so I don't just see him twice a week. In fact, there is a "Lock-In" at the church on Friday. I like funny guys and sweet guys. Cody makes my heart melt with sweetness while Jacob brings joyful tears to my eyes. Should I get rid of Cody and tell Jacob how I feel? Or should I just keep Cody and stay friends with Jacob? HELP ME!!!

2007-05-23 00:34:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, yesterday my guy friend was suppose to come over along with Monday. This is not the first time he has done this. Should I stop taking to him or should I keep talking to him.

2007-05-23 00:31:53 · 10 answers · asked by <Instert Message Here> 2 in Singles & Dating

i mean like it dosent hav to b like that but.........??

2007-05-23 00:29:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

what would u do if u found out that the father of ur child that u love so dearly, is messing around with ur sister? He has asked me to marry him here recently and then everything just stopped and he doesnt come around anymore. Then u find out he has been hanging out with ur sister, who is very flighty. What should i do this is killing me inside it seems that she is always doing this with friends and other family members in the past. We are so sick of it. How do i deal with such intense emotions?

2007-05-23 00:25:39 · 13 answers · asked by boo 2 in Friends

2007-05-23 00:18:12 · 21 answers · asked by MOMO 2 in Singles & Dating

Met this guy last fri, had a cheeky snog and hes asked me out this fri for some drinks to chill and have a laugh, any tips? not dated or been on the scene for a long time, got out of a 3yr relationship a few months ago so its all new again, really like this guy!

2007-05-23 00:10:45 · 15 answers · asked by H 1 in Singles & Dating