Actually, we met through a friend. He's a black guy who really smooth talks & really makes you felt appreciated. After few meetings which ended with great sex, I felt so alive like a woman after so long which I have missed. Well, whenever we meet sometimes he asked for money. As I think I loved him so I gave him few hundreds. When I questioned him a lot, he don't want to answer. He hardly talked to me like any lover would do. But he kept asking me money after having sex & after a awhile I asked myself, "Is he a gigolo"? He said he wants to send some stuff to his home & do some business. The question is, "Maybe somebody kept him as a toy boy"? I can't stop thinking about him & I'm craving for sex with him. I can't keep him out of my mind. I think I have fallen in love with him but I know he's not to me. Or maybe it's only a lust? He really knows how to do me right & I can't erase him out of my mind..Guys, what do you think? Is he for real?
2007-05-23 01:35:11 · 9 answers · asked by Brenda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you know he doesn't love you, get a grip. STOP sleeping with the man and keep your wallet out of it, too!
2007-05-23 01:43:36 · answer #1 · answered by Clear as a Bell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you were looking for guys to answer your question, but don't you think he's using you? He's not the only guy in the world that can treat you the way you like...let alone, how you should be treated. And he's not the only guy that can sex you the way want/like. Sometimes it's hard for us females to break a bond after sex (especially good sex, and emotions), but why would you want to waste your time with someone who doesn't enjoy your conversation, steals the milk he gets for free, and is living off of your expense like that? Sounds a little ungrateful too. His mind is somewhere else, wasting your time. I say you should find someone better. Don't sell yourself short just because the situation looks good to you. Don't be caught up (especially in the wrong place, at the wrong time).
2007-05-23 08:55:21 · answer #2 · answered by Ladywisdom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you are in a bit of a fix. He does not care for you and exchanges the pleasure he gives you for money. You can do one of two things; you can continue to get pleasured and keep on giving him money, or you can say no to his monetary demands. I am suspicious that once you refuse to give him more money, he will withdraw his sexual favors also. Meaning that he is not with you for the right reasons. Either way you choose to go you should not know falling in love will not do you any good. Shake that feeling off because it does belong in that situation. You are getting good booty and have convinced yourself that you are in love. It takes more for love to brew.
By the way, why did you add his racial information. Did you think that would help in clarifying anything? what has being black got to do with it?
2007-05-23 08:50:52 · answer #3 · answered by jaygirl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is a gigolo. Then it would be lust he dusnt seemt o make you want him emotionally jsut physically. If you wnna keep paying him for sex do so btu sont expect him to fall in love with you.
2007-05-23 08:41:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Gosh! Get away from him totally. He is just playing with you and you even paid him???
Take good care of yourself, you only need sometime to forget about him.
2007-05-23 08:44:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think if you are willing to pay for his service then it's fine.
but don't expect him to love you and no, he's not for real.
set a limit for yourself, don't keep paying him more and more.
please be very careful, if he will sleep with you for money then he probably would do with other people.
be safe.
2007-05-23 08:47:51 · answer #6 · answered by phyco bunny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My own opinion is he is either using you for money, or he might be a male prostitute who might have any real feeling for you.
2007-05-23 08:44:19 · answer #7 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to be a toyboy,don't be his piggy bank.
Ain't love,ain't mutual.
2007-05-23 08:49:10 · answer #8 · answered by amleth 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
troll
2007-05-23 08:43:00 · answer #9 · answered by SvetlanaFunGirl 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋