Family & Relationships - 23 May 2007

Alright, Here goes: I went to my fiancee's softball game and for the first time since they have started playing they won 17 to 7 and all the other fiancee's and girlfriends and wives that were sitting over by the diamond they were playing on said stuff like "you know we are getting some tonight" and I knew that I was the onlyo ne who wouldn't be... so the game is over and he gives me a victory kiss and all that and we leave to go pick up our kid's from the sitters and go home....on the way home I asked him jokingly if "i would be getting some" and he said "you work 11-5 tonight and you are off tommorrow so we can celebrate tommorrow" so I left it at that and went to work, the whole time I was at work i couldn't help but be upset over the fact that it's been a month since we last did anything and he keeps avoiding it, I wrote him a note for him to see this morning when he got up for work and it basically said that I acknowledge other couples affection and am wondering where we lost ours

2007-05-23 03:51:24 · 13 answers · asked by Sam Fisher 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm from a generation where divorce is natural. So I work hard at my relationship to make sure that I won't be a casuality of divorce. I've been married for 6 years, to a man that I love very much. We've been through some really tough times and some really great times. We argue sometimes though. One time about 3 years ago we got in such a heated arguement (about gas in a car of all things, of which I started) that he grabbed me and pushed me (only after I threw a very full can of slimfast at him). He apologized and said it would never happen again. However, the other night we got into an arguement (this time i didn't start it...a first for me), it escalated to a point where he pushed me onto the bed and pinned me down and yelled at me. It scared me beyond belief. I love my husband, but I'm scared of him now. I don't want to get a divorce, this is the man I wan to have kids with. He apologized and cried, but I don't know. Is this marriage worth saving?

2007-05-23 03:51:10 · 21 answers · asked by Kymberlee J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I like someone and lately he has been asking me lots of personal stuff about myself. I did tell him a while ago that I liked him (not like that, I meant it as a friendly thing) and I was surprised that I was opening up to him and telling him stuff that I usually keep private. One day he was asking stuff and I said "Why have you gone all 50 cent on me?" In other words why the 21 questions like the song. He looked embarrassed like he'd been caught out and just said "I think i've heard that song" then talked about something else. However he is still asking stuff so I've started asking him more personal stuff and he is eager to answer. We talk about our families and stuff in the past as well as now. I am really starting to get attracted to him because we get along so well and we talk and laugh for ages. He has also asked about previous boyfriends that I took as an attempt to find out how many I've had! When he asks these questions he goes very serious and stares at me. Is he interested?

2007-05-23 03:51:02 · 16 answers · asked by Kelly M 1 in Singles & Dating

I have hung out with this woman three times so far and everything seems too perfect. We have the same goals in life and we have this chemistry I haven't experienced much.....

2007-05-23 03:48:34 · 1 answers · asked by Mike B 1 in Singles & Dating

once there was a girl my class i liked her a lot but i never got the chance to
tell her that i liked her.after some time a boy called dinny came into my path and gaythri also liked him i was heart broken but one day when dinny and gayathri where figthing and suddenly she began to cry i took her to the bathroom and gave her some wine then i acted like going into he bathroom
and i unlocked it purposfully so she came inside and i was naked and we began to have sex then we became gf and bf.

2007-05-23 03:47:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been discussing marriage. He is 25 and I am 38. We have both been married before but truly feel like we are meant for each other. He is the love of my life. My parents love him and I get along great with his family (my parents hated my ex and can see how wonderful my boyfriend is to me and how respectful he is to them).

He told me that he plans to approach my dad for his blessing before he proposes to me out of respect for my parents. Is this done anymore? I love him for even thinking of doing this but I didnt think this was a common thing anymore. What do you think?

2007-05-23 03:46:31 · 11 answers · asked by Kelly 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We have a bet going so please be honest.
Thanks.

2007-05-23 03:46:12 · 3 answers · asked by Jessica 4 in Singles & Dating

My significant other's daughter has an abusive mother, his daughter who's nine actually went to the school nurse and counselor Monday to report some bruising and two different violent situations. The school called him and they both called Children's Services. They're in the middle of a custody battle, but a court date has not been set yet. What are the chances Children's Services won't do a lot, if they notify the mother, this will give her a chance to clean up and do things right etc...but we both firmly believe this will make the mother mad and will escalate causing more damange to her daughter.

2007-05-23 03:46:07 · 16 answers · asked by suzlaa1971 5 in Family

a year and half ago (I think he was going through a mid-life crisis). We have both dated other people in the interim. He now says he still loves me and wants to try again. I admit I do still have feelings for him. Should I even consider such a proprosal??

2007-05-23 03:45:15 · 9 answers · asked by 13th Floor 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-23 03:44:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-23 03:44:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-23 03:40:29 · 34 answers · asked by terialovesbrianaandkimara2010 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have a friend who would love to be my friend with "benefits" im extremely turned on by this friend but im not sure thats its a smart decision ive only had "benefits" lol twice in my life and i would really love to but is it to risque even if its only once
im totally confused because on top of that i a not in love with this friend and i wanted to wait until i was trully in love to have benefits but ive been celibiate or almost a year and i really want some benefits.......ok what should i do

2007-05-23 03:39:44 · 8 answers · asked by mzcokeacolababy07 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-23 03:39:35 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Tell him early in the day how naughty you've been and that you need a good spanking later on? Then slip into bed only after he is fast asleep.

Doesn't work though....... I just got it the next morning!

2007-05-23 03:37:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we.ve dated 5 times and she knows we are in love with each other. i am so confused!!!!
please help me

2007-05-23 03:37:24 · 16 answers · asked by cheetoh/ waffles 1 in Singles & Dating

how does it feel to lose someone u love?....especially in the family?
....whats the point of having a family anyway? pls help me answer these questions...im doing an essay!! pls pls pls.

2007-05-23 03:36:30 · 14 answers · asked by blah blah 1 in Family

pls help

2007-05-23 03:36:22 · 4 answers · asked by franky 2 in Friends

I love a girl very much and I've been kind of a jerk lately. what are some things i can do for her to prove to her that she is the best thing since sliced bread? and cheese? haha thank you

2007-05-23 03:33:28 · 26 answers · asked by Sconeage 2 in Singles & Dating

I have 7 brothers and sisters, and my mom lives with me.. I am finding it very hard everyday to see how my mom is slowly losing herself....She is 79 yrs.old,she's been through alot in her life,she has a big scar on her back from when she was working in the rice fields in Japan (16yrs.old),when the USA bombed Japan..she married my dad and came to the states,raised 8 children,dealt with my dad's drinking,hasn't been back to Japan since she left,almost 50 yrs. later...My siblings live about 30 or 40 miles from us,and no one calls or comes by to see her,almost like they forgot about her,(to busy with their own lives)of course atleast 5 out of 7 of them would call on mothers day,and certian holidays..Dementia is where she's at right now...I'm heartbroken watching her everyday,it doesn't get any better,I am 43yrs.old,i have custody of my 4yr.old granddaughter,so if I want to go anywhere ever, i have to get a sitter for both of them...The funny thing is ..my mom never liked me growing up.....

2007-05-23 03:32:55 · 12 answers · asked by tamichon 1 in Family

2007-05-23 03:32:46 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Am i to young to fall in love i mean when im around him its like......... i dnt kno i feel so good!!!!!!!!

2007-05-23 03:30:33 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I paid for their dresses, so I was wondering if I should give them something small, and if so, what should I give them? Thanks

2007-05-23 03:29:35 · 41 answers · asked by mannasox 4 in Weddings

hi,all am 20 years old its been for a long time am in love with my cousine,i couldnt tell her yet but last saturday i called her and i asked her to come out with me,i wanna tell her that i love being with her,do you think i should tell her before going out?or should i just keep it for the time we go out?and by the way do you think it makes sense?that i have fallen in love with the daughter of my uncle?and do you think she will accept it?thank you all for your opinion.lol

2007-05-23 03:29:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

After 8 months of being with the one you love in an amazing relationship to the point where you made that person your life, how do you move on. To top it all off you both want to be together, but your forced not to be because the love of your life must move back home 100 of miles away, due to not being able to support himself here. WHAT DO I DO , MY HEART IS IN A MILLION PEICES.

2007-05-23 03:29:09 · 22 answers · asked by Sammi 3 in Marriage & Divorce

How long does it take to get served papers after filing for divorce? My husband told me he filed for divorce 2 weeks ago and I still haven't gotten papers. Then he told my boss that he was just thinking about it. Was he telling me the truth when he said he filed already? Should I have already gotten served if he did?

2007-05-23 03:27:48 · 17 answers · asked by chris_afgirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm happily married and have feelings for someone else at my job.

We started out as friends, and I really want to make sure I remain friends. How do I turn off my romantic feelings?

BTW: I have no idea if she feels the same about me.

2007-05-23 03:27:16 · 15 answers · asked by lazlo_dei 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi,

This happened last night that I happened to see scratches on my husband's back (I did take 3 pictures of the scratches). The moment I saw those red scratches on his back, I was steamingly MAD and asked him how those scractches got on his back.

The reason I was mad because the scratches looked exactly like someone with 10 long fingernails scracthed on both sides horizontally on his back. And the scratches are red.

He told me he must have got them from working out at the gym. I said how that could happen when he had his T-shirt on while working out. They really did not look like to me that he got hurt with those scratches from working out.

What do you think? Please give me any insight if does this make sense to you or anyone of you have had this experience. I don't want to be a fool in my marriage and most importantly, I can't never accept to be cheated on. We have no kid yet and have been married for almost 7 years.

I do want to end this marriage now. Thanks a lot!

2007-05-23 03:26:14 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

totally naked

2007-05-23 03:25:06 · 21 answers · asked by Oceanbreeze 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been engaged since February but we are planning to get married in October 2008. As much as I'd like a traditional church wedding, my family and friends are scattered about, as are his, and I'm afraid we won't have much turn out in a traditional wedding anyway. Plus, I'm not too keen on dealing with all the pre-wedding drama that is often involved with having bridesmaids and all that crap. But, at the same time, I do want our immediate family and maybe our closest 2 friends involved. We've been toying with the idea of a Vegas wedding. So what are the pros and cons of Vegas versus the pros and cons of a traditional affair? Basically, which type of wedding is easiest to plan and pull off? Because I don't want to be a Bridezilla!!!! So what is your advice for me? What should I do?

2007-05-23 03:22:20 · 16 answers · asked by Beth 4 in Weddings