a year and half ago (I think he was going through a mid-life crisis). We have both dated other people in the interim. He now says he still loves me and wants to try again. I admit I do still have feelings for him. Should I even consider such a proprosal??
2007-05-23 03:45:15 · 9 answers · asked by 13th Floor 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tutto: We weren't 'whoring around' as you put it. Neither of us dated others while together.
2007-05-23 03:52:58 · update #1
Thanks for the answers. Would also like to hear from anybody who went through a similiar situation. How did it work out?
2007-05-23 04:28:30 · update #2
Well if you still have feelings for him then give it another try. It will be hard to repair the breach that the separation has caused however. I would suggest front loading with some counseling. Get to the bottom of why he wished to separate before and make sure it doesn't happen again. I would think you should expect some reassurances before proceding
2007-05-23 03:50:45 · answer #1 · answered by Devdude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel there is really something there to salvage. Can you really be with him after he has been with others? Will this not taint your views of him? Betrayal can come in many forms, even though you both agreed. Better to be sure than to hurt each other again.
2007-05-23 10:52:51 · answer #2 · answered by lee911 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess that would all depend on how you feel about him. Do you still love him? Are you still in love with him? Do you WANT your marriage to work. If you're not sure right now, I would definately not make any rash decisions at this point.
2007-05-23 11:07:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why not, if you still love him and he still loves you go for it we all think at one time or another that the grass is greener on the other side only to find out we had the best at home not all of us react on it but it could have really helped him find out that you are the best take him back if you still love him
2007-05-23 10:50:46 · answer #4 · answered by emma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? It can't hurt, if he pulls this stunt again then don't go back. This time could have been mid life crisis, if it happens again then he is just flat out FLAKEY!!!
2007-05-23 10:51:38 · answer #5 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If really you two are married coupples and being loving to each other,why cant you fogive your partner in love?cause even our god Jehovah forgave us and he's still forgiving us in our unaccountable trasspasses we commit, so why we human being cant forgive each other? "The peaceful life is to forgive one and another and even to forget all that led to rift" Go and accept each other onto one's anothers life, love each other!
2007-05-23 11:12:23 · answer #6 · answered by anicet m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely 2nd chances are always nice. First try to nail down ur relationship by dating a lot then secure it (buy him things he likes)
2007-05-23 10:50:22 · answer #7 · answered by youthebestboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how does ur husband feel about u? coz he shouldn't hv dumped u coz of his mid-life crisis. its for better and worse till death do u part.but follow ur heart gal
2007-05-23 11:05:05 · answer #8 · answered by Sharon N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, only if you can fully dedicate yourselfs to each other and stop whorring around
2007-05-23 10:50:15 · answer #9 · answered by Tutto Bene 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋