After 8 months of being with the one you love in an amazing relationship to the point where you made that person your life, how do you move on. To top it all off you both want to be together, but your forced not to be because the love of your life must move back home 100 of miles away, due to not being able to support himself here. WHAT DO I DO , MY HEART IS IN A MILLION PEICES.
2007-05-23 03:29:09 · 22 answers · asked by Sammi 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why don't you just move with him?
2007-05-23 03:31:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
100 miles isn't that far. You guys can still meet for dinner a few night's a week. This will give you enough time to find a job closer to him and him time to find a job that he can support himself. I'm currently in a relationship to where my g/f is about 45miles away but i'm over another 50 miles from work. I commute to see her once a week and she does the same. Then on weekends we either stay at her's or mine. This is a little hard to do as well so you must be willing to trust one another and love one another. Try it first and see. I would think depending on your job and pay you may not want to leave there. So you must do what is right for you.
2007-05-23 10:40:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question is... why isn't he able to support himself??? Is he moving back with his parents? Also, what does he say about moving far from you? Has he offered you to go with him?
Like everyone else before me has said... move close to his area ( I do not say with him cause I do not know if he;s moving back to his parents house). You could try the long distance thing but it will be difficult in the long as he might start getting his own social life and in the end it might end the relationship...
Think it through, discuss it with him... make your decision wisely...
Hope all goes well...
2007-05-23 10:57:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure what your age is. But if you are a grown woman then I would offer my home to him. If you really love him, you two will stay together no matter what. If you're living with someone, it might be time to move out or you might lose a good thing 1000 miles away. What are you afraid of if this person makes you feel like he is your world? Hello????
2007-05-23 10:46:28 · answer #4 · answered by Inquiring mind wants to know.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a breath and let it out. If you love him that much and want to be with him why move on. Just be with him. Let him move back and get a job then you go join him. If its meant to be then it will be. If you work (cause you haven't said) see if you can get a transfer. If you cant transfer then look on the net in that area and see if you can get a job there. If you really love someone than you are going to want to be with them not matter where they are.
2007-05-23 10:48:09 · answer #5 · answered by mystic_butterfly_420 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you too love each other, when he moves, go with him!!! I feel in love with my guy online and we meet and I moved here to be with him, 310 miles away from all my family and friends, if you two are meant to be together and you love each other so much, your hearts will tell you what to do!!!
2007-05-23 10:45:24 · answer #6 · answered by Our hearts are taken!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is too special to let it go because of geography. If it is that amazing, then find a way to go with him. 100 miles is not the end of the earth. I have driven farther to go to a restaurant for dinner.
2007-05-23 10:33:13 · answer #7 · answered by Jbuns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
100 miles is no distance. You can be together. Weekend meetings and distance between you on week days will make life thrilling and exciting. It will also allow you both freedom in your professional lives.
I will say Move On but together....
Think about those who, after coming together talk about space for themselves in their life
2007-05-23 10:37:31 · answer #8 · answered by iiiyyyeee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the love is as strong as you say it is - nothing should be able to keep the two of you apart! Think it through and work it out! You have options! Not being together shouldn't be one of them!!
2007-05-23 10:35:11 · answer #9 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long distance things are rough. correct me if im wrong but you sound a little young. just rememebr that if it was meant to be, then you would find a way. or maybe either of you are just not williing to go thru some really hard **** to be together. either case, just remember that you had a life before them, and you can have one after them.
2007-05-23 10:32:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you willing to make a commitment for your love? Move with him. Abandon your job, your friends, your life and everything you know. And go. Just go.
2007-05-23 10:35:27 · answer #11 · answered by John Timothy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋