i have a friend who would love to be my friend with "benefits" im extremely turned on by this friend but im not sure thats its a smart decision ive only had "benefits" lol twice in my life and i would really love to but is it to risque even if its only once
im totally confused because on top of that i a not in love with this friend and i wanted to wait until i was trully in love to have benefits but ive been celibiate or almost a year and i really want some benefits.......ok what should i do
2007-05-23 03:39:44 · 8 answers · asked by mzcokeacolababy07 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its probably not a good idea because you could develop feelings for him, or the opposite you could lose total interest altogether and he may expect you to be his booty call and bother you all the time....hold out for someone you really love, it makes it so much better and you wont ruin your body and repuatation having sex with friends
2007-05-23 03:44:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, as long as it's completely understood and agreed upon between both parties. The last thing you want is for one of you to fall in love and not have that returned by the other. That's the risk you run.
2007-05-23 03:53:49 · answer #2 · answered by Charlie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the situation. You could start out and not have any feelings for him but if you continue to do it your feelings for him might grow. If you really want to wait then wait, but the choice is yours only you can tell yourself what to do.
2007-05-23 03:50:14 · answer #3 · answered by ~Devin~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Benefit yourself with toys.
2007-05-23 03:45:44 · answer #4 · answered by joey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No regardless of the situation
2007-05-23 03:42:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not for your third time, you'll only get hurt.
Why isn't he asking you to be his girlfriend?
2007-05-23 03:49:48 · answer #6 · answered by Goddess of Grammar 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly want to be his sex buddy, then do it. Please don't do it out of the kindness of your heart for him. IIf you don't want to have him as your sex buddy, then maintain your celibacy until you're ready.
2007-05-23 03:49:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not ok, things ALWAYS get complicated.
2007-05-23 03:43:03 · answer #8 · answered by smiley4 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋